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I Need Help Wth Opinions on Discipline for My 11 Year Old Daughter
The amount of time should fit the crime. 1 or 2 weeks is alot in a kids life. I will usually pick somewhere in between like 9 days, including weekends. ...
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- Try going to www.loveandlogic.com. It is definitely hard dealing with pre-teen and teen issues. I have a 15 yr. old and we are going through alot of teenage issues. ...
- L., you HAVE to stick to the grounding. I had this problem with my two older kids (now 23 and 21 years old) and when they finally moved out of my house they sat me do...
- As my mom always told me: "Do you want to have a child running free through the streets because you did not discipline well". I know it sucks but you have to stick to...
How Do I Stop My Toddler from Throwing Food on the Floor During Mealtime?
As far as discipline for a toddler...as in all, the punishiment should fit the crime...tell her stop throwing food or she is all done...if she throws more ...
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- Hi A., Sorry to say I am laughing right now, but I guess you don't feel like it, but once you pass a stage and look back you can find the humor in it all. The good...
- Ignore it. She is looking for attention and she's getting it, all be it negative attention. You could also just end dinner time right then and there. Both worked fo...
- Get a dog! When my 11 month old throws her food it never actually touches the floor! :-)
Bad Behavior
Aug 6, 2009 ... Here is the problem with "time out", kids learn to weigh the time away with what the "crime" is. They often feel that a couple of minutes in ...
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- You have gotten some good responses so far. I particularly agree with Stephanie's. I would like to add something, however. Just because the behavior is not desirabl...
- Hey A., I was an elementary school teacher for 17 years and from my experience following directions/listening is learned skill. It needs to be taught at home. You m...
- A., I feel for you in your frustration and guilt about your son. The basics which are so important for improving behavior include rewarding him ( with attention, "hi...
Almost 3 Year Old Going Potty on the Floor!! Help!!
Also, applying consequences that FIT THE CRIME is very important. For example, if the kid won't set the table because they are too involved watching TV, ...
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- Hi, And what does your little girl say? Does/can she try explain why she's doing it? You said you and your husband got married in May ...although it sounds like he ...
- i would have her assist in the clean up, so she can see what it's like to actually clean up her mess.
- tough love?? Maybe??? Put her back in diapers and make her clean up her messes. (even if you have to go back later and do it again) the more of a pain in the rear and...
Help! My 20 Month Old Girl Is Becoming Violent
... with seeing you have three other children but if you stay on top of her, consistent punishment for the crime and DO NOT GIVE in, then she will get it! ...
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- You should watch some episodes of Supernanny. I always get good ideas from her show. There are also some way out of control kids on her show. It might help. I know it ...
- Four kids under five is tough, for anyone! You are a wonder woman! One thing I have learned by trial and error is kids need to feel validation in their feelings. It...
- She needs more dicipline. When she is acting out get her in a full body hold and hold her until she is calm. Tell her there is no hitting, or screaming or throwing. It...
Step Daughter
Keep the punishment equal to the crime, is it truly a major offense? If not, just express your displeasure and move on. Good luck! ...
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- This is a tough one R.!! I too am a step mom, and for the longest time, my step daughter and i did not get along. Do you have any problems with her, or is it just her ...
- I know that you have her in counseling, the cutting thing is an addictive behavior. Your body releases endorphins kinda like morphine when you cut yourself. As you ...
- High I dont now that this will help or not and I dont want to scare anyone that reads this.!There are little gangs , clicks or whatever you want to call the little gro...
Academic Punishment? AAAAHHH
1) It should fit the crime 2) I, personally, believe in fair warning. ... So, my thought is... your punishment REALLY does fit the crime and event (edit) ...
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- I think baseball season is too far off to use as a realistic consequence. Maybe if the behavior is still ongoing once baseball season is here he can go to the game an...
- I would sign him up, but stress the importance of the grades and school work and that this whole thing is a partnership between you. Help him with some organization sk...
- MLH I too have a somewhat disorganized and LAZY 7th grader I get where you are coming from. Since he is nit really failing in any subject but you know he can do bette...
Behavior
Let your punishment fit the crime. Taking away Christmas is extreme and will not make the situation any better. If he throws a fit, IGNORE HIM COMPLETELY. ...
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- Good advice so far. In addition, your son needs more time with you and your husband. Ask yourself if you really need to spend so much time at your church, when you h...
- Your son is young and is discovering his own independence. Decide what rules are important, what the consequences will be, and what your expectations are. Clearly ...
- Hi K., I am in the club too. I have a new four-year old and my husband and I sometimes wonder whose house he is living in. This is what we are doing to curb the u...
**Tween Trouble**
Whatever fits the crime. After time out at the wall - make sure they ... As for punishment, do what is most appropriate for the crime and for your daughter. ...
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- Does she get an allowance? If so, start charging her a "whining fee". Every time she whines, she has to pay you a set amount. Believe me, if she's like most kids, t...
- I'm with you--the whining makes me crazy. My 8 year old whines so much I have just started sending her to her room. Sometimes she will scream and cry for 30 mins. I'...
- Hi R. P You are so right- there is no excuse to be rude, no matter what age you are- but, unfortunatally there are some things you must endure while she is going thru...
Moving to Metro area--Where Should We Live?
I've known too many people who have moved out of there due to crime. ... Here is a website ... www. cityrating.com it has the crime stats for many cities ...
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- I work in the Vanderbilt area off of West End. I'm a native of Nashville and I have lived in many apartments/condos in the area. My favorite apartments are Legacy Hi...
- Try the Hendersonville (37075) or Goodlettsville (37072)area. Lots of Vanderbilt employees in the area! Great schools, parks, family activities, etc. Both areas are...
- We also had to move quickly because of a job. We settled on Sylvan Park. It is pretty close to Vanderbilt and the houses, while still pricey, are not as expensive as...
