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Making It Work After the Affair
Asked by D.M. from Houston
on September 2, 2009
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Hi Mom's,
I've relied on you all before, so now I'm doing it again because you're all so wonderful. To refresh your memories, and update you all on what's going on ~...
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- I so admire you!! Being a Christian woman myself, going throgh something like this is hard! I am so proud of you for sticking by him no matter what and working this ou...
- My brother and sister-in-law recently went through a very similar situation. I am close to both of them and so I know what you're going through feels like you are dyi...
- Well D. you don't want to hear this but no matter how hard you try or he tries it want be the same.. A old saying from where I come from once a cheater is always a che...
Seeking Advise on Supporting a Second Family
Asked by C.J. from Chicago
on May 13, 2008
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Please share your thoughts on this b/c I need to put this to rest. A good friend for over 24 years divorced her husband just about 1 year ago. She has 3 beautiful gi...
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- NONONONONONONONO. I realize you feel guilty, but leave it up to her family to help. Your lives will be drastically changed You have enough challenges already. Give ...
- Do you have a basement or area that they could call there own for short term, maybr 1 month to get on her feet. Her teens should be sitting the younger one and she nee...
- Whatever you do , DO NOT let her move in with you. Your friend needs to grow up and take some responsibility for herself and her family.She will take all you give her ...
Need Help Explaining Our Seperation to a 4 Year Old
Asked by S.M. from San Francisco
on April 29, 2008
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After 14 years of marraige, my huband and I are seperating. This was my decision. It has been a long, turbulent road, and I finally made the decision to leave. It i...
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- Hello S., I have never traveled down this road, but have had friends who have dealt with the same situation you are in. I think you should realize that the telling h...
- Dear S., Divorce is painful, even when you are the one who has made the decision, and especially since your little one is so attached to her father. If your home...
- what about if daddy left instead and didn't make the children change their homes?// just a thought. L
Help!
Asked by S.W. from Cleveland
on August 17, 2007
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okay i last wrote in asking for advice on what to do with my sons dads mother who basically abused her grandaughter ("i've banned my mother in law from seeing my son")...
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- I dont think you should ban him from seeing his son. It is very important that you stress him not taking the baby to his mothers though! If he gets mad and doesnt want...
- ok hi its me again! you need to sit your husban dow and tell him that he nneds to respect your wishes. you two cant disagree! i dont hink i would go as far as not lett...
- I can tell you what I would do.... If I didn't feel that I could talk to him reasonable, I would talk to an attorney about getting supervised visitation for either my...
Need Good Divorce Lawyer, FAST!!
Asked by B.W. from Dayton
on December 13, 2008
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i am in the middle of a divorce. my soon to be ex is unemployed and trying to get out of paying child support, spousal support and health care costs because of his sit...
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- You might check out: http://www.retrouvaille.org/ before you do anything else... God Bless!
- I don't know of any good divorce lawyers, but whether or not your soon to be ex is working or not the judge will still order him to pay child support. Typically if you...
- Well, I'm not sure where you're at, but if you're in Lucas county, send me a PM and I will give you the name and number of my lawyer. He was absolutely awesome. As f...
Transitioning 8-Year Old During Divorce
Asked by M.C. from Reno
on August 24, 2008
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Hello. I just need some advice on how to handle this situation. I am currently going through a devastating divorce that pretty much came as a bit of a surprise. Yes, ...
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- I haven't been through this myself but just reading your post makes me want to cry because I feel your pain. The utmost important thing is to get yourself into therapy...
- so sorry to hear you and your son are having to deal with this. i went thru a divorce almost 8 years ago when my children where 6 and 5. i did go thru some therapy...
- Hi, M.. I'm so sorry you are going through this. It is really tough. Both you and your ex need to reassure your son that this is not his fault, that you both love him ...
Father Has Visitation with 2 Different Households.
Asked by B.S. from Houston
on May 13, 2009
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Hi Moms,
Here is my question. I am getting ready to file for divorce and I am trying to work out a visitation schedule. Our kids are 4, 2,1 and one due in Decem...
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- We have his mine and ours and yes it is very hard... but you are being selfish and need to rethink this. Your soon to be x, it is his choice.. not yours.. hey are all ...
- Hi B., Before you go file for divorce maybe you should think about how your going to shadder your your kiddos lives and this going to impact them for the rest of the...
- B.: All I can say is get a damn good attorney. The Harris County Judicial System is not the greatest.
Helping 10 Year Old Son Except New Man in Mom's Life
Asked by S.H. from Grand Rapids
on February 6, 2008
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My son is 10 years old. Just a little bit of background on his dad and I. I was pregnant when we got married and I married him because I thought it the "right" thing...
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- S., What is the relationship of you and your ex? MY thought is to ask your son's dad to talk to him. I know my ex would be willing to do so, and we are close enough ...
- I have almost the exact same situation. My boyfriend and I have been together since my son was 4 though. When we first got together, I made sure to tell my boyfriend t...
- I wonder, are you and your ex are on "good" terms with eachother? I ask because maybe your son IS feeling like he doesnt want to have to "replace" his dad with another...
Am I Responsible for My Soon to Be X-husband Not Paying the Mortgage?
Asked by S.R. from Dallas
on April 11, 2009
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Hello my husband and I are going through a divorde which will be final soon. He has been staying in our home since August of 2008 and recently I have found out that he...
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- Hopefully, there was paperwork done at the time of the divorce that takes your liability off you. You probably need to contact a real estate attorney to review your op...
- Yes, you are still responsible. The mortgage company doesn't care what kind of agreement you and your husband came to, they only care about the agreement "your mortga...
- If your name is on the mortgage or et all yes you are responsible. Regardless of whether he made payments at all you are responsible. Have you contacted your mortgag...
Need Support Doing the Right Thing
Asked by C.B. from Salinas
on January 28, 2008
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Two and a half years ago my husband left me. This was devastating, We have a 15 year old daughter who is an incredible kid. We moved to this area because of his work, ...
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- This is a tough one.. I sympathize with you, I too am divorced after being married to him for 10+ yrs, and I have 4 children with him. I'd suggest counseling to get yo...
- Well I'm not divorced, but my parent did get divorced when I was your daughters age. The only thing that comes to mind is where can you offer both you and your daught...
- I wanted to wish you luck. My parents divorced when I was starting my teens. It was hard moving place to place, but like everything it depends on the individual. Cou...
