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My Daughter Lies
... teens as well as younger children it is called Love And Logic Magic for Early Childhood by Jim and Charles Fay, Ph.D. I think that will help you a lot! ...
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- C. I feel your pain. I have a 16 year old stepdaughter who came to live with us when she was 12 and has not stopped lying since. In fact, it's so bad that we don't ...
- There is an awesome book my mom bought me for Christmas as I have a 16 month old son and worry about discipline. It is a great book and great for pre-teens and teens a...
- I dont know whether you are religious or not, but sometimes children at your daugther's age learn that there is more to simply behaving; there is accountability and mo...
17 Month Old Discipline
I am reading a book called Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood by Jim and Charles Fay. Wish I had read it sooner!!! It has some wonderful ideas for ...
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- Hello R., If you are wanting to set the foundation for a compassionate and empowering home for you and your son, I recommend reading "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen a...
- Im not an expert but i have two little boys of my own and they are trying. You might want to try picking him up and embracing him while talking softly, maybe even rem...
- Welcome to the terrible 2's!! Don't worry too much as just about all moms have gone thru this. Imagine not being able to get what you want when you want!! The horror!!...
Is It Too Soon to Discipline My 1 Year Old?
It is called Love and Logic Magic by Jim and Charles Fay, Ph.d and it explains in detail about discipling a one year old & so on. The book is for 0-6 years ...
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- My daughter is 16 mos, so I completely understand. At 1 - it is hard to discipline them, I personally have found that being consistent with my daughter has helped....
- Hi L., I have a 13 month old and have been disciplining her since around 9 months (that's when she started walking). I actually tell her things like don't touch or do...
- Hi L., I think that it's absolutely OK for you to start disciplining your almost 1 year old. We have been disciplining our 17 month old for quite a while. Yes, some...
What Is a Good Punishment For....
As Dr. Charles Fay (Jim Fay's son)advises: "My kids already know most of the things I'm reminding them about." "Reminding them anyway sends the message that ...
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- I used to make "useful" punishments. That is, I would make him sweep the front porch, vacuum, or clean something. Serves three purposes: punishment, helped me out, a...
- I am going through this exact same thing with my soon-to-be 5 year old son. Well, several nights ago I was at my wits end and I was desperate to try anything. A whil...
- Something that I picked up from my son's school is the stoplight method. Red, yellow, green. If he does something minor he gets a warning. 2 warnings and he moves to ...
Help with 5 Year Old Grandson Acting Out
Jim and Charles Fay have written numerous books about what to do when kids misbehave and all the theories work wonderfully and it isn't hard. ...
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- It sounds like he just started Kindegarten therefore, he has realized the others get to stay home & have the fun with NaNa. He's jealous which is understandable. Try ...
- Sounds like your grandson wishes he had more attention...what kid doesn't right? Sibling rivalry is very common. His siblings are at Nana's and he has to be at school ...
- Hi L.: I have five children of my own and I have learned from experience that this behavior is for the attention. He needs some one-on-one time with Mom, Dad and e...
A 2 Yr Old That Is All Ways Having to Be Put in Time Out
I recommend a book called "Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood" by Jim Fay and Charles Fay. Their website, www.loveandlogic.com, will also have other ...
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- The discipline book I love is "Adventures in Gentle Discipline" by Hillary Flower. It's full of stories from parents and at the end she goes through specific discipli...
- By now your child has learned that he can push you around at will. I saw this with my nephew, who will behave for me but not for his parents. It may have helped to st...
- Hi L., I am a mom of three boys (ages 22, 18 and 15) and an Early Childhood professional. I call myself the luckiest survivor in the world! I recommend a book called...
How to Get Toddler to Eat
u need to check out the Love and Logic book by Dr., Charles Fay - what they recommend is giving toddlers choices - would u like this or that - and gradually ...
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- Hi S.! STOP! STOP STOP!!!! OK, now go to www.aap.org and buy their book on nutrition and kids.... it is awesome! It is the American Acadamy of pediatrics, they discu...
- u need to check out the Love and Logic book by Dr., Charles Fay - what they recommend is giving toddlers choices - would u like this or that - and gradually work him i...
- I have had plenty of experience with picky eaters from my own children and I have to agree with your doctor... kids won't starve themselves and will eventually eat som...
HELP!! 7 Yr Old Daughter and Terrible Temper Tantrums
The author is Jim Fay or Charles Fay. Hope this helps!! Stay tough and let her know you mean business. God bless! Helpful? Yes | No Save This Remove This ...
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- Dear K., I don't know what kind of consequences other then no TV,& no play dates, you have tried. I had a daughter that was three when we had the same problem. Other ...
- Lack of good sleep is usually what my almost 7 year old causes this reaction. Getting to the heart of what is going on, too much sugar, lack of sleep, something bothe...
- First off, you are giving her too much attention when she is throwing her tantrum. Just look at her and walk away. You are giving her positive attention by speaking ...
How Can I Get My Kids to School on Time Without Screeming at Them Every Morning?
Please do yourself a HUGE favor and buy the "Love and Logic" audio CD's by Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D. You may have seen them on PBS. ...
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- The bigggest thing that helped us was to get dressed the night before and have them sleep in their clothing. Of course it only works if there aren't any nighttime acci...
- Hi W., I am the mother of four children (adults now). But as a mother of four mornings could be really hectic. The best advice I can give you is SHIFT WORK! ...
- Wow, you have a lot of responces. Sorry I did not read them all so this maybe repete. I can still have that problem...it's called me regressing on my responcibilitie...
Help with Whiny 7 Year Old
Written by Jim Fay and Charles fay Phd. They are a father and son team. You do need to make sure you get a newer addition because they have updated a lot of ...
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- I love Parenting with Love & Logic. We are presenting the parenting class at Summitt Elementary in January if you are interested. Its just good, solid, parenting. T.
- You've gotten a lot of great advice! I'm in the same boat with my 6 year old. She's a star student at school yet has break downs at home. Her 3 year old brother has...
- Love and Logic works. I have two grown children to prove it. Spanking may or may not work, but what it does do, is make both your child and you feel crummy. Try the Lo...
