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Feeling Alone
Asked by P.F. from Washington DC
on September 8, 2009
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My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years and have been together 13. HOwever since the birth of our daughter 2 years ago he is not there for me. He moved...
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- For my husband I sat him down and explained how he was missing the best years of being a Dad. Before he knows it his girls will be gone and he missed it all. I fou...
- Two things come to mind: 1. He's being incredibly selfish. 2. The only person you can change is yourself. That said the counceling, even if just for yoursel...
- it's so surprising to so many of us how hard having a longed-for, beloved baby can be on a marriage. we assume that we'll be in tune with so many things like parental ...
Need Advise on Home Repairs
Asked by V.D. from Cincinnati
on March 20, 2007
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My husband and i bought a house 3 yrs ago, it is a duplex and we live on the second floor. Instead of paying child support his exwife lives downstairs with their 3 kid...
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- As a renter and the daughter to a landlord, contact your local city building community service office, they can tell you what you have to fix, etc.. Also, I am assumi...
- Better you then me... I would neverrrrrrrr go for that. You are a saint !!! I'd be making him pay child support !!!!
- Well, V., unless you have a lease stating what repairs she will be responsible for and requiring her to contribute to the house payment, all the responsibility falls o...
Relationship Falling Apart
Asked by H.C. from Memphis
on August 29, 2007
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my boyfriend of 4 yrs the father of my 9month old son and i are not getting along anymore every few days we are in a really bad fight... last night it was at its worse...
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- Hey. I have been thru that before. You just have to get past not wanting to take the baby away. He can still see him but he doesnt have to be with you. Good luck.
- Hi H.. Sounds to me like you're in the same spot I was in just a year ago. My son's father and I were fighting bad enough we split up. In that year, we learned more ...
- This is such a hard situation. At this point, even though you are not married, a break-up would be the emotional equivalent of a divorce. Looking at it that way, the...
How to Heal a Broken Heart?
Asked by J.M. from Kansas City
on December 3, 2008
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My daughter and I moved 2 hours away from her daddy almost 1 year ago and since then I've been dating guys, some not too long but some for quite awhile. She has met m...
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- I have not read the other responses, but this is an issue that really bugs me. I think it is wrong for a single mother to bring men around their children. Children ...
- Good Morning J., I haven't read what other Mama's having written but what grabbed My Gut was that the Jerk Yelled at your daughter. No matter how much he swept you off...
- I don't have any advice on how to heal her heart, but I wanted to mention one thing. I noticed in your post that you said you tell her "he doesn't want to be with us ...
Explaining Something to a 3 Year Old!!
Asked by C.M. from Phoenix
on April 19, 2007
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I was recently in a relationship, unfortunately it only lasted 2 months. My 3 year old son got really used to playing with his 5 year old daughter. It had become par...
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- Here's my take on it. He's not going to care *why* he can't go over there anymore. He just knows that he can't and he's angry. He's showing you he trusts you when...
- He is probably afraid thst if you broke up with the father (and daughter) you could 'break up' with him. He isi afraid you could leave him if you stop loving him and ...
- C. your 3 year old isn't going to understand no matter what you tell him, at this age they are really selfish and dont get much LOL. I would give it time and try to r...
Keeping the Fire After a Baby
Asked by D.M. from Boston
on May 16, 2007
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i recently had a baby and it seems since weve been home and into a differnt schedule me and my husband has had no time for eachother other than a bedtime when were bot...
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- hi! i first want to congratulate you on your newest edition! and tell you that i think your amazing for the role you play! im a single 24 year old mother of a 5 year o...
- D., The first rule of a couple having some adult time is to get a sitter. :) This way, you & your husband can either go out for dinner or even have a quiet, romantic ...
- HI D., weird I just wrote a response to another D. M. Or are you two the same person.? Anyways, God Love You honey, because my daughter, our 1st, is 18 mths and we're ...
Relationships
Asked by T.D. from Spokane
on December 6, 2006
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why dose it every guy just about feels they can play with your mind and heart. do i need to worry about my boyfriend cheating since he is out of town for few months? ...
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- Hi T., sorry to hear about your MIL. I know how it feels to some extent. My husband's sister had a baby boy about two year ago, a little before she had him, my husband...
- Honey, I don't know the whole situation but if you think he's cheating or is going to cheat then it may not be worth keeping the relationship. If you can't trust him w...
- Well I believe Marda and Anna they are right. if he goes out of town why you need to be so worry about him cheating. is nothing you can do about. stop creating those m...
Single Mom, Issues with Daughters Father and Many Other Things
Asked by K.D. from Raleigh
on August 1, 2008
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Well, where to start...I am a single mother and have been from the very beginning. My boyfriend of two years broke up with me a week before I found out I was pregnant...
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- I know that age should have anything to do with emotions, but you seem very lacking in common sense. You are 27 yrs old with a college degree. You found a looser. You ...
- K., As a single Mom for 11 years!! PLEASE let this one go!! I waited till I was ready and healed emotionally to move on to another relationship and found a man that...
- Hi K., wow, some ladies on here really take the liberty of telling you how they feel. Anyway... I've had feelings for losers in my life before, so I can relate. This g...
Need Some Advice!
Asked by V.B. from Houston
on July 23, 2008
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I just need a little advice. My youngest son dad and I have been together for 5 years now and we have been having these differences and he has been accusing me of chea...
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- Dear V., Wow, it sounds like you have a lot going on and no matter what anyone tells you, ultimately, you have to decide and make some difficult decisions and change...
- You are loving the attention the work guy is giving you. Maybe your son's Dad was right accusing you of having an affair. It was an emotional affair then you made it...
- I'm just going to say it. Grow up. Put your children first instead of yourself. Are you planning on bouncing from man to man, finding a new one everyone time the old o...
When the Little One Is Introduced to New Girlfriend in Dad's Life.
Asked by T.V. from Los Angeles
on February 9, 2007
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My 4 year old was just introduced to his dad's new girlfiend against my better judgment. I believe that children should not be introduced up to 6 months or longer at t...
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- Hi T.. Well, you know that old saying the past is the past? The thing in this situation is its already been done. So you can't go change it. I agree that their relatio...
- Hi T., I just had to write and offer some moral support. The mountain is high but it is worth climbing for you and your son. To sacrifice yourself just so your so...
- I am a single mom as well and I wish you guys the best of luck in dealing with these hard issues. Remember why things didn't work out? You know it was for the best ev...
