Tips & Strategies: The First Years
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Dividing Household Chores
Asked by K.G. from Portland
on August 15, 2010
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How do people divide up chores between themselves and their spouse? (Our daughter is only 2, so picking up toys is about her only chore). Until very recently I have ...
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- One time my husband commented on why the house wasn't straightened up after I babysat 2 kids as well as having my own kids in the house all day and cooking, checking h...
- No matter what you do, women will ALWAYS be required to do more. Be happy he even helps at all and if you want him doing more, stroke his ego and tell him how great t...
- I think it depends on how much each is actually working... I work 2-5 days a week, on the days I don't work I don't mind doing just about everything... but on the days...
Cleaning Wipes for Breast/nipple and for Medela Pump Parts and Storage Bags
Asked by N.B. from New York
on September 30, 2008
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Hi,
I'm stocking up for breastfeeding supplies and wanted to know...
Do I have to use the cleansing pads specifically sold to clean your breast before breastfeeding ...
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- Just wanted to add a note about Lansinoh cream - try to only use it when you really need it e.g. when you first start breastfeeding & when your nipples are very dry. ...
- I breastfed my son for a year, nursing when I could and pumping and leaving bottles for my husband and caregivers when necessary. I really liked the medela storage bag...
- I used the Medela bags for the first few months, and then switched to the Lansinoh because they held more. Both were exactly the same, functionally. Technically, you...
Need Cleaning Product Suggestion
Asked by E.B. from Beaumont
on October 27, 2012
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We moved into a rental that has stains in the porcelain toilet and sinks. Looks like dirt but just won't come clean. Also, the tub has been refinished and it needs a...
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- Pumice stones are awesome. It's like a scrub brush for porcelain. It's perfect. We used these when I worked for a housekeeping company. I'm not sure what is on your to...
- My only suggestion is those Oxiclean products. Something gentle for the tub might come from Seventh Generation.
- For the toilet and sinks, you can't beat a pumice stone. They sell them at Home Depot and Lowe's for the purpose of cleaning toilets and sinks. After using every clean...
Older, Pregnant, Unmarried Woman Who May Not Want to Be with Baby's Dad-advice?
Asked by J.S. from Boston
on August 15, 2011
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Ok this is kind of long as I want to give you the whole story and it's on behalf of my sister. She's in her early 40s, gainfully employed and owns her own home. I put ...
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- IMHO, there's only one reason to get married, at any age and in any situation. And that is you are CRAZY about each other, completely in love and want to spend the res...
- Hmmmm...sure sounds like this man is responsibility reflective. :) I had my baby at 39 and it was a breeze. My BFF had hers at 41 and no problems. (We were both i...
- I think if she married/moved in with him she'd have two babies. I think she should cut her loses with this loser but accept child support.
Any Traditional Moms Out There?
Asked by M.B. from Washington DC
on June 19, 2011
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I'm talking about being a stay at home mom, ON PURPOSE, because you think you should be one... also, being a little more "strict", strong morals, don't let the phrase...
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- Why do you have to be a SAHM to be those things? We are strict, we have strong morals, I don't care what everyone else is doing, my kids have manners, they do chore...
- I am not sure how to take this question. The only things that I would say fit the description of traditional, in your post are that staying at home being what you "S...
- Yes, I'm a traditional mom. I stay at home and my husband works. In fact I've been referred to as the 1950s housewife. I cook, clean, sew, run errands, take care ...
Negative Thoughts About Husband, Just a Phase or Real Trouble?
Asked by K.D. from Denver
on October 7, 2008
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Ladies, I really enjoy reading the Mamasource posts - so much good information. I always smirk though, when I read the descriptions of how everyone is married to "the ...
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- I'd like to recommend the book "The Five Languages of Love" by Gary Chapman. Nobody likes their husbands every minute of everyday and some days are worse than others....
- This could be just a phase if you handle it right, but if not it will turn into real trouble that will destroy your marriage. Everyone has times they get frustrated o...
- I have read some of the responses and surprised that some are so harsh. It is obvious you are having a rough time and I would hope that we women could be understandin...
Am I Crazy? or Maybe Just Expecting Too Much?
Asked by K.F. from Syracuse
on January 7, 2011
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Ok first a little background information - my boyfriend and I have been together roughly 19 months and we have a 9 month old little boy. For those you doing the math, ...
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- Pressuring him into a marriage he's not ready for is asking for a divorce, so you end up in the same (well worse) situation than you're in now. If he's not ready to ge...
- I don't think anyone should assume a marriage will occur when an accidental pregnancy occurs in a short term relationship. Many couples who have been together for a y...
- The truth of the matter is, you don't want to marry someone who doesn't want to get married. Especially when they know you want to, and are attacking your reasons. T...
How Do Moms Do It?
Asked by A.S. from Norfolk
on October 16, 2009
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I'm wondering how moms do it?? I'm a SAHM of two, ages 2.5 years and 9 months. As like many in the area, my husband is in the military and gone frequently so I often...
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- A., I have a solution for your need for some "me" time! I am the owner of a babysitter placement business called BabysitEase. We interview, background and refer...
- I think it is pretty normal, what you are going through. I also have two young children and I take it for granted that I will have virtually no time for myself. The ...
- A., all I can say, is that you're speaking about what I've been wondering!! I have an almost 5-month old son who I love more than anything. I'm a SAHM mostly because...
Mom Having Triples Needs Advice
Asked by R.R. from San Francisco
on September 12, 2008
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I just found out that I am expecting triplets!!!! The thought of having four kids in diapers is a bit overwhelming although my family and I are thrilled. I need to ...
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- I have triplets, too! Congratulations :) :) :) Gemini Crickets Parents of Multiples Club in Silicon Valley is a wonderful organization www.geminicrickets.org If you...
- My friend had triplets in February. She says there is a great multiples website and had networked with a lot of other moms. If you would like you could email her an...
- Hi R., Congrats on the triplets!! I too have triplets (now 10 years old) and like you I already had 3 other children. When I found out I was having triplets my ot...
Curious About How Much I Should Give
Asked by L.P. from San Francisco
on July 28, 2009
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Hi, I've never been here before. I have question; I make quite more money than my husband. I do all the chores, cleaning and I pay for all most everything. i wake up ...
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- L., You are not a bad mom and it doesn't sound like you are a bad wife either. You are doing everything and should not feel guilty about watching TV on Sat. mornings a...
- L., you poor thing, you are an outstanding wife, and he is not worthy. Marriage is a team, and he is clearly not a team player. Just because you like to relax on wee...
- Hi, Sounds like you have three children - one very spoiled and perhaps jealous of your attention to the (actual) children. I would seriously consider marriage coun...
