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9 Yr Olds Kissing in the Bushes
Asked by L.K. from Denver
on February 27, 2009
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Please help! I just found out that my 9 yr old daughter and her best friend are kissing boys on the lips, and of course, lying to cover it up so they don't get into tr...
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- L. - I sympathize with you. It is so scary to realize how quickly children grow up in today's world. I would caution you, though, not to make this situation so big t...
- Ummm... I think I have to disagree with other posters, who don't seem to think this is a big deal. It is. My husband came home and told me a story that his co-worke...
- L., Why are you creating guilt and shame in your daughter about the act of kissing a boy? (Titus 1:15). Your reaction is teaching your daugther a lesson I wish all li...
9-Year Old and Boyfriends
Asked by C.M. from Chicago
on March 23, 2011
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Does it really start this early? AHHH!
My 9-year old daughter came home and said she had a "boyfriend." Now, I'm pretty sure it doesn't mean the same to her as it d...
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- At age 9, the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship consists largely of ignoring each other publicly to the point where everybody KNOWS they like each other. I really w...
- I wouldn't freak out just yet. I think it's pretty normal elementary age, very normal crush stuff, for some kids more than others. I have a hunch the boy may not even ...
- My daughter is 11 and in middle school. We have spent a lot of time over the years talking about appropriate behavior in all aspects. She thinks that having a boyfri...
Is Sims 3 Game Appropriate for 9 Year Old?
Asked by N.W. from South Bend
on September 6, 2009
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My question is this: My 9 year old granddaughter is pushing me hard to let her get the Sims 3 "reality" game, and I am reluctant to do this, but I realize I don't kno...
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- Your instincts are correct. Even if it is rated T, when she is a teenager I would not just buy it because I do not trust the rating system's idea of what is appropria...
- I like the Sims... and have played most of them including Sims 3. Although I'm a bit disappointed with Sims 3, I do think it is a game for a little older age group th...
- My husband and I we're discussing this while driving. He is adamant that he would never let a child play any of The Sims games and might consider it for a mature 16 ye...
Sexual Exploration - 7 Year Olds
Asked by S.S. from Charlotte
on February 28, 2007
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Hi. My sister-in-law (we'll call her "A") walked in on my 7 year old daughter and her 7 year old daughter (cousins) under the covers rubbing each others' privates. S...
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- S., I would leave her alone, she has been mortified enough and I am sure she understands perfectly what happened. I don't think this will affect the way she'll live ...
- Hi S.-I have a similiar tale to tell. My neighbor when I was growing up, was found in a closet with another little girl.They were in a compromising position. There mot...
- Hi S., I would leave it alone unless and until your daughter asks more questions. As for A, I would keep the children apart as much as possible, her daughter has t...
13 Year Olds Dating - Reality Check
Asked by T.G. from Milwaukee
on February 24, 2011
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My 13 year old daughter has a boyfriend (i.e., they sit together at lunch at school and talk/text), She and a friend want to go to a movie on a double date this week...
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- I have a 13 year old and thankfully we aren't there YET but some of her friends are and some peers at her school are having sex already. We are on our knees a lot pray...
- I also have a 13 year old girl, she is not dating but I know she start liking boys. I also know that most of her friends also like other boys and some are dating alrea...
- Nope. Too young. I have a 22-year-old and 13-year-old. We let our older daughter go on "group" dates when she was in high school. Endure the stares. You are right. ...
9 Month Old Pulling Hair
Asked by M.I. from Denver
on December 2, 2007
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My 9 month old son has recently begun pulling my hair everytime I hold him. Sometimes he starts out just touching it, but it eventually turns into yanking handfuls. ...
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- Hi M., One of my sons did this for a long time. Tell him no and put him down. He will get upset and pretty soon, he will associate your no and getting put down with...
- It's a phase that most kids go through. My 10-month old son started doing it just recently, and when he does it I tell him "no pulling - nice hands" and put him down....
- He is just learning cause and effect, I just had to pull my hair back in a pony tail when I had babies that young that did that. 9 Month olds do not really understand...
9 Year Old Son Has a 10 Year Old"girlfriend" That Calls Him Several Times a Day!
Asked by J.P. from Norfolk
on June 5, 2011
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My husband doesn't want to make a big deal about it. I agree to a point. School is almost over, so I am trying to hold my tongue. I figure it will fizzle out over the ...
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- OK, may be innocent as some are saying, but she is being way too aggressive and i would be mortified if my daughter did this. "Just friends" is a two way street and sh...
- I would treat it like any other friendship. What are your rules for letting him go to functions with friends? Do you need to meet the parents first? If so, arrange ...
- What are your warning bells telling you: that they are going to go off and have sex somewhere at the family function?? The "romance" between a 9 and 10 year old is u...
What to Respond to My 9 Year Old Dauther
Asked by L.C. from Chicago
on November 15, 2008
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My Dauther came to me yesterday and says mami I have been hiring something from you I have a Boyfriend , this boy in school, he's really cute he asked me to by his Gir...
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- Hi L., I had the same thing happen to me when my daughter was 11. The first thing I did was ask her what her definition of a boyfriend was - if she didn't know, I was...
- Most "relationships" at that age fizzle in a few days to 2 weeks. The thing that's worrysome is the fact that you didn't take the time your daughter needed when she ne...
- L., Don't stress out about it. It's innocent at this age. Don't let her go over to his house unless you are there as well or if you know his mother really well. If th...
Working Mom and 3.5 Year Olds Adjustment
Asked by C.S. from New York
on May 24, 2010
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There are so many factors my head is spinning. I starting working 1 year ago, when daughter was 2.5 and son was 8 months. We have a great nanny. I work 4 days (away...
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- Yes she is just a kid. At each age juncture throughout childhood... a child will go through different manifestations of "separation anxiety" and needs for "bonding."...
- Well, she is probably old enough to remember when you were there at home with her. The change is where this is coming from. My 7 yo still asks me about the work days...
- Don't be so hard on yourself......I, too, am a working mom. We had an in-home (at our house) babysitter until our second child was born. Our son was 21 months, and I...
Best Books for 5 Year Old
Asked by A.K. from Minneapolis
on February 29, 2008
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I am going to get a few story books for my niece who is turning 5 and I need a few ideas. What are your 4-5 year olds' favorite books? I know she likes Click Clack Moo...
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- Elephant & Piggie books, by Mo Willems Knuffle Bunny, by Mo Willems Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus!, by Mo Willems The Napping House, Audrey Wood Owl Babies, M...
- My daughter is 5 and she likes the Skippy John Jones series. They are cute stories about a kitty who thinks he is a dog. Very funny! Of course anything about prices...
- I have 2 daughters 6 and 9. Our family favorites..... Duck on a Bike by David Shannon The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein The Dot by Peter H Reynolds Mous...
