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My Husband
Asked by H.H. from Greenville
on May 3, 2008
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i am 8 months pregnant, and i just found out my husband was playing around on me. i want to get a divorce, but i don't want my kid to be a fatherless child and i can't...
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- H. my first thoughts is wait wait wait. Don't make any rash decisions. You have just been hit with a bomb, that no one wants to go through. I would stay away from h...
- H., I was saddened when I read your message. I am not sure what to say but your must think of your unborn child and what is best for the two of you. I pray that yo...
- Oh no! I am sorry to hear that. I will say one thing I heard on Dr Phil and always remembered....write this down and repeat it daily...."it is better for a child to ...
"Flirting Husband"
Asked by M.P. from Charlotte
on February 20, 2008
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The past two months for me have been an emotional roller coaster!! I previously separated from my husband for about 4 months because I was depressed and just not happy...
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- I will also suggest you both to go to marriage counseling. I don't know if you go to church or not but a lot of pastors have been trained to do counseling. My pastor...
- Hello M., I'm so sorry to read what you've been going through. I've been there and I know it feels. My husband has been unfaithful and we've been married 12 years. ...
- First-this is none of your mother-in-laws business. You need to make the decision that is best for you and your son. If you love him then try to stay with him. Trust i...
Husband Hanging Out
Asked by B.C. from Dallas
on March 28, 2010
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Wives, how often is it okay for your husband to be out with his friends? just recently my husband has caught up with his single friends and every weekend this month,...
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- Depends on where they are going. If it's a weekly round of golf, then perhaps 2x a month. If it's to a bar or a place where typically single people hang out, then 1x...
- Yes every weekend is way too much! I do understand him wanting to get out of the house is understandable is he's at home all day everyday. Even if they where married...
- My husband goes out once a week maybe. And not a weekend night, that would upset me. He does not hang with single guys. That is a cause for concern. I would not like ...
Tell My Husband or Not?
Asked by A.S. from Dallas
on June 10, 2010
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My husband and I have two young children but since the first of this year I have lost my first two pregnancies. I had one miscarriage and one ectopic pregnancy that e...
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- A., If I was in your shoes, I would wait until I know for sure, if possible after the first trimester if I could. I beleive men are different species! What that woma...
- Your husband would tell this lady anyway even though she was so cold to you?? He is still friends with her? That's just not right! My opinion is that you tell your...
- I'm so sorry for you losses. I would just ask him now. 'Honey, when I become pregnant again, do you want to know as soon as I know? Or do you want to wait until I...
If You Trust Your Husband.....
Asked by ☆.A. from Pittsburgh
on October 21, 2011
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....why blame the strippers?
Another question got me thinking about this.
If you REALLY trust your husband, then wouldn't you know, for sure that *nothing* would...
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- I think it's the idea of what those clubs are meant to do. The soul purpose is to make men lust for the women there. Men "love" visual stimulation, that's partly why w...
- Totally agree. I don't even think about strippers or other women; I know what my husband's reaction would be. (he's probably laugh) So yeah - I don't understand the co...
- I've never cared if he went to a strip club. I told him for his bday in August I would pay for him and his best friend to go to a strip club and get a lap dance. He t...
Would You Tell Your Husband....?
Asked by M.M. from Los Angeles
on October 11, 2010
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Long story, short…The man I dated before my husband and I met, is someone that is best friends with my sister and her husband. We still get along, and my husband ha...
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- I'd tell you husband but keep it very light and funny. Play it off as a drunken act of stupidity. After all, the guy is probably just lonely and a few drinks make lo...
- I probably would tell him, because you need to be upfront and honest in marriage and better your husband hear about it from you than from someone else. Your marriage ...
- Does your husband know you dated? If not, well, I can understand - as it's not relevant to YOU now, but clearly it's still relevant to drunk-ex boyfriend. It sound...
Husband Had an Affair...
Asked by C.B. from St. Louis
on November 29, 2008
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This is a tough one... and when you read this you will probably think I am crazy for even considering working on my marriage, but I love my husband and believe in the ...
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- I'm so sorry you are going throuhg this, it sucks, plain and simple. I admire you for trying to forgive and forget, but that is going to be very difficult. I would b...
- I can only imagine how devastating this is for you. This kind of stuff happens in nightmares. I am very sorry you have to go through this. I know you love your husb...
- C., I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. The pain of your husband's betrayal must be so awful...for you and your children. I really don't have an...
Cheating Husband
Asked by M.G. from Chicago
on July 13, 2009
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I just found out my husband of 13 yrs has been having an affair for 2 1/2 yrs. I'm totally in shock, I trusted him completely and now I found out with proof from his ...
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- I also know my husband cheated on me about 6 yrs ago,,but he covers his tracks very well ,since he is a police officer,,,at the time I was not working but now I am and...
- I'm so sorry - your letter is so heart wrenching! You've been taking the heat of the marital problems for the last couple years, thinking they were your problems. Tha...
- Shore up your finances (his bad credit from spending $ on her, will be yours as well), gather round your support system and tell them what is going on (who cares if hi...
Selfish Husband
Asked by K.W. from Dallas
on August 5, 2010
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Ok, I am at a total lose. I have been with my husband for ten years and married for three. We have two great kids and our marriage is pretty good. But he has been a ...
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- This actually just happened to me this week. My husband decides on Tuesday (after I ask a question about the weekend) to tell me he goes to Ohio this weekend for the H...
- K., I can give you better advice if you tell me what your husband has done to upset you. Since I don't know, all I can say right now is this - people don't cha...
- I don't think he will change, it is who he is and who you married. One shouldn't go into a marriage expecting the person to change drastically (yes change little thin...
My Sister and Her Husband Are Totally Screwing over My Husband and Me!
Asked by K.I. from Los Angeles
on January 6, 2012
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Hi All,
I am so upset with my sister right now I could spit! How do you guys find the inner strength to 'forgive and forget'? I need help with that right now!
My...
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- Forgiveness is a mindset and a way of living. Forgiveness isn't for the other person and doesn't excuse what they have done. Forgiveness frees you up to move forwar...
- "Fantastic Relationship"? As in you are the doormat and your sister is the foot. I wouldn't take them to court either, but I sure would ask them to clean the place...
- Wow you and your husband are amazing. Vent all you need to, I would be pissed off too, if I was you and your husband. That is pretty cool of the relationship you a...
