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Mother-in Law Has a Mental Illness, Need Suggestions!!!
Asked by P.T. from Atlanta
on January 4, 2009
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My mother-in law has schizophrenia and it's been controlled for many years. In the last nine months her conditions has gotten worse. I need advice on what to do. My...
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- Find your local NAMI Chapter to help you. (National Alliance on Mental Illness). The Georgia Advocacy Office can also assist with information. Push for services. Ca...
- Where is your mother in law from? May I suggest you have a family mmeting so the other siblings realize the seroius of the problem both physically and economics....An...
- You can try Classic Community Support in Stone Mountain. They are a residential provider with an array of services and supports. You can reach them at ###-###-#### a...
Inconsiderate in Laws?
Asked by K.J. from Denver
on May 20, 2008
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Hello!
I want to know how to handle situations regarding the in laws! My husband's parents live about 3 hours (driving) from us. We have a 7 month old son, who they h...
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- I'm so sorry, and yes there are lots of us with a similar problem... My in-laws started off kinda rough but we would see them sometimes, eventually my Mother in-law di...
- I have been married for 14 years now. My in-laws walked all over me. And I allowed it for the sake of my kids. They have an awesome relationship with my family and ...
- my inlaws are the same way. my hubby and i have decided that our immediate family comes first. i am polite and willing to work with the in-laws but we don't bend over ...
In-law Trouble
Asked by P.M. from Chicago
on November 8, 2008
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Help my in-laws are driving me insane! I had my first baby last Thursday and my inlaws are doing every thing they can to ruin the most perfect and wonderful time in ou...
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- Take a step back. Focus on the baby - you have to be living in a household that is not getting a lot of sleep. Really. The In-laws will come around. Your daughter a...
- You need to do what is best for your immediate family right now. Spend time with each other and the baby. You have reached out to them to no avail. They are wrong f...
- Your baby is a few days old and your focus should be on the baby and your relationship with your spouse. The healthiest thing to do right now is to ignore their nas...
In Laws
Asked by A.B. from Charlotte
on February 8, 2007
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So here is the situation...in July my husband and I separated, it was mostly my call but we both did agree it was for the best since we weren't even talking to each ot...
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- FIRST,LET ME SAY THAT I ALWAYS TYPE IN ALL CAPS I HAVE NERVE DAMAGE AND IT IS JUST EASIER ON ME,I'M NOT YELLING!WITH THAT SAID,I KNOW THAT IT IS HARD BUT YOU HAVE TO T...
- I can see where you're coming from. My best advice would be to maybe approach him and not necessarily call her a liar, per se, but do tell him what the situation was,...
- You should handle it yourself~ Let your INLAWs know that you & your hubby are trying to work out things for best interest of the children. Whether it be that you end u...
Sister-in-laws
Asked by T.C. from Atlanta
on August 27, 2008
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Wondering what thoughts might be on a husband and husband's sister-in-law planning/going to do activites together? Normal? Appropriate?
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- Trust your instincts.
- I guess it would be similar for any other friend. Either you trust him, or you don't. I have close male friends and mu husband has close female friends. (In fact,...
- Um, your husband and your sister? Or you and your brother-in-law? I've had a couple of times that I've taken my daughter out with my niece and brother-in-law. I'll ...
Saying "No" to Sensitive In-laws
Asked by M.G. from Los Angeles
on July 11, 2008
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My in-laws are coming to visit in November and they are generous enough to treat me, my husband and our would-then-be 8-month-old to a lovely 4-day cruise. They want u...
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- Earplugs might work! My husband snores and I'm a light sleeper. They're a lifesaver. Otherwise, I'd tell them that the baby will keep them awake, and you'd like a s...
- If they are the ones who are footing the bill, I don't think it's appropriate to ask them to spend more so that you can have your own room. If you can't afford to pay...
- Hi M. - You could use the old "the baby will keep YOU up, mom & dad" -- and likely at 8 months there will be teething issues and the baby will be keeping people up,...
In Law Trouble!!!
Asked by H.B. from Dallas
on October 10, 2007
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Long story short:
My daughter was born back in April. My first week back (June) to work we had family watch her due to my sitter was not available to start until th...
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- I can relate to where you're coming from....in May of 2006 my MIL came for a visit with her stepdaughter and 2 stepgrandchildren....it was a nightmare ...she stormed o...
- I completely understand where you are coming from - and I am sure that there is a laundry list of incidents over the years! I can only give you the advice that I just...
- I'm not sure I understand. You all got that upset over babysitting????? You do realize that taking care of your baby is your responsibility right? There HAS to be m...
Seeking Advice on In-laws
Asked by K.M. from Los Angeles
on August 29, 2008
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Moms you are awesome and I know you will provide wise guidance... Although my in-laws live on the opposite coast and they/we visit at least 3-4 times a year for a wee...
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- K., I understand completely...my husband ALWAYS hesitated to say anything to his mother about anything that might upset HER(never mind ME). Now that there are some iss...
- It is time to set boundaries and have an adult and serious converstaion. Be honest but set boundaries!!
- SPEAK UP IN A WAY THAT'S GENTLE AND GET YOUR POINT ACROSS. There tends to be a happier time had by all if you do speak up. It can make you a closer family regardless...
Advice for Dealing with a LONG In-law Visit
Asked by W.R. from Norfolk
on March 5, 2008
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Hi!
My baby is due in less than a month. I plan to take 3 months off of work to be with her, and then my husband's parents are coming to look after her before she go...
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- I know that you are feeling stressed out and anxious right now. I think that you shouldn't make any hard decisions until once the baby comes home. A baby can strengthe...
- I hate to sound harsh but suck it up. You'll be sooo thankful that they're there to help you when you're so exhausted you can't keep your eyes open. Think of the mon...
- It sounds like you and your husband need to have an important conversation about your in laws stay. You are going to be dealing with the pressures of a newborn AND a p...
Need Advice on Dealing with Pushy/Judgemental Religous Father-in-Law
Asked by H.O. from San Antonio
on February 28, 2008
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Where to begin... my father-in-law is an evangelical Christian who has been judging his son (my hubby) and I because we do not believe in God the same as him. He even ...
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- I have been a born again christian for 35 years, and I never push it on anyone, I think that's the easiest way to head them in the wrong direction. That said, there h...
- Hello H.-- Is it possible that you could talk with your father-in-law's pastor or another member of his church who is a good friend and tell them how you are feeling ...
- H., What a lot to deal with at one time! I consider myself a pretty strong Christian with strong beliefs-but never could I beat someone over the head to make my po...
