Reviving Ophelia
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Teen Not Wanting to Be with Family
TryReviving OpheliaId give you an author but Im not sure Mary Pipher. It is exceptionally difficult to become a woman because we tell our daughters they can ...
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- Dear D., My advice is going to be contrary to what a lot of other moms have posted, but I've been through some Horrible stuff with my step-son & I pray that you won...
- D....I sooo feel for you! I have a 13 y/o and she is "busy" all the time, too. There have been so many helpful responses already, so I'm sure you have a good plan in...
- I have one of then except she is 15 and i think all teens go through it i remember when i did it. We make her go with us because some day she will realize that it was...
Family Issues
It may really help you both for your own self as a female and in understanding your stepdaughter by reading the book "Reviving Ophelia". ...
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- I did the same thing when I was her age and I think the reason my mom and I have such a great relationship now is because she was just that-my mom. This relationship ...
- J., It sounds as though he is not listening to you. My mom started treating our step sister the way we were treated by our step dad, and he did not like it. That was...
- It sounds like your step-daughter is having some serious emotional problems, and instead of being angry with her, you need to get her some help, because her mother sou...
Waldorf? Montessori? Play-based Preschool? Any Experience with These?
... and they were all reading way above grade level; the ninth grader I met was reading "Reviving Ophelia" and we were able to discuss the book with depth. ...
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- I taught in my previous life for 9 years. SO..FYI...the only thing that I heard the kindergarten teachers say was that playbased preschool kids were not ready for kin...
- Hello! I love Waldorf schooling. My 5 year old goes to singing winds in oak park. I am not sure where you are. Chicago Waldorf has a Waldorf 101 class. It really ...
- I feel your confusion!! My son is 2.5 and I have already scoured the Montessori schools in the area. I have a Waldorf school nearby as well but I was taken aback by ...
Gifted Child Failing
To understand what causes a 12-13 year girl to become unhappy (as it seems might be the issue with your daughter) I recommend "Reviving Ophelia", ...
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- There are already a lot of great suggestions in the replies to your post, but thought I would just add a couple other things you could look into. There is a priva...
- Consider if your daughter is suffering from depression. Good luck
- My daughter( who is now a grown woman with a grandchild) was tested in early grade school with an IO of 160. By forth grade she was failing everything,was a problem at...
8 Year Old Attitude Problem
Purchase the book "Reviving Ophelia". Also "Queen Bees and Wanna Bes" might give you insight. With two girls...you are going to need it! haha (Mom of 11 ...
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- Have you discussed this with her doctor? It could be bipolar which there are meds for. It could be a number of things but best discussed with her doctor.
- Hi, Certainly hope all is well. First off, I am used to hearing of attitudes during the teen years...has anything unusual been going on at school that she may be re...
- First thing I would suggest is make sure that your child does not have a medical condition that may affect her behavior. Make an appointment with her Doctor. From th...
Have a 13 Year Old Daughter That I Want to Motivate to Do Well in School
I recommend two books for you: Reviving Ophelia and Queen Bees and Wannabees. Each will give you insight to the importance of the adolescent cliche and its ...
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- Well if it's any consolation your daughter is normal. Try speaking her language... do well on your report card=mall make-over, new outfit, MAC make over, highlights fo...
- I know it's hard with teenagers, but you are still her mother. To impress how important school is make her come home and do her homework before she goes over to frien...
- Hi J., I agree with all of the advise you have been given thus far. In addtion, I would suggest an activity at school that she could participate in. My oldest daughter...
When Do I Step In
I recommend reading the book "Queen Bees and Wanna Be's" in addition to " Reviving Ophelia". These two references might give you more insight to what is ...
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- NOW!! If you daughter has chosen a friend who can lead her down the wrong path and by that I mean any path that is not in line with your values than you need to step i...
- I think you are on target with the "let the kids handle it themselves" however it is difficult to do that when you see your child being picked on. My daughter is in ...
- M., continue to teach your daughter what is right...maybe suggest that she spend time with other friends, support her and encourage her.....maybe suggest that "she" yo...
My Daughter Is Having Issues with Weight and Her Self Esteem...
I encourage you to read a book called "Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls" by Mary Pipher. She is a clinical psychologist. ...
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- Let her know she has the power to change how she feels about herself, it is her choice and the conscious choices she has been making are what make her feel the way she...
- I struggled with eating disorders in my youth also, but in the teen years. But, from what you have written here, it sounds like you are doing all the right things. It...
- Have you had this discussion with her doctor. How many calories should she be eating in a day. How many grams of fat should she be having. Get a calorie book and ke...
Attitude Adjustment
I remember the book "Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls." There are others listed on Amazon that might help also. ...
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- Hi, N.. I'm a grandma of 65 who has raised 3 kids, I have 5 grandkids and am actively involved in the raising of my youngest a 4 year old. If I had it to do ov...
- lead by example, if you freak, it does not have a good impact. provide consistancy, structure and follow through- over time if you are really consistant you will see ...
- N., Just a few words on the differences from the earlier generation and the one today. I heard that the children look to the parents relationship and the way the...
My Step Daughter Says She Hates me....what Should I Do????
You might benefit from reading the book called "Reviving Ophelia" which addresses the concerns and issues regarding "tween" and teenage girls and why they ...
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- I'm guessing the daughter that you are speaking of is the 10 year old. Girls, especially, are very dramatic. They either "love" or "hate" most things. Sometimes dec...
- Hello E., At 25 you do have quite a full plate. Boredom isn't part of your repertoire I'm sure. You have good advice given here, so I can't add much. I'm sure it hu...
- I have been in your shoes. When I married my husband he had 3 daughters, then ages 12,10,and 7. I have known them all their lives and thier mother, father and I all we...
