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HELP.... I Just Gained a Teen!
Asked by S.H. from Anchorage
on September 25, 2006
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Let's see... we've had a really rocky relationship with my step-daughters (10 & 13) and weren't able to see them for almost 2 years (their mother isnt very nice). Wel...
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- Wow! and double wow! You are trying to do way too much. You are not super human. I praise you for wanting to but you cannot. I suggest that if you're not able to e...
- The girls are old enough to take on some responsibilities. With my second marriage, we gained his son, ( I have 2 of my own) and it was so hard because we ran our hou...
- You sound like your doing a great job! I commend you for doing what you are doing. Maybe a quick gratification is what the older children are seeking. This might be go...
My Mother Is Unhappy About My 3Rd Pregancy.
Asked by K.P. from Iowa City
on October 5, 2008
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My husband and I are expecting another baby and we are very excited about it! However, when we told my mom our news, she had an unwelcome response. Her words exactly a...
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- i had that same problem with my mom and my husband's dad when we were expecting our 1st child. my husband's dad wanted us to get rid of the baby and we were shocked. j...
- First of all, congratulations on your pregnancy! I would recommend making a "date" with just your mom to sit down and discuss her response and your feelings. Don't...
- I am in the same boat. We haven't told my MIL because we already know that she may not say the kindest things. Even if she pulls it together in front of us we know t...
How to Keep Family Out of Our Finances!
Asked by N.W. from Chicago
on August 11, 2009
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Things have been tough for us for a while financially, and recently I lost my job. Still, we struggle along.
Recently my brother had a birthday and we couldn't affo...
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- Oh my gosh, you poor girl! I can't believe that you have to put up with this from your own family! It sounds like you have it all perfectly together and your prioritie...
- On my in-laws side we decided for Christmas we will only do a grownup grab bag, and the kids will just get gifts from Grandma. We do not exchange gifts with siblings o...
- Your mom seems to have forgotten what matters most in life. It's people not stuff. Even if you bought your brother an expensive gift he would hardly remember it a year...
Family Finances
Asked by B.S. from Chicago
on August 10, 2009
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I wanted to find out how other women talk to their husbands about finances. I have recently handed over the finances to my husband. He is the spender and I am the sav...
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- I have found that if you both aren't involved, then there isn't a system of checks and balances. You both need to set goals and priorities with your income and saving...
- I read the other responses and bottom line you need to be involved!!! You need to have a handle on your finances and access to your accounts so you know that bills ar...
- I was in the same situation that you are in. My husband never knew what was going on with the money, and everytime I told him we didn't have enough, it was somehow my...
I Want to Work
Asked by S.C. from Albuquerque
on August 26, 2008
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Hello Mommies
I am very fortunate to be albe to stay at home and raise my daughter, her dad and I have recently got married and now that I don't have the running arou...
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- Hi S., You should check out my team's website www.freedomunitedteam.com/mi354 If you're interested in working for a reputable and legitimate company where you can wo...
- Have you ever considered working from home? I have been working from home for a year now, and i absolutely LOVE IT!! Please feel free to check out my website at: http:...
- Hi S.! I am a mom of a 3 yr old little boy and an 5 mo old baby girl. I was looking for something I believed in. I found it! I am proud of who I work with and get t...
"Step" Issues
Asked by L.B. from Canton
on August 8, 2009
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How do I deal with my husband threatening to separate his income from our finances because 2 of my daughters who live with us basically ignore him? We've been married...
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- Sounds like some family or couples counseling might be in order. If he wants to separate finances, and effectively split the family, that's a serious issue. I'm guessi...
- It seems like your husband is being just as immature as your daughters. If your daughters are being disrespectful, then the two of you should mutually come up with a ...
- 1st...sign up for a Dave Ramsey class together! His class could change your life, but really I think this is more than a money issue....him seperating his money shows...
Considering Becoming a SAHM and Could Use Your Advice!!!!
Asked by V.S. from Houston
on August 5, 2009
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I would like advice on trying to make a decision about becoming a SAHM. I would love to be home with my kids especially since one of my checks is dedicated to paying ...
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- Btw, I also have 4 boys + 1 girl. :-) First, I would run the numbers and see how much you are actually taking home. Then, I would find an opportunity that you could ...
- Hi, Vanessa... I have been a SAHM for 6 years and have loved it...even sometimes not having moments to yourself. lol Overall, though, it is so great, and you can ...
- You have to determine what feels right for you, and your children will be fine either way. If you feel pulled to stay at home because you want to be more directly inv...
Help! I Need to Be More Cost Conscious!
Asked by C.P. from Pittsburgh
on August 1, 2009
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My husband and I are trying to buy a house. We are saving as much money as we can. One of our biggest expenses right now is grocery shopping. We go out to dinner at le...
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- C. P you got a lot of advice here, I just want to add that generic foods a lot of times are made by the same companies that brand name foods are made by just packaged ...
- Something that has saved us a tonne of money is to write a list of all our favorite meals and then plan them out for the whole month. You could do it for one week or t...
- First off try B&B's or another discount food store. I shop there at least once a week for things like drinks. I pay half of what they charge at giant, for the same ite...
I Am Failing... I Need a Financial Counselor!!!
Asked by P.H. from Phoenix
on May 27, 2008
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Ok, the only reason why I am telling you all this is because nothing is changing, and I figure that mabey someone is going to read this, who knows exactly how I feel, ...
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- Hi P., I think it's terrific that you recognize you need help getting a financial plan for your family. Don't berate yourself for not getting it right and there's ...
- I was once in your position. A great book or Movie to watch that really helps in "The Secret". Your mind is really is really in control of your well being. I am 28 yea...
- Hi Pricilla! I know how frustrating finances can be, and we feel the stress of it too. I'm by no means an expert, but I can pass on some advice I've received. Fi...
Ex Snooping Through My Finances?
Asked by R.G. from Boston
on July 26, 2009
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My ex boyfriend recently moved to Texas to work as a mortgage loan officer for a nationwide bank chain. Although we haven't seen each other in 15 years, we have always...
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- He sounds highly unprofessional and what he is doing breeches confidence issues with clients. Call the 800 # for the bank...not certain what a local branch could do....
- I wouldn't block this creep as a fb friend... quite yet. I'd keep an eye on him and if he's dumb enough to brag.. having him as a fb friend could help aid YOUR investi...
- Hi there! Sounds like trouble!!! First of all you need to ditch him as a "friend" and second of all switch your bank if possible-he sounds creepy. Is your husband ok ...