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Stepping over the Boundries????
Asked by T.M. from Lansing
on February 22, 2010
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I will try to make this as short as possible. My problem is with me ex's "girlfriend". She is more evil then my ex is. This woman has been dating my ex for a year and ...
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- Please ask the family court judge for a "Guardian Ad Lit em". This person will be able to help your child and the whole custody situation! Sometimes an "outsider" can ...
- It's pretty important that you come across as the bigger person here. Whatever she does - do not react in any way in front of her or your daughter. Accept that for now...
- Document, document, document. Every paper that she has signed as a 'Parent / Legal Guardian', try to get copies of. She is not and is breaking the law by signing ...
Deception and Details......
Asked by A.W. from Jackson
on June 17, 2009
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My EXH has claimed 100% the daycare expense in the past four years of child care on HIS taxes...yet he bills me for 50%....{he invoices me for half expenses called SER...
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- I agree with Christy! Your child won't care one BIT as an adult who paid for what-but she WILL remember Who set the proper example and didn't try to "get one over on ...
- You say he bills you. Does he do this in writing? If so, have you saved the bills? Do you have the cancelled checks that you have written to him for day care? Are ...
- Starting this week, pay by check one half of the daycare tuition. You may need to go through your lawyer to do this. The check will be your receipt. If you are bein...
17 Yr Old Step Daughter Pregnant and Hates Me
Asked by L.L. from Hartford
on August 30, 2010
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Hi,
Stumbled upon this site hoping that maybe someone can give me some advice.
We just found out my stepdaughter is pregnant. He father is my husband and she do...
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- Well, there's not a whole lot you can do, but here is what I suggest..........talk to your husband...........ask him to ask her to have a face to face with him or both...
- I find this whole thing confusing as it sounds like the girl has been abused and troubled for a long time but you haven't sought custody? I cannot fathom why you woul...
- As hard as it is you need to let your husband handle this. You can influence him, but that's about it. Suggest to him that he go see his daughter, a hug and a date wit...
Seeking Good Family Law Attorney in Tarrant County
Asked by T.S. from Dallas
on September 14, 2007
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My husband's ex-wife has been causing problems. We have missed 3 weekend visitations with his child due to all the drama she and her mother are causing. We are cluele...
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- Constance (Connie) Langston in Fort Worth is a great family law attorney who is wonderful. I have never used her myself, but know several friends who have, and all ha...
- I don't know of a good attorney - but I do know that if there is a child support order in place, and your husband is meeting those requirements, the ex can not withhol...
- David Kulesz is good. He is located in Arlington. His number is ###-###-####. Since his daughter is only 7, it doesn't matter what she says - your husband still has a ...
Family Wash Kids Brain
Asked by I.S. from Chicago
on March 5, 2010
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how can mother protect there child from there own framily WHO ALWAYS GIVIN BAD ADVICE EVEN THOUGH WHEN THE CHILD IS VERY INTELLIGENT
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- i know how you feel. i have been through that with my family. i tried to explain how i felt and that i was raising my children the way i wanted them raised with the va...
- Is this the child's father who is brainwashing the child? If so, that is called "parental alienation syndrome." I experienced this with my older son. I took him to ...
- Well, what kind of bad advice? Social activities? Health choices? Morality issues? Is the child old enough to defend him/herself? If not, then maybe they need to ...
Cant Seem to Reconnect with My 6 Year Old Daughter After
Asked by T.C. from Portland
on June 28, 2010
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HELP, i cant seem to find any way to get my 6 year old daughter and i back. Its been 3 years since i left her father and she has just in the past year started to be ve...
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- She does get it, she is just trying to see how far she can push your buttons...honestly. She may not "fully" get the full extent of it, but she knows that you and dad...
- :( it's a phase. I went through it with my mom she divorced my dad when I was about seven . She is just still so young so her mind probly won't grasp the fact that thi...
- This is tough, and a very vulnerable age. If you can at all do it, even if once or twice/month, I would try counseling with the two of you as you don't want this to ge...
Visatation for a One Year Old Baby
Asked by D.H. from Louisville
on October 3, 2009
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please help me?I have temp.custody of my one year old grandson,His father wants well has vistation for him.okay he was to get him two days a week for four hours well h...
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- toddlers have serious issues with separation anxiety. you need to get a lawyer and go to court to get SUPERVISED visitation by you. he doesnt know this man and hes bei...
- I don't have much info for you, unfortunately, but is there any way that you can request a social worker/court appt. person be there when the father comes to get him? ...
- I am sorry you are having to go through with this. Almost all courts make you follow through with visitation REGARDLESS of paying child support. I have 3 sons and hav...
Dealing with Overbearing Stepmother and Ex Is Too Sissy to Stand up to Her
Asked by J.B. from San Diego
on March 22, 2011
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Im a mother of to young children. There father and I split up about 2 and 1/2 years ago. We share joint custody. Same amount of hours and days we have the kids. We are...
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- With any luck she will find greener pastures and move on to her next victim. If you don't "lock horns" with her she and your ex will eventually turn on each other and...
- Well, that really stinks. So very sad when a grown woman cannot put the children's needs before her own. Don't sink to her level. Always take the high road. And,...
- I was in a similar type of relationship with my SIL. I suggest you just stop talking to her. Period. There's no way to make things work with someone who clearly g...
Stepchild and Attitude Change
Asked by N.D. from Provo
on February 6, 2008
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My stepdaughter is now 5 and I have been with her since she was 6 months old. We have custody so she goes with her mom every other weekend. We are having a hard time...
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- Five year olds often get it into their heads that if they're friends with that person, that means they can't be friends with this person. If the ex is indicating th...
- N., Can you get her into a support group for children dealing with divorce and new step parents? Continue to be supportive of her. It may take years, but she will...
- I too had this same problem with my children. When they went for a visit with dad and his new wife they came back angry, misunderstood and scared. I tried to talk with...
Ex-husband Bad Mouthing via Emails
Asked by L.B. from New York
on August 30, 2011
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I am in desperate need of advice and I am counting on you Mama’s. My ex-husband has been very disparaging about me to the kids. He will pick anything he can think ...
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- Oh boy. I would save those e-mails. I would talk about them in therapy. Let me tell you something, even the best of kids can try to manipulate their parents. Espec...
- Hi L.- I second everything that little miss just said... All I can say is that my ex was/is very similar...the difference is my divorce has been final for just o...
- Do your kids have a safe space where they can express the negative feelings they have about the divorce, about you and about your new husband? Clearly your ex is a m...