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Loveless Marriage
Asked by S.S. from Chicago
on July 23, 2011
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I wanted to know, how many moms are married but just content with the marriage and not happy. I feel like my spouse is more of a longgggg distance friend, rather than ...
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- So sorry you are feeling like this and have to deal with all of this pretty much on your own it sounds like. Sex isn't everything in marriage but intimacy is importan...
- I am no counselor, but it seem to me that you are bored with each other. It may have a lot to do with your personalities. If you are both quiet, people pleasing type...
- Sounds like you need to start spending time together and talking to each other. It doesn't have to be overly dramatic but make sure you always kiss when one of you le...
Relationship
Asked by T.W. from Fort Smith
on February 27, 2008
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I have been married for a number of years with two children. I am requesting advice about knowing when a marriage has no hope. My husband has not held a steady job for...
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- When my husband started following me...that was when I had enough. Sometimes he would be where I said I was going, before I could even get there... I think he cheated...
- It is really up to you when the relationship is past saving. My husband went for the last two years without employment, and it really took its toll on him. It also too...
- Hi, I strongly advise you to pull on the Lord in this matter. People can give you opinions but only God can direct your paths. Please, this is one of my favorite and m...
Confused...need Some Been There Done That advice..so to Speak..
Asked by D.W. from New York
on April 30, 2010
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Hello out there. Before I ask my question, i want to tell you a bit about my self. I consider myself "happily married with children." My husband is a great provider ...
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- D., someone who degrades you and your daughters is not a great husband and father, he's emotionally abusive. You should not pursue a relationship with a man who you...
- No you cannot. You have enough problems without throwing infedelity into the mix. He degrades you and your oldest daughter and makes you both feel worthless and this...
- You are treading on THIN ICE!!! This man has shown you what your marriage should be. He has for a moment fulfilled something you before now didn't even realize was mis...
Husband Cheated?
Asked by J.P. from Denver
on September 17, 2008
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Hi everyone. I just found out very early this morning that my husband cheated on me. I found some nudity pictures in one of his "old" emails. Pictures of a woman na...
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- Yes, this is cheating. Plus, when people get caught, they frequently only reveal the info that is necessary, continuing to hide the worst details, hoping that the spo...
- Since there are no clearly laid out points that determine if someone has cheated or not, it all comes down to opinion and in my opinion, your husband cheated. This is...
- Well, that is a very thin line that he crossed. If it were masturbation only, which is inappropriate enough, things might be a little different. But if there was a kis...
Facebook & Marriage Trouble
Asked by J.K. from Atlanta
on March 29, 2010
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6 months ago, I caught my spouse having x-rated text/picture mail with another woman. I recently allowed him to get back onto Facebook, and within weeks, he had text f...
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- I have talked to a few of my friends and they say that they need to do this or that to check up on their husbands. I feel if you can't have trust in a marriage then y...
- I personally would not want to be in a marraige where my spouse allowed me to do anything or monitored me like a child. Either you trust him or you don't. Get in to ...
- J., I have read a few of these and most of them seem to be blaming you and calling you controlling. I don't feel that way myself. I believe that he broke your trust...
Possibly Reading My Blog Posts???
Asked by J.C. from Sacramento
on July 26, 2010
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Just wondering if any of you have had a spouse or significant other checking out your blog postis without mentioning it to you? I have a FB acct that he is aware of an...
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- sometimes they just do...to see what you have to talk about with other people instead of talking to them. My husband was against facebook completely and is in no way ...
- Be glad he has interest. I don't think my husband looks, but if he does the books are open and the welcome sign is up.
- Ummm...what's the big deal if he IS checking out your blog posts? Are you writing something on there that you don't want him to know about? Blogs are out there for A...
Have You Ever Cheated and Gotten Away with It?
Asked by C.P. from Minneapolis
on January 21, 2012
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One of my very close friends is currently in a super flirty relationship with a coworker and is dangerously close to cheating on her husband. She seems to think that i...
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- Maybe she should put her extra energy towards spicing up the relationship she already has?!?!?
- Bella: No. I would not want to lose my family over something like that. How could I look at my kids and tell them that cheating is wrong if I do it? How could I...
- why is getting caught the issue? what about IT'S WRONG. she has obviously never been cheated on. and it's sad that my first thought is that. why can't people do the...
Forgive or Move On
Asked by A.V. from Nashville
on September 12, 2012
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Hello Mama's,
I'm at a crossroads and need advice. I've been married for 17 yrs but have been with my husband for 19 yrs. We have 3 children, ages 16, 14, and 10. ...
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- I am not the kind of person to say "get a divorce". I think that divorce should always be an absolute last resort after all avenues of reconciliation have been attemp...
- Nope... you really want to be with someone that is that controlling that he makes you take a child with you whenever you go somewhere, yet HE doesn't abide by those ru...
- Move on! He's had way too many chances; you've both cheated; the trust is gone; it will never get any better!! Even if you take him back, you won't be happy. And he...
Am I over Reacting?
Asked by T.F. from Wichita Falls
on January 29, 2008
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About 5 years ago my husband had an affair. After I found out I left him, but when we were 1 week from divorce I realized I loved him and wanted to try and work though...
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- T., I commend you for trying to save your marriage. That took a great deal of courage. It sounds to me like your fears are real, and hopefully your husband is se...
- It is normal to not trust when someone has cheated on you. My advice is you either need to completly let go of the fact that he has cheated and move on with your marr...
- ok, I will be the bad guy and say what every one else is afraid to say. Trust your instincts. God gave us intuition for a reason. There is something causing you to be ...
Do I Tell My Friend About Her Husband?
Asked by E.O. from New York
on June 15, 2009
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I have reason to believe that my good friend's husband is cheating on her. He sent me a message saying "you looked so sexy a few days ago that i just can't keep to my...
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- Hello E., That is a terrible position to be in. But I would say definitely stay out of it. If it is true, she will find out; but if you tell her, she is in the positi...
- People may disagree with me...but don't say any thing because it will hurt you and your friends relationship more then you think. His response when she adresses hi...
- My advice would be to stay out. You do not want to be the cause of a marriage ending, especially when there are children involved. And if she does decide to stay wit...
