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I Need Help with My 13 Year Old Daughter!!!
It's part of a program by James Lehman, who was himself a problem kid and is now a psychologist. We tried many of his techniques with both of our daughters. ...
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- I have a 13 year old step daughter and it's natural to think your parents are crazee. The hormones in side effect the mental , but we do have to let them know we are s...
- Oh C., I don't envy the stage you're in now - I worry about it wiht my 5 year old! What about total reverse psychology and inviting her to a spa day with you? Fa...
- As a mom of a 12-year-old, I often repeat this catch phrase to myself in my head: It´s hard to repay the tolerance that we borrow. You are repaying right now, as yo...
20 Month Old Who Is Very Defiant
I was watching part of an info-mercial of James Lehman's 'Total Transformation' program, and they said something that made a lot of sense. ...
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- Read Making the Terrible Twos Terrific, by John Rosemond. The terribles start around 18 months.
- My grandson does the same thing, and he is 2 1/2.Now he throws himself on the floor when told is bath time or bedtime. I just took the food away, he wont starve.He is ...
- If you are VERY consistent, he will realize he has no reason to test you. Set some ground rules and then stick to them 100%, no matter what (even if you have friends o...
5 Yr Old Not Listening & Talking Back to Authority
The guy is James Lehman, MSW, and the website is as follows: thetotaltransformation.com. Anyway, he has testimonials from many grateful parents who have ...
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- Does he have time with any male figure? I am reading a book about a mom's influence on her son called, "That's My Son." By Rick Johnson. He says that by age 5 boys nat...
- E., this can be so frustrating. My grandson started Kindergarten in the fall and had just turned five. He's always been very independent and always spoke his mind. My ...
- I would first be a little leery that maybe these weekends are where he's picking up an attitude. In any case, I will again offer the idea of a martial arts class. If...
Disciplining Young Teen
It's part of what's called the Total Transformation Program, which was created by James Lehman. The program is 7 CDs, and is worth the money if it's in your ...
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- Be firm in saying that if the chores aren't done then there's no movies, phone, tv, etc. Ask your husband to either help or at the very least not to disagree with you ...
- Hi D., At that age all teens act like that. They are actually stuck between being still a kid and becoming a young lady/young man. I remember when I was trying to ge...
- THROW HER PHONE IN THE GARBAGE----------pick up her clothes and throw them in the garbage----tell her no dishes no food------lay down the lay and stick to it--------te...
Help with My ADHD Daughter/getting Going in Morning/hygiene Issues
The founder, James Lehman, was a problem child and can make a difference in your child. The program isn't just for problem children, but for ADHD children ...
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- Your daughter sounds SOOOOOOOO much like mine, so I can relate... and sympathize. My daughter, too, has been diagnosed with ADHD. Please look into the program, "T...
- Have you tried the reward system? I know it probably sounds crazy but maybe if you stress to her that if she does all of these things without being prodded to do them...
- Hi, S.. I feel your frustration, having an ADHD child myself. My son is 8 and has similar issues. We know we have to get anything important he needs to do done by 7...
Need Help with 7 Year Olds Behavior and Husbands
My husband heard of the Total Transformation Program by James Lehman. It costs approximately $300, but the investment is worth it. ...
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- I'm no expert, but just from her behavior I think you are right to asume it started with the move. She may have a few ideas herself thinking that by causing this beha...
- Sounds like in order for you to start addressing your child's issues you and your husband need to be on the same page in your parenting plan. From what you've said abo...
- T. - my suggestion is time consuming, but hopefully time in will have good results for the long run. You need to train your eldest, because the two younger will follw...
Trouble with and Between My Teen-aged Son and Husband
We have had good success with a DVD program called the Total Transformation Program by James Lehman. He also has a website that provides general advice, ...
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- J., Hubby isn't going anywhere, he is just MAD, and upset, common for men in this situation, he feels he is supporting this kids and the kid is ungreatful he...
- Hi J., I've been there, not with every single thing you mentioned, but enough. Please take time to go out with your husband for a quiet time for the two of you...no ...
- I married my husband when my kids were 14, 10, and 5. They are now 26,23,17. My oldest son left at quite young to live with dad. the middle son went into the marin...
Out of Controll 12 Year Old
It was created by James Lehman. We tried it with our son about a year ago and have made some progress. His attitude has improved tremendously. ...
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- Hi B., I am a mom and a middle school teacher. My gut tells me that something happened 4 years ago. The fact that she is delivering angert to you and siblings but can...
- B. Have you tried having your husband and your other family members (including yourself) sit down and tell your daughter how her actions affect the rest of you? A...
- Hi B., Very good advise has been given, just to give my two cents. Not only would I look into the behavior health issues such as adhd but also try to find out if t...
Looking for a Good Gynecologist in the Milwaukee Area
Dr. James Linn (although he's rather busy) Dr. Julie Mickelson .... James Douglas · James Lehman · Bay Area · Menomonee Falls ...
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- I love my OB/Gyn, Kathleen Trebian. She has her own office on the Eastside (on Webster & Downer). Good luck!
- I LOVE Dr. Kaminski in Menomonee Falls. I have "difficulties" with my cycle and he is GREAT! I've been with him for 4 years.
- Hi P., Kathleen Trebian is my OB/Gyn. She is always on time, always makes time for anything you need, and very personable. She has her own practice. I highly recomm...
Books on Raising Children/toddlers
Asked by B.G. from Springfield
on October 5, 2009
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I am looking for some books on parenting/raising children/toddlers, preferably written by a Christian author. I would like to hear what others have read and found hel...
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- I am currently reading a book titled, "A Proverbs 31 Daughter: Training daughters to be Godly Women". I absolutely LOVE it! I found it on cristianbook.com, and my h...
- My Sunday School class is participating in a series call Proactive Parenting...I'd recommend it. Also, I'm reading Love and Logic: Early Childhood and I LOVE it!! It's...
- Hi B., I like Kevin Lehman (sp) he as a book called Have a New Kid By Friday and had written others. James Dobson is always a good one (I love that man!) and my husba...
