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How Do You Explain a Postponed Marriage to a 4, Almost 5, Year Old?
Asked by M.H. from New York
on April 24, 2008
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Hi ladies. I have a 4 year old who will be 5 in July. My fiance and I have planned a wedding for May 31, 2008 and my little guy was very excited about dancing with m...
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- If you're only postponing it a couple of weeks, then you almost don't need to say anything. You could call it a scheduling conflict for that matter. You don't even h...
- Be honest, telling the truth works. Tell him you have to wait a few weeks because you have some more grown-up things to do before the wedding "party" can happen...and ...
- M. you don't really say why you are postponing the wedding but if it is something minor (ie financial or plain scheduling issues) you don't even have to explain that i...
Premarital Counseling
Asked by C.F. from Atlanta
on December 23, 2008
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Hello,
How important do you think premarital counseling is before you get married. Me and my fiance will be getting married in 2009; I think premarital counseling ...
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- I think it is a great idea, but let me give you another idea that maybe doesn't seem so threatening to him. I had decided I wanted to do this particular workbook with...
- I highly recommend it. We did it through our church. It may reveal some of the hidden things that you might not discover until marriage- expectations of marriage roles...
- My sister and her husband did a full year of pre-marital counseling and feels that it laid a strong foundation for them to begin their marriage on. Building a strong r...
Invited to an Out of Country Wedding That We Can't Afford!
Asked by S.S. from Los Angeles
on January 17, 2012
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My good friend recently sent my husband and me an invitation to his wedding which will take place in Japan. In the body of the message (this was an email - real invit...
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- So don't offer an excuse, just say you're not coming. :)
- Like he said, "no excuses." Simply RSVP that you are unable to attend a wedding that is out of the country. Don't offer any reasons in your initial RSVP. The fact i...
- i'm not sure i understand the angst, or why you feel awful. unless he's a real douche, surely he understands that this is an expense not everyone can afford. all invi...
Q For Mamas Who Were Virgins with Fiances That Were Not...
Asked by C.J. from Lancaster
on August 3, 2011
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My niece is getting married soon. She and I are very close, have been since she was a teeny tiny thing, before I was married or had children (I was the "cool" aunt). S...
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- Well good for her! I agree with the posters who said "Yea!" that this guy is waiting for her until after they're married, which says a lot about him and his love for ...
- I was not a virgin when I married, nor was my husband. Still we had discrepancies in our sexual statuses, insecurities, and had to get to know each other physically. ...
- I was a virgin and my husband was not (had been with 2 other women). It definitely was intimidating at first. He had experience and I had gone no farther than 2nd base...
Wedding Issue
Asked by D.L. from San Francisco
on August 25, 2008
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Okay so my daughter has just gotten engaged and they are starting to plan the wedding. The issue that I need help with is this...the parents of the groom want to be v...
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- Hoo boy!! I'm so glad I got married 28 years ago, when I knew nothing and cared not one whit about the details of the wedding! My mother planned the entire event; my ...
- D., when we got married 3 years ago, George paid for the whole shabang, although both my and his parents contributed a couple of K (our wedding was pricey because of ...
- Personally, I think your daughter should first have a honest conversation with her finance about his parents and the wedding. Then, together they should talk to his p...
