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Laying off a Nanny
Asked by C.C. from Chicago
on February 23, 2010
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We have to lay off our nanny. We currently pay her a paid salary, regardless of if we need her or not or if she leaves early. We give her paid holidays and paid time...
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- Her oblagation is to her job if she was to take time off with out permission she would be FIRED! For not forfilling her oblagations. 2nd question Does she need to pai...
- Do you have a written contract? Do you take taxes out of her salary? If the answers are no and no, she doesn't have a leg to stand on. There is no way I would pay some...
- Hmmm. I think the vacation pay issue is a bit tricky and depends upon if any specifics were discussed and how vacation has been informally handled to his point. 1)...
RE: Bridal Shower
Asked by E.R. from Chicago
on October 1, 2008
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Hi Moms,
My girlfriend is getting married next week. We just found out it was a big surprise for all of us. I want to throw her a little bridal shower party here...
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- I am not trying to be rude or judgmental, but if I recall a lot of your posts are about how you are having a hard time making ends meet. Clearly your girlfriend shoul...
- When we have bridal showers at work, we pretty much get together and order a pizza or something, collect for a group gift and anyone that wants can buy a separate gift...
- with one week's notice... i would get the girls together, take her out to lunch (everybody but her splits the tab) and also go in on a gift for her - sounds like she w...
Need Advice on "Gifted" Child
Asked by B.D. from New York
on October 16, 2007
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My daughter has always been advanced for her age. She attended a "gifted" pre-school and is currently enrolled in public school for Kindergarten. The school she is i...
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- I would keep at this. Discuss with her teacher often. Ask to have her assessed by child study team or better yet, have her tested yourself. This can be expensive but ...
- Hi, I have a gifted girl too. She started kindergarten at four and is now in seventh grade. I understand your frustration and the only advice I can offer is what you d...
- B., I am a school psychologist in a Connecticut school district. I think that it is absolutely appropriate for you to speak with your daughter's teacher about your ...
Tremendous Guilt over Living in an Apartment Complex
Asked by D.F. from New York
on November 19, 2010
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I have an almost 2 yr old son and I live in an apartment complex with him. I am a stay home mom and everyday I feel a tremendous amount of guilt about not having a bac...
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- I sooooo completely agree with the other posters: you are giving your son a gift that can never compete with a backyard- time with you as a SAHM. Go easy on your...
- hugs, mommy - now take a deep breath and remind yourself that your son "deserves" a mom who loves him, and *you* fit the bill whether you have a backyard for him to pl...
- You know kids grow up in a variety of living conditions! Don't feel bad at all. I grew up with a yard that was an acre in size, and I always thought it would SO COOL t...
How to Overcome the Feeling of Being Taken Advantage Of
Asked by K.P. from Austin
on February 25, 2011
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Hi Mamas,
My husband's sister and her husband have been living with us for five months now. They are in the process of buying a house and it took longer than they ex...
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- Hopefully they are planning on compensating you at a later date. They will be moving soon, and since you didnt make a monetary obligation arrangement from the get go,...
- I agree that if it sounds like you're near the end, no need to get into it now. If for some reason they don't move out, however, then I would formulate a new plan. I...
- I think they are being incredibly inconsiderate. When we stayed at some friends' house for a week on vacation, we were not only buying groceries, but then gave them a...
Currently Livining in Bklyn,ny Need Legit Work at Home Job, W/ No Fees Involved
Asked by K.H. from New York
on May 23, 2008
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I am looking for a home job, but there are so many scams out there. So i'm trying to find out if anyone knows about any, i appreciate it alot.
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- I'm working at home with a wonderful group of individuals across the country with a group called Freedom United. It's fun marketing work and we have tons of support. ...
- Have you heard of Scentsy "the Authentic Wickless Candles"? It's a safe alternative than candles. Scentsy is a decorative warmer that use a 25 watt bulb to melt the wa...
- Hi K.! I live in the Bronx! Not too far from you. I know you asked about a work from home job, but would you rather have your own business? Economically speaki...
Working from Home
Asked by B.P. from Chicago
on August 19, 2009
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Hey there Moms!
I am a SAHM & have two sons, ages 10 and 7. They are both going to be in school all day this year. This is the first time that I will have no kiddos...
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- Hello B. P: You lucky girl!!! Now you have sometime for yourself. Why are you thinking to go out to work. The latest trend is to work from home. It saves you mone...
- Septran in Naperville was hiring bus monitors - the ad said 3 hours a day, but not sure how those hours would coincide with your kids getting to/from school.
- I have the perfect job for you. Work when you need, make as much money as you would like. Give me a call to discuss. ###-###-####. You will be very happy that you did.
Soon to Be Mom Expecting Twins Looking for Discounted Furniture or Clubs
Asked by C.F. from Dallas
on November 18, 2006
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I have heard about groups or clubs for expecting moms-to-be for twins for multiples. I am looking to find furniture and baby stuff at a discount, verses buying it all...
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- Congratulations on your exciting new life. The Plano Area Mothers of Multiples meets right in the Med City of Plano building. You can join for free until 3 months af...
- Hi C., Congratulations on your pregnancy! What an exciting time in your life! "Once Upon a Child" sells gently used children's items at discounted prices. The Pla...
- Hi C., I have a Peg Perego Tandum double stroller (one seat in the front and one in the back). It is navy blue and in good condition. Both seats recline and the...
Dental Insurance
Asked by M.L. from Los Angeles
on March 1, 2010
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Hi Moms,
I'm hoping you all can help. My 7 year old son needs a retainer for his lower teeth. We have Aetna Dental and the dentist office is charging us 1200 doll...
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- As much as you like your dentist, it sounds like you're getting the short end of the stick because of someone else's mistake. A price was set and agreed upon. It doe...
- Great advice from Liv, Christine & Keren. Follow ALL of their advice. Also, until you get this resolved cancel the autopayment and dispute the amount above $300. T...
- Call your states insurance commissioners office. They should have someone available to answer your questions.
How Much Do You Think You Should Get Paid?
Asked by J.E. from Erie
on August 9, 2012
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Ok..so, say you are babysitting a 3 year old kid. His single mom works part time. She drops him off between 1:00-1:30pm and he gets picked up usually around 5pm (somet...
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- I would be charging her $20 for the 4 hours you watch him...even if he's napping, you are still responsible for him... $40/day.
- It is completely dependent on where you live. I think the going rate for a 14 year old babysitter around here is $10/hr (regardless of if the child is asleep). But w...
- I'm pretty generous, and would be especially with a single mom. I'd charge $10 a day, and rationalize it to myself that a) I'm helping out someone that needs it, and ...
