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Preparing Child for Loss of a Pet
Oct 8, 2009 ... Lifetimes... explains death and dying in a more "clinical" way. Some excerpts: " Everything has a beginning and an ending and in between is ...
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- We just went through this with one of our cats and it was horrible. I am so sorry that you are going through this. It happened so fast. My sister in law's dog and my...
- I remember this happening with our family cat. I have a daughter is just turned 5 and is autistic, so you can imagine my dilemma. I'm sorry you have to go through th...
- L., the best way to prepare a child that young for the death of a family pet is to talk to her about pet heaven. It is best illustrated at the website www.rainbowbridg...
Seeking Advice on Talking to Three Year Old About Death
I need advice on how to talk to my three year old about death. Her child care provider collasped ..... I have told her that dying is not bad, nor does hurt. ...
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- I would make sure that you don't tell your daughter that her caregiver went to sleep and is now in heaven- this may make her afraid to fall asleep at night, fearing th...
- I am sorry you and your daughter are going through this difficult time. There are wonderful books about grief and children as well as fantastic websites (The Dougy Ce...
- I've found that talking to my daughter about death is easier in using things that she can understand/touch, etc. That being said, the easiest way for us to explain ...
Explaining Death to a Three Year Old
I really do not think a child of that age can grasp the concept of dying and heaven. ... I know around the age of 4, a lot of kids get a huge fear of death, ...
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- We just had to explain the concept of death to my four year old, although it was for a different reason. We lost a dog. But what seemed to work well with her was tel...
- I would talk to him and explain your beliefs to him. I would take him to the funeral because death is part of life. Birth happens and so does death. He will talk ab...
- First, I wouldn't take him to the funeral. I think it is a little traumatic for a 3 yr old to see a dead body. As he gets older and understands death, then he can st...
Scared After Baby's Death
Scared After Baby's Death. My husband's co-worker had a son about 3 weeks after my ..... They haven't been overlly concerned about him dying of SIDS, ...
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- Wow...I can only imagine how he must feel...I know just reading your post makes me wonder, "What would I DO if ANYTHING happened to my daughter"? I think only time wi...
- as one of those paranoid first time moms, i can totally relate to your husbands overreaction. if someone i knew had a baby that died of sids i would be a wreck. i'm no...
- J., Besides putting your baby on her back to sleep the most recent research shows that having air circulating in her room also helps prevent SIDS. Have your husband...
Advice for 6 Year Old with Irrational Fears
What I did was sat down with him and talked to him about death and dying. I told him that when people die, it is just part of life and death wasn't ...
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- I had bad nightmares when I was little and my mom made me write a letter to a "blue Fairy" and I asked her for good dreams. My promised me she is gonna throw the lette...
- It could be a sign of separation anxiety. To alleviate this you shouldn't make a big deal when you leave or get home, and if you leave him with a babysitter or anythin...
- Oh Love! i wish i could just hug u both. F.E.A.R is false- evidence- appearing- real and the only way to combat the minds power is with the power of the Spirit. He has...
Terminal Illness
My heart is saying not to tell him his Grandpa is dying and just keep it at ... As for me, the good effects of my early introduction to death have kept me ...
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- Hi T., I feel for you, my dad passed away in May from cancer and it was devestating. I didn't even know how to tell my 15 and 10 year old about it, but I knew I ha...
- I believe in raising my children to self thinking and self reliant ( be your own counsel) this requires to always tell them the truth about the common taboo subjects l...
- Dear T., It seems with your wisdom and sensitivity everything will be all right ...and I think you have the right idea by giving information as things ...
How Do I Explain Grandpa Is Terminal to 3 Yr Old? or Do I?
... the bible teaches us about death and dying in Christ they were all comforted ... There is no one good way to explain death to a 3yearold There is going ...
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- There is a book called GOD GAVE US HEAVEN by Lisa Tawn Bergren, maybe it can help a litle to talk as you read a story. God bless you and your family
- My daughter is three and we lost my grandfather when my oldest daughter was three, also. Although she didn't grasp the magnitude of heaven, she certainly understood i...
- Hi Dear: what a stressful time you are going through. May I suggest, if possible, you take your children to see grandpa so you ALL have the memory of loving him thr...
How to Tell Your 6 Year Old About Death
Sep 6, 2009 ... There are great books that explain death to children without ... death and asking questions about parents dying or them dying etc Realize ...
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- I think I would just answer her questions as they come and be honest. I would probably let her lead because she may not want as much information as we have to give. ...
- I think you should be very honest about it. Tell her that her friend's dad died, his body stopped working. If you are a believer, tell her that he went to be with Jesu...
- Ultimately it depends on your religious views as to whether you explain death in terms of 'going to heaven' or 'living with God', etc. We do not practice a prescr...
To Tell or Not to Tell...
I agree with you this is a perfect opportunity to have a breif discussion about death and dying. With my girls anyhow, it was an introduction when our cat ...
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- I would give him the talk... I think that is part of the process of growing up and it helps them to learn about death BEFORE a loved one passes... It doesn't help to t...
- I'm so happy you told your son the truth...It's my personal opinion that lying to your children is wrong - even about the tough facts of life. My husband's ex wife ...
- Hi D. You really should tell Aidan. Eventually he'll figure things out since he's bright and observant, and it's worse to lie to your child than to explain even th...
Looking for Advice & Resources for Helping Caregivers
I also recommend you contact your local hospice organization as they usually have resources available regarding the death and dying process and can put you ...
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- I am sorry that your family is struggling with this. It may not be time yet, but please start a dialoge with your MIL regarding hospice care. Ask her to talk about i...
- Hi C., My dad has been this way for nearly 10 years now. He has lost his ability to read, write, and speak. He does vocalize, but it is not coherent. He doesn't rec...
- This is a tough one C.. I am not certain how many siblings your husband has but perhaps if there is another you guys can each take "weekends" to help your MIL so she ...
