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Going into Labor
Asked by S.L. from Providence
on October 4, 2006
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I am due on October 13th and last week at my doctor's appt. I was only a 1/2 cm dialated. The doctor said if I wanted he would induce me a week early but I have never ...
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- Just try to relax, which is easier said than done. I was induced with my first one because I was a week over due and I had her in 4hours with an epidural. My second I ...
- the epidural is a great thing for the pain if you have time to use it with my first by the time the drug doctor got to my room and gave the meds it was to late for the...
- wow i'm so excited to here that you soon, going to bring a beautiful human being in the world, to be honest with you the labor pain does hurt, contraction is not good ...
How Do You Keep Your Parents from Ruining Your Marriage/relationship?
Asked by S.2. from Flagstaff
on March 16, 2011
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I have a mother who's a worrywart, clinically depressed-bipolar, and in a relationship with a man I can't stand. A father who's addicted heavily to pot (but because it...
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- S., have a sit-down with your SO and tell him point blank that your dad has a tendency to do this. Tell him you cannot stand the idea of this thing that has happened ...
- A few suggestions that might help. Go to a few Alanon meetings WITH your BF. This should clear up falling prey to dad's "art of manipulation"! Also, let your BF kn...
- I agree with Steph C. You have to be honest with your SO and explain to him how to handle your father if something does come up. Everyone has "Crazy" relatives, yo...
Embarrassing Birth Question
Asked by D.M. from Washington DC
on April 8, 2010
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I am contemplating trying for a VBA2C when/if I get pregnant again and I have been doing alot of research and talking to my husband about what that would entail. He jo...
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- it all goes back the same as it was. after my first child I had a big tear... and a lot of stitches.. I will not lie.. those first 10 days I was in a lot of pain.....
- I have had 3 c-sections and nursed my babies all for a year. My already small breasts are even smaller and they sag and they have that deflated look with stretch mark...
- Okay so this may not make you feel better, but I want to be honest and for you to be aware of the issues. I've never had a cesarean so I can't speak to that aspect. ...
Pain Meds. for Labor- What Did You Like?
Asked by S.D. from Fort Collins
on January 9, 2009
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Hi Moms,
I would love a buncha information from you all on what everyone used to relieve the pain of labor (other then an epidural).
I am hoping to do a totally ...
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- It looks like you have a lot of responses!! Congrats, this is such an exciting time!! I don't have any experience with the TENS unit, but I can speak from my experienc...
- I have had four kids. All epidural free. But I did have (I don't know the name) but I was told it was like an extra strength dose of Ibuprofen. It just took the edg...
- Ahhh pain meds. The problem with planning for pain meds. is that you have no idea how intense the pain may or may not be. Me, I screamed when I felt my hip bones pus...
Would This Upset You?
Asked by C.V. from Los Angeles
on June 29, 2011
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I am 37 wks pregnant with my 1st child, and I have had a rocky pregnancy. FINALLY, everything is looking like it's under control, and the baby is gaining weight like ...
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- I sorta agree with GrandmaT, and at the same time completely understand why you are upset, but also wonder how you would deal with it if your OB was sick or busy with...
- Yes, I'd be upset that I was not informed. My OB also had a vacation planned near my delivery date. He tried to talk me into an induction to fit the delivery aroun...
- Yes, I'd be upset to have such short notice. I would try and talk to your doctor about it but I can absolutely understand switching immediately under the circumstance...
Having a Baby After 35?
Asked by J.H. from Billings
on February 2, 2008
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I have just recently turned 35. We have two kids, but recently have been considering a third. I am worried about being too old. I would love to hear from moms who had ...
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- I am a nurse and see healthy happy moms (35+) and babies all the time. I have heard it is a little harder on the body as you get older, but not enough to not have bab...
- I will be 40 in a month and had my first in jan of 04 and my second in november 04. every person is different with their physical fitness and pain threshhold etc. ev...
- Hi J.- I had my third child last year when I was 36. We too were nervous about having a baby after 35. I found it comforting that the doctor's took that into consid...
Asking His Mom If She Wants to Be a Grandma
Asked by A.C. from Stationed Overseas
on December 6, 2010
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I'm about 25 weeks pregnant and I have to admit, even if the circumstances between the father and I are very bad, deciding to keep my son in my life has been one of th...
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- If it were me I would want to know, but maybe I would talk to her first to see what she thinks of you. I would have the thought in the back of my mind that either she ...
- If *I* had a grandbaby coming *I* would want to know and to be a part of their lives. No idea as to whether or not it's a good idea.
- I would reach-out to her. She may not agree with the way her son is handling the situation, but is not likely comfortable seeking you out. While I completely underst...
Questions About Labor and Breastfeeding
Asked by B.V. from Kansas City
on February 26, 2008
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Hi Moms,
We are thinking about having another baby. Actually my first pregnancy and delivery because we adopted our only child who is now 2 1/2 when she was just del...
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- Hello, I can not tell you what to do but I can give you a little insite to my 3 deliveries. With my first child I had a nice little plan I wanted this and didn't wan...
- B., I had a baby 3 months ago and due to back surgery I had in 1999 I could not have an epidural. I was scared prior to delivery because I didn't know how bad the pa...
- As a mother of four, I am no expert, but do know a little on some of your questions. The episiotomy is a good thing to have. It is much harder for them to repair a t...
Twins...Help!
Asked by M.P. from San Diego
on January 29, 2008
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I just found out I am carrying twins. Neither my husband or myself have them in our family, so this is a huge shocker. If any one has any great advice for the pregnanc...
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- I know it can be shocking at first but it is definitely doable. I have a 2 year old son and 2 1/2 month old twin girls right now. It went from being easy to being hard...
- Look into hiring a postpartum doula. There are ones who specialize in multiples and can help you with juggling them, as well as breastfeeding them both if that is wha...
- I have twin girls (4 months old) and a three year old son. The hardest part is the three year old! We are very fortunate to have very good little girls. They are br...
Help! Dad Wants Custody of My 2YR Old
Asked by B.D. from Stockton
on April 18, 2008
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Hi everyone,
My son is 2years old. His father lives in Texas. We broke up after I had the baby. Things just didn't work out. He just recently married someone else. He...
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- I would advice that you think this through carefully before you say anything at the custody hearing. Do not come across as the righteous mom who cares for your child a...
- Check out the laws in both states and decide which one might be better. California if very very pro dad and pro this 50/50 thing - it doesn't matter that your son wil...
- We just came out of mediatioon for our 14yr old. The mediator will listen to whatever you want for your son. They will listen to both of you. The mediator is there ...
