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Childcare Problems
Asked by K.W. from Rockford
on January 9, 2008
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I am at a loss for words. My four year old has been having problems at daycare. Her dad and I met with the director and after that it seemed she did well for a few d...
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- this is crazy, you need to report this place. there is no way that they should be handling yoru child this way. if i ever saw or even felt like a provider had laid a ...
- Hi K., My kids have never gone to a daycare center, but they have gone to private sitters before. I have had similar problems in the private sitter field. I immedia...
- i have worked in childcare for more than 10 yrs...you should, as a working parent, never feel this way about leaving your child...you need to speak with a director and...
4 Kids Out of Control Can Anyone Help
Asked by L.S. from Jamestown
on January 13, 2007
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I'm the mother of 4 small childern the oldest being 9 and the youngest being 4,I've been single for 8 months now and the kids have gone out of control sence the man i ...
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- Hi L. I wish that I lived next door so that I could give you that daily hug and tell you that you were doing the right thing. I guess my number one advice to you woul...
- I would ask your children what the problem is, and what you can do to help them. If time out and putting them in theres rooms and taking there stuff doesn't help, I wo...
- Lynn, I hate to say this but the kids didn't all of a sudden get out of control. Im guessing that the man that was in your life was the one who was more of the discip...
If He Hits, Is It Time to Call It Quits?
Asked by S.M. from Chicago
on August 16, 2007
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I've had a really hard year with my husband (see previous question that I asked). He's an alcoholic & recently was diagnosed with borderline bipolar. A few weeks ago...
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- My sister is bipolar. It's extremely difficult to have any semblance of a relationship with her because of it. I would seek counseling for yourself to deal with ...
- Is he seeking professional help? If not and he doesn't want to control his alcohol problem and thinks that he is "just fine" it's time to go for both your children a...
- If he hits you, he will do it again. Your kids will witness this and it will harm them more than anyone can realize. Move out, for the sake of your children's safety, ...
Red Flags Everywhere!!!
Asked by L.M. from Dayton
on November 16, 2007
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My son has a new friend.(girl) They are 5 and 4 years old, respectively. Today, my son informed me that, during today's playdate, his friend told him that "somebody's ...
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- I would totally freak out! I would also try and gain more information. It may be hard but there's little to go on there. If you can't then I would call anyway
- I would be concerned also to hear this from a child. This is nothing something that children make up. She has either heard it somewhere, has really had it happen to ...
- Hello. I am friends with someone who was abused. She told me that growing up she use to tell people and they never took her seriously because she was so young. She sai...
Seeking Advice for 14 Year Old Unmotivated Boy
Asked by D.H. from Los Angeles
on May 6, 2008
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My 14 year old is seriosly unmotivated. This is his first year of high school and the first time he has brought home D's and F's. One each on every report card. Thi...
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- Is there slippage in other areas besides school? I am wondering if there are some depression issues that are at work here. Especially since you said your daughter and...
- Hi D.: Looks as though you have recieved some good responses. I tend to lean towards the S H, advice. I believe, that alot of your sons problems stem from his relation...
- This is a tough age, and I'm not looking forward to my own kids reaching it! There's a lot you can do, but first have you tried talking to him? I mean, I know how cl...
Separation from Abusive Marriage-- Needing Suggestions/resources (SW Portland)
Asked by F.M. from Portland
on April 7, 2008
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I was wondering if there were any support groups in the area for moms going through separation/divorce especially from an abusive marriage. I also would like to have s...
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- Hi F., First let me say that you are not alone, even when it seems that way. You have taken the first step to change things for the better. Please feel proud of y...
- I am very happy that you have found the strength to take your life back for you and your children. It will only get better from here. I would suggest calling Raphael...
- Hi F.! I know of a church in SE Portland that offers a group that is support for single women who are dealing with exactly what you're dealing with. It is Hinson Chu...
What to Do When a Stepfather Is Inappropriate to His Stepdaughter
Asked by S.L. from Phoenix
on October 2, 2008
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My sixteen year old babysitter recently confided in me that her stepfather was making inappropriate comments to her. He text messages her constantly with innuendos an...
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- This is definitely a situation not to be taken lightly. She TRUSTS YOU and that is HUGE! I am not sure there is anything the Police can do at this point, legally. I ...
- Hi S., First, I want to applaud you for looking out for your babysitter. A lot of people would turn a blind eye because they didn't want to get involved. I've been ...
- I think that this definitely needs to be reported to the authorities - to the school, a minister, anyone they would allow to be contacted. That man should not be arou...
Does Anyone Know How to Find a "Work from Your Home Job"
Asked by A.H. from Houston
on February 9, 2008
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I have a 4 year college degree. I need to spend more time with my 5 month old child.
I would also consider a job where I could take my child with me. I live in th...
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- Try babysitting in your home. Older toddlers are good because they love entertaining babies. Keep two and charge about $120 for each a week and you'll some income......
- Unfortunately there aren't a lot of jobs for your qualifications where you can work at home! The only one I've heard of that comes remotely close is entering informati...
- I'm a Stampin' Up! Demonstrator. I set my own hours and work as much as little as I want and need. Stampin' Up! has been around for 20 years. The moto is to "love what...
BIG Problem with Husband's Language
Asked by S.D. from Fort Collins
on March 4, 2008
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My husband is a flex security officer. His crazy ever-changing shifts cause many problems in our relationship. Having to reschedule appts. after they've told us he'l...
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- Counseling sounds like a great idea. You might also consider having him evaluated for depression. Antidepressants can help a lot with situations like this!
- Simply ask your husband how he will feel 18 years down the road when your daughters partner is treating her the same way he is treating you now. Girls learn from thei...
- My husband has recently resolved (so to say) some of the same issues. Our troubles revolve more around money, however and his transition to the SAHD. My advice would...
Extremely Worried About Sister
Asked by A.P. from Dallas
on February 2, 2009
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Thanks all for the advice, actions are underway.
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- I'm afraid I have to agree with Renee also. As harsh as it sounds it may be the only solution at this point. Don't wait; those kids need help now.
- This is beyond out of control. It is a case for CPS. I"m sorry your sister is in such a bad situation, but something drastic has to be done because her husband is no...
- You can go ahead and worry, if you want to, but that's about all you can do at this point. As much as it must hurt to watch your sister in this situation, it IS HER l...
