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Mom Seeking Other Moms Opinion
Asked by N.W. from Orlando
on August 10, 2007
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Ok this is a long one so please bare with me. I have a husband that has really never been there for me. He is more interested in being around his friends, going out an...
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- OK- so did you read what you wrote? Your answers are all there. You can wait around waiting for him to become the man you want him to be. He's only nice when he needs...
- He needs a swift kick in the rear! I recently got back together with my husband after about 8 months of separation because he started acting like a jerk to me. We ...
- N., I am so sorry that you are going through this, I thought my situation was bad, but your husband is really taking advantage of you and has no respect for you or ...
To Be or Not to Be Married Anymore?
Asked by M.D. from Philadelphia
on April 5, 2008
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My son will be 1 yo at the end of this month and ever since he was born, my husband has been insanely selfish. I was pulled out of work 8 days before my son was born a...
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- Dear M. D: First let me say that I am sorry that you are going through this difficult time in your life. Second of all let me tell you that there is hope. The onl...
- M., My question is was everything good with your relationship before oyur son was born? Because my husband has been very jealous and "extra needy' with me since our...
- HI, I can't say I have any experience with your situation but I know what I would do. You need to leave and never look back, for your son and more importantly yourse...
Depression Ruining Marriage
Asked by W.I. from Youngstown
on September 26, 2006
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i am 23 yrs old and ive had ddepression before and now its comming back and its affecting my marriage. i have the most wonderful husband and a beautiful babygirl but i...
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- I was the same way after I had my baby girl in August of 2005. My husband is a wonderful man, he always helped out with her, getting up in the middle of the night a f...
- I would suggest getting your license if you can. Also, maybe you could take some online classes. Then, you wouldn't have to leave your home, and it would give you so...
- Wow! I am just so impressed with all your responses and so quickly! I agree with all, sounds like PPD. I would try hard to get out and be involved with something --...
I Think Its Time for a Divorce...
Asked by J.H. from Philadelphia
on March 9, 2008
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I never *ever* thought this would happen to us. We've been together for 13 1/2 yrs, married for 6. He's the love of my life, and I can't stand to be in the same room w...
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- J., Please know that all will be OK. My husband (ex, actually) became verbally abusive about 2 years ago, and i thought that my behavior could 'fix' him. Nothing ...
- I really hope you can make it work. But if you need a divorce attorney please contact me at ###-###-####. M..
- J., This must be so so hard. Before you do anything, though, I would contact a local group here that is incredible at thinking through these issues with you. www.CC...
Married and Now Seperated
Asked by T.W. from Santa Barbara
on May 6, 2009
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Hello Moms I am a sahm and I married 1 year 9 months ago and my husband saturday the 2nd decided to move out and take a break... WOW this has been the hardest thing in...
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- Hi Terrilynn, I think for now you need to work on the things you feel you need to work on. I wouldn't say you are a horrible wife, we all have strenghts and weaknesses...
- Hi Terrilynn: I'm sorry your going through this. My first thought,was More women,need to think a little quicker during moments such as these.If my husband told me he ...
- Gosh, lots going on here. Just wanted to add- (and I"m just speculating here): in light of your Hubby going through SIX deaths... perhaps he is STILL "grieving"??...
Most Selfish Man alive...Oy, You Know Me, This Is Going to Be Long
Asked by Z.A. from Seattle
on April 19, 2009
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Divorce isn't an option. Counseling isn't an option. (3 of my closest friends are psychologists/social worker... so I get LOADS of counseling. My husband has been prom...
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- Please get out of the relationship!!! For you and more importantly, for your son. Why can't you divorce him?
- Not sure why you can't divorce him, but it sounds like if you don't make a big change, nothing will change. Can you at least separate for a while? Ask him to move out?...
- Divorce him - asap - life is to short i was in a miserable, miserable marriage and let me tell you he put me through hell and back but i would not change a thing for t...
Bickering with DH over Stupid Things - HELP!
Asked by M.O. from Chicago
on January 26, 2009
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For the past year or so my husband and I have been very "disconnected". I am a SAHM of two young children. He commutes about 2.5 hrs a day to work on the train. Whe...
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- I read the other two posts and those are encouraging you to draw him out a little more. He needs to see a version of this note and know how serious you are. He quite p...
- I was in a similar situation before as well. I think what the others said is good. I think he is just beat and at the end of the day he needs his "me" time. I don't...
- I am sorry that your DH does not want to invest in a date night once in awhile. Could you swap babysitting duty with another family to save on the cost? Could you have...
Husband Now Just a Depressed Roommate
Asked by S.S. from Louisville
on August 14, 2009
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I met my husband 13 years ago and it was fantastic! He was funny, romantic, read love poems to me over the phone, cooked a meal or two(not well, but it was sweet), was...
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- It sounds like your husband may actually just be suffering from depression. It can cause all of the types of behaviors, as well as aches and pains, that you have men...
- You might try reading the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. It might provide some insight. If nothing else it is a good read. The movie Fireproof is goo...
- Let him read this! I think you poored your heart out here, and he should know these things. Have you tried date night? Get a sitter and go out and remind yourselves w...
"Step" Issues
Asked by L.B. from Canton
on August 8, 2009
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How do I deal with my husband threatening to separate his income from our finances because 2 of my daughters who live with us basically ignore him? We've been married...
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- Sounds like some family or couples counseling might be in order. If he wants to separate finances, and effectively split the family, that's a serious issue. I'm guessi...
- It seems like your husband is being just as immature as your daughters. If your daughters are being disrespectful, then the two of you should mutually come up with a ...
- 1st...sign up for a Dave Ramsey class together! His class could change your life, but really I think this is more than a money issue....him seperating his money shows...
Confused
Asked by K.M. from New Orleans
on October 25, 2007
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I have been married for almost four years and I have a 2yr old little princess. My husband and I get alone off and on. He was in the Navy but just recently got out. Du...
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- get out! you couldn't trust him to begin with why do you think it's any different now? get out, and be glad for the fresh start.
- oh my gosh sis open your eyes if he's done it once he will do it again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i told my daughter her husband was cheatting on her and she didnt bel...
- I went through the same thing with my husband while he was in the navy and deployed over seas. The websites stating he was single and emails to other women. When I a...
