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Seeking a Good Toddler Discipline/parenting Book
I love the Positive Discipline series (Jane Nelson). There is one for ages 1-3, for toddlers, and for preschoolers. Sounds similar to Love and Logic ...
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- Not sure if it is still in print - but I loved Raising Your Spirited Child by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka - you could probably find through Amazon. It includes all ages. ...
- I am a big believer in the Love and Logic books. I recommend you read the original book called something like Love and Logic - how to raise responsible kids and then r...
- The Secret of Parenting, Anthony Wolf Great view into how to respond to an actual issue vs. a kid's efforts to gain attention. A big and important distinction. The ...
3 Year Old Behavior...
Read Jane Nelson's book positive disipline. You can't force anyone to feel sorry that is an evolution - developing out of relationship and 3 year olds are ...
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- I'm in a parenting class and there were 4 people last night who had similar challenges with their 3 yr olds. Seems to be a reaction to having a new sibling. You may w...
- As a former preschool teacher, and now as a nanny and parent, I understand what you are going through. In the school I taught at it was our philosophy to never make a...
- I have 2 almost-4 year olds. My daughter is a screamer too. My best advice is to ignore her when she's shrieking in time out. She's only doing it because she knows it ...
Help with Hygiene
In Jane Nelson's positive parenting, she aims for the consequence to fit the issue. In this case, your son has trouble cleaning. ...
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- L., I don't have so much advice as just mutual sharing...you're not alone. My son is 7 1/2 y/o and there have been many times where I found he smelled and it was b/c ...
- Wow, diffently time to ask for help. Actually past, in my opinion. I'd say the kid is playing you. Meaning, it's more important to you, so he keeps it your problem. In...
- Hi L., I only have experience with nieces and nephews as my son is only 2 1/2 but there never seemed to be any of these issues that you mention. Are you certain tha...
Tantrums, Tantrums, Tantrums
A book that really helped me is by Jane Nelson, Positive Discipline. Check out their website www.positivediscipline.com. They have a book tailored to the ...
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- it's so hard! when you remove something from her, is it possible to replace the item with something else? disract her? when she has a tantrum, agree with her- give...
- A book that really helped me is by Jane Nelson, Positive Discipline. Check out their website www.positivediscipline.com They have a book tailored to the toddler st...
- wow what a great link! Nice precise info on handling tantrums! I have booked marked it!
12 Year Old Behavior Problems
Jane Nelson - POSITIVE DISCIPLINE She has written some great books on discipline without punishments and rewards (they don't work, as you are seeing, ...
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- I am sure there are many issues behind the emotion and behavior occurring here. It is important to find more treatment than meds- including educational support (with ...
- Let me say that I can identify with what you are going through. I too am a stepmom in a very similar situation to yours (had to raise the child because mom was unable...
- First of all Sonya H is right, about the food. Second of all if you don't discipline you can expect behavior problems - "talking to" is not discipline, boundaries and...
Seeking a Really Good Stylist
Carrie Nelson is GREAT and so nice at Salon Stella in NE Minneapolis. They were voted best salon ... She is Jane Bakeman at Londons, Ltd. in St. Louis Park. ...
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- Daralee at Uruku Saloon in Eden Prarie. She is great. I jus had my hair done there this past week, she spent three hours on me and she did a fantastic job.
- I like mine. She is Jane Bakeman at Londons, Ltd. in St. Louis Park. Send me a message if you need the number. I have been going to her for more than 15 years.
- Molly at Studio 52 (downtown Minneapolis on 9th St - across from Target) is great. Her # is ###-###-####.
Staying Calm Through Tantrums
I HIGHLY HIGHLY HIGHLY recommend Positive Discipline Ages 1-3 by Jane Nelson. It was recommended to me by a therapist as THE way to discipline your child ...
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- A., I can relate. Remember that you do not want your emotions to escalate over the escalating (irrational) emotions of a child! I grew up in a house with a lot of ...
- My 20 month old has been throwing tantrums about nothing since she was about 8 months or so. I just ignore her for a while. You can't even talk to her while she's th...
- The worst thing you can do during a tantrum is respond to it. Responding to it will only fuel her tantrum. You need to ignore the tantrum. It is easier to ignor...
Hitting
You can try Jane Nelson's books ,Penelope Leach 's books are good to.ALso the one called 'you are your child's first teacher.'Those books 'your one year ...
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- Consistancy is key. We all learn from repetition, especially kids. I don't know how long you've been working at this but try to hang on just a little longer. Sometimes...
- Try the book "Hands Are Not For Hitting" - and read it to them two to three times every day - they're both very young, but the 22-month-old should be able to understan...
- Both children are are still young and hitting can be a normal phase that they go through. When the the hitting starts and they are playing together redirect their atte...
Need Ideas for Encouraging Independence in My 10-Year-old
Dr. Jane Nelson's Positive DIscipline http://www.positivediscipline.com/. Dr. Becky Bailey's Loving Guidance http://www.consciousdiscipline.com/ ...
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- Hello C., I know the dilema that you are feeling. We to have spoiled our children. Much to my chagrin, my husband felt there was not need (he being the youngest of ...
- What about establishing a list of chores for allowance? My daughter is ten and really is into clothes. She has learned thru shopping (clothes, groceries and gas) how...
- C., My 16 year old step daughter was raised in a similar way, and we're paying for it now, above and beyond the annoyance of her room being messy. While ours is a v...
Sibling Jealousy and Fighting
I have been using the techniques in the book, Postive Discipline, by Jane Nelson and what a difference it has made! Good Luck. Helpful? ...
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- Have you read 'Siblings Without Rivalry' by A. Faber? I highly recommend it for anyone with two or more kids!
- Wow you did a great job. I have a 6 and a 2 year old with the same issue. I have asked them to praise each other for accomplishments. Also, I have a jar with rocks ...
- Hello, J., Okay. You've tried reasoning with your daughter about how wonderful she is, etc. and still she behaves negatively towards her brother. She is rather yo...
