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Red Flags Everywhere!!!
If you EVER suspect a child might be abused 1)ABSOLUTLY NEVER EVER CONFRONT THE PARENTS as they are typically the abusers or know who the abuser is. ...
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- I would totally freak out! I would also try and gain more information. It may be hard but there's little to go on there. If you can't then I would call anyway
- I would be concerned also to hear this from a child. This is nothing something that children make up. She has either heard it somewhere, has really had it happen to ...
- Hello. I am friends with someone who was abused. She told me that growing up she use to tell people and they never took her seriously because she was so young. She sai...
My 3 Year Old Is Torturing Our Kittens. Help!
It teaches parents to give the attention to the victim rather than the abuser. We, as parents, unintentionally provide attention toward negative behavior, ...
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- PLEASE PLEASE find a new home for your cats. It's also up to you to keep same safe. Right now, they are being abused. Please, for them, and you (I imagine you'd fee...
- I agree with Jessica M, she needs a good swat on her butt. I don't know when spankings went out of style, but I got them when I was a kid, and I learned, and I didn't ...
- M., I'm sorry for your tough situation! I'm also sorry, but I have to disagree with the previous response. There is NOTHING normal about a 3 year old girl repeatedly...
A Question for a Girl I Know
About the only thing I would tell her is to get out of the abusive relationship, and not look back, or believe anything the abuser says, EVER! ...
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- C., This girl is 19, legally an adult, and should be able to make her own decisions. About the only thing I would tell her is to get out of the abusive relationshi...
- Encourage her to get started with counseling!!!!! She definately needs to get out of the abusive relationship and the relationship with her new man. I suspect this...
- You may want to pass on to her that if they will cheat with you they will cheat on you... Also it wouldn't be a good idea to get to involved with this other guy at fir...
Not Married, Boyfriend Is Cheating, Wants to End relationship.....and Take Son!!
Have a place for them to stay and Divorce the abuser. Get record of all the thing he did to you and Seek a lawyer. Jame Byrnes is my lawyer in downtown in ...
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- Oh my gosh my heart goes out to you....I understand where you are at in life.....My second husband was a cheat....Once a cheat always a cheat, believe me....I stayed i...
- GET A LAWYER, NOW!!!! Good luck, E.M.
- Duh!!!! he only wants custody so he does not have to pay child support. Just leave him you are not married and if he does not file for custody you win and have the k...
Can't Get Away from a Terrible Relationship
... and start going to classes on how to "rethink" outside of the abuser's control. I've been to these classes and can say that it is really helpful. ...
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- K., I have tottally been where u are today. My ex was the same way... .cheated on me 4 times that i known of and every time he left me and my girls (who were young ...
- Hi K., Just wanted to send you some assurance that getting far away is the best. I am 38 years old, have been married for 17 years to the same kind of man as you a...
- You can do it K.! Yes you can! My heart goes out to you. I was in a very similar situtation. My ex-was extremely abusive, but acted like he was the victim. It took me...
Idk How to Deal with My 5Yr Old Sexual Problems and They Are Getting Worse
... scary voice as this will likely make the child not feel comfortable to tell you, especially if he has been abused and then threatened by the abuser. ...
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- T., by freaking out on your son and punishing him you sent him a message that what he did was wrong. However, did you then sit him down after a while and explain to h...
- i as well have been havein this prob with my 5yr old son he started doin this at age 4 and it dont seem to be getting any better.. i have took him to talk with some on...
- From:K. I have had 2 similiar exsperiences. My son is 26 now. Very macho when he was about 3 or 4 I found him and his little boy cousin showing each other there pee p...
My Son Bitten at Sitter's Home, Am I Liable for Medical Bills?
It was a whole big mess but in the end although I was morally liable for the incident financially the parents of the abuser had to pay. My insurance told me ...
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- She needs to reimburse you since the accident happened at her house with a dog she was responsible for. Either she can pay out of pocket or she can turn in a claim th...
- I would remove my child from that facility and take him to another. then i would consult a lawyer and file a suit against that provider for the cost of the bills and ...
- Day care provider should pay the bills (if she doesn't have the money perhaps she can give you free day care for a week or two). This will give you some time to find ...
8 Year Old Having Accidents
The abuser was never prosecuted because he refused to testify against a family member. He was put into therapy and is a well adjusted adult now. ...
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- I have 2 relatives that this happened to- my brother did this until age 10 (I think-re age) because he was so constipated that when he got the urge he wouldn't go an...
- which one is having the bm, the one who is with you only on weekends ? Did you as his father if he is having that problem @ his house too ? GOOD LUCK
- HI, My kids have never had the problem but a friends son did. He had a paracite in his intestines that they think he got from a drinking fountain. He also smelled r...
In Law Issues
from what i learned from divorce/family court. the abuser will say 'if im/inlaws are that bad, then why did she leave me with the child to go visiting?'. ...
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- I think your husband's parents have no right to be so intrusive in your marriage. Why are they in the picture so much?? If they do not support you, then they do not ...
- At least your husband is making progress with the counseling. Do you and him go to counseling together? You can't change your in-laws but you can change the influence ...
- Hi, AJ, I am in a somewhat similar situation (unstable marriage, MIL tells me that atheists, which include me, are immoral, have no common sense, etc. even though I...
I Am a Child of God!
Oct 27, 2009 ... Forgive yourself, forgive your parents and siblings and forgive all the people you believe wronged you - even the abuser(s) in your life. ...
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- You are not alone. It's difficult to live with anxiety/depression, but there is help. I'll be praying for you. Big hug from me to you.
- First let me say,my heart goes out to you.It sounds like you have had alot of unhappy/unhealthy times in your life.You have some self esteem problems,some you probably...
- I can't say that i know what you are going through but i just wanted to suggest the you seek counsling right away first and foremost for yourself and then marriage and...
