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Would You Say Anything?
Asked by J.V. from Chicago
on September 5, 2009
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Soon after we had my daughter (18 months ago), our relationship with my brother and his wife changed. We use to see them frequently, getting together for dinner all th...
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- If it was my brother I would call and just say something like "I was wondering if there was anything you needed me to bring to 'Friends' party? I know you love my punc...
- I have the same kind of people in my family. A lot of people are shocked that your brother would be like that, but so it goes. If you want to go just ask if you can st...
- I would say something to your brother. He is family after all. Tell him how you feel. No one can read minds. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Maybe they assume you ...
Feedback for Blended Family Issue
Asked by M.K. from Phoenix
on April 23, 2008
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I am looking to get other opinions so I can ensure(or not) that I am thinking logically as opposed to emotionally. Here is the situation, although it may seem trivial...
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- I have to say that although I agree with you, unless you and your man agree on this one, you cant really win. I would look at this as the footstool in resolving issues...
- As someone who dealt with divorce issues as a child and currently works with children, I applaud you for your sensitivity and willingness to consider all sides of this...
- In my opinion your 15 year old is going to be living (time wise as well as years) in that room for much longer than the other 2. Unfortunately when you blend a family,...
Is It Reasonable to Break-up B/c of Living Situation? (BTW: I'm Pregnant!)
Asked by I.D. from Los Angeles
on August 13, 2009
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I'm 27 and currently live by myself at a property that belongs to my parents. I made an agreement with my parents years ago to pay all dues related to the property, in...
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- It sounds like you've been independent. Don't be too quick to give that up. Enjoy your space and privacy. If you don't NEED his money, don't make it the issue that br...
- I., Unless absolutely necessary, I would not choose live with my in-laws so I think you are right to stick to your guns. You need your own space and place, especially...
- To me, from what you said you wouldn't be breaking up because of a living situation but because of a communication and respect issue. It sounds like he's choosing not...
Need Custody Advice
Asked by N.D. from Seattle
on August 14, 2009
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So I am writing this request for a friend of mine. He married a woman from the Philipines about 3-4 years ago. They just recently had a baby boy in February. I know th...
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- I agree with you about getting a lawyer and he needs to do it NOW! They can have it in the paperwork that she is not allowed to take the baby out of the state or the ...
- straight up, he needs a lawyer. the attorney will take care of him.
- Hi N., He should check what options he has with a lawyer. I did want to tell you that there would be no way for her to take the child out of the country w/o his perm...
Grandparent.....(ugh)
Asked by A.F. from Seattle
on October 17, 2008
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My issue, which I know a lot of other parents struggle with, is our childrens grandparents. Both my parents and my husbands parents are divorce and remarried all but o...
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- We have the same problem. My dad just isn't interested in his two granddaughters and neither is he interested in my nephews or nieces. He just isn't a kid person and...
- Hi A., I'm 45 yo and I'm a mom of 5 years old. It is not the love, it is the energy. All our grand-parents are 5000 miles or 10 000 miles away. This is one of the reas...
- You and your husband do need time together, but it is not your parents' responsibility to provide it. If they want to spend time with the kids, great! But if not, th...
Seeking Advice on the "Daddy" Question
Asked by S.W. from Boca Raton
on December 4, 2006
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My 3 year old daughter has been asking the "Daddy" question for a couple of years. She has always been aware that she doesnt' have one and the other kids do. Her fathe...
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- I would definately talk to her about her expectations, seems like all the other kids she knows probably has a daddy. Her life is a little different. Try to do all the...
- I have a 5 year old who father is not in his life at all...but the kids from his first marriage are a big part of our lives. I don't know about the child support, but...
- Hello S., I have been a single parent for many years. I am happily married now. I have two children who have different fathers. My daughter who is 15 knows who h...
Need Advice from Anyone That Has Has This Experience.
Asked by M.H. from Philadelphia
on August 2, 2009
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Dear all mom's,
I have a 9yr old daughter and a 12yr old step daughter. In short, the 12yr old visits every other weekend and once per week. The problem is when she i...
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- You don't mention if your husband has had any input in this situation. Have you talked it over with him? What does he say about it? Has he tried talking with his da...
- Whatever you do, don't do it yourself! you are perceived (wrongly, but still) as the enemy. Her dad, needs to deal with her on this. You can direct him, or let hi...
- Coming from the stand point of I once was in the shoes of your step daughter. Your husband may need to give her more attention and will most likely do any disciplinin...
Christmas Dilemma
Asked by A.M. from Boise
on December 21, 2008
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My husband and I had a big fight last weekend when my mother was here for my birthday. He left the house for the rest of the day as I cried to my mom. Not a word fro...
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- Considering that you're married to your husband and not your mother he does come first, regardless of the plans you made. Things come up and things change. You need to...
- It sounds like your husband has made his own choice about what he is doing on Christmas, and you can do what you choose to. Don't let him manipulate you into being al...
- I don't know if you are a religious person or not, but the scriptures tell you to "cleave unto your husband, and none else" which means that if there is ever a time wh...
Mother in Law Trouble
Asked by A.P. from San Francisco
on September 21, 2007
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So, I am a SAHM of one beautiful boy who is 4 and one due in February. My mother in law is an issue in my life and marriage and I have asked everyone I know for help b...
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- I had trouble with my mother in law. I think she had a mental problem also. Don't say anything bad about her, but maybe only let her come around when your husband is...
- Your childrens safety is always more important than anyones feelings. If your husband does not agree then he needs counseling. Left in her care he was in the street ...
- Hi Andiana- whew - you have got a lot that you are dealing with. Thank goodness your son was not injured. This is such a difficult and loaded issue. It sounds l...
Dealing with a Separation
Asked by S.A. from New York
on August 29, 2007
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I find the situation I am in to be rather unique. My husband and I had a beautiful, romantic relationship before I got pregnant. He has full custody of a 4 year old ...
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- Ok, Im going to be completely honest with you. This is my opinion and I am putting myself in your situation. When you agreed to help your husband get custody of hi...
- Hi S., I agree with Laura P. Marriage is so often seen as disposable. The "good for you" attitude is so short sighted when you have to consider the affect divorce ...
- Hi S., First i like to say to you that I think you did a brave thing by leaving. As much as you love your step daughter you had to get away from your marriage. What ...
