Helping Family
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9 Year Old Stealing and Lying
Asked by S.!. from Boston
on July 24, 2012
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Lately, my 9 year old has been shocking me with his behavior. I dont know what to do. He has been caught in many lies during the school year...homework, friends etc. W...
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- I really don't have much advice for you. This just made me think of when my parents were saving all of their change and then they needed the $100 or so for groceries a...
- Of course I don't know the whole story but based on what you've shared here it sounds like you *may* be a bit controlling. I've never told my kids they couldn't eat a...
- You are likely going to get answers on both sides, too strict - not strict enough, on this question. Methods of discipline depend on each kid, and each parent's view. ...
Need Advice on Taking Care of Friends 2 Kids in My Home
Asked by M.R. from San Antonio
on December 1, 2010
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Hello Mama's!
I am currently babysitting for a friend of mine and I would like to know if what I'm charging her is too much or too little.
I am only doing 1 day a we...
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- You are being very generous to your friend. The children are young and need a lot of care at this age. She is blessed to have you. It sounds like the older two are ...
- Nope, not too much, sounds about right......we pay sitter $10 for 2 kids so for 4 it would be more......
- Wow. That is pretty pricey. Most sitters charge $100 a week, which would be $20 per day. Since the older kids can do a lot for themselves and can help you, you should ...
Breast Cancer
Asked by E.V. from Phoenix
on July 17, 2012
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My friend said that she is diagnosed with breast cancer.her cancer is not the big lump, but small scattered lumps. So she must wait for the surgeryw to know in which s...
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- Not sure exactly what you are asking here - stadium? Do you mean "stage"? Anyway, I work a lot with nutrition for cancer patients. Alkaline diet is one key - you ...
- If you live near a cancer treatment center go there and ask for the chemo and radiation diet book. These books suggest meals and what and how to eat to help with the ...
- My sister and sister in law both had breast cancer and both are alive, both had different kinds and were treated differently. There are sometimes choices in treatment...
My Mother Says She Does Not Want to Be Around My Husband Anymore.
Asked by M.D. from Indianapolis
on May 5, 2008
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I have been married to a wonderful man for 18 years. He is a tremendous provider and does not know a stranger when it comes to helping. He has been an extreme help t...
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- My gut reaction is to suggest talking to her. She needs to know how she makes others feel. Have your brothers discussed this with her in the past? If they have & sh...
- I don't think she realizes the effect she's having on the family. Try reflecting back the things she says and the effects it has on the family. She likely needs some c...
- Hi Marieanne, I am really curious to see some of the responses you'll get. I am of the belief that some people are just impossible. For instance, your mother so...
Problems with In-laws
Asked by C.A. from Chicago
on January 27, 2010
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I no longer get a long with my in-laws and need to advice. My mother-in-law and I used to get a long very well until I stopped helping her out financially. She would a...
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- Hi C., I am sorry you are going through this. It seems like your M-I-L needs some financial help, and you've been very generous to give it to her up until your own...
- My goodness! That's a terrible situation! A grandma that wants to be paid to see her grandchildren??? A sister-in-law and brother-in-law that excludes one of the ki...
- Hi C.. First, I feel your pain. I have been married for nearly 8 years and have had problems with my in-laws for a long time. I know what you mean about how it can ...
Need Advice on Helping My Mom Out-she's in Very Tight Spot :(
Asked by C.D. from Boca Raton
on April 2, 2011
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I really need help/advice please. Quick story...My mom moved in with us 2yrs ago due to her losing her home to foreclosure. It was devestating to her and hard on all o...
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- There is low income housing available to seniors. Contact Social Services and ask about Section 8 and HUD housing in your area. However be perpared the waiting list ...
- I think it would depend on the state...maybe start with the town or city hall and go from there. Does she have any retirment savings? Maybe she just cant afford to...
- Have you considered calculating the difference in her not taking early retirement and waiting until she's 65? Those extra 3 years might make a difference. My mom retir...
Am I Being a Horribly Insensitive, Selfish Jerk?
Asked by G.M. from San Francisco
on October 21, 2011
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Ok, ladies. This question has been bothering me to no end this week. I hope you all can give me some perspective.
It concerns one of my oldest friends. I have known ...
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- Not only is she not managing her money, she is horribly selfish!! Not you. How has she ever been a friend to you? Don't let her manipulate you.
- Sounds like she's sucking the life out of everyone around her. Ask yourself, what are you getting out of the relationship with her? Relationships are a 2-way street. D...
- Emotional support, yes; financial support, no. She's not in need, she needs to grow up and get more responsible.
Getting Out of a Lease
Asked by S.I. from Minneapolis
on December 3, 2006
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would anyone know how i can legally get out of an apartment lease? we have been married for 4yrs and have not made it to be a family. everything that we do doesnt in...
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- Talk to your landlord, let him/her know exactly what is going on. I am sure they would be able to help you. Being honest will do so much for you and they will be more ...
- Call the main office of your apartment complex, tell them your situation. They may let you out.
- Hi, I know what you are going through right now, I went through that same thing about 2 years ago. The only way I could get out of it is put him as the main person on ...
To Pay or Not to Pay???
Asked by B.F. from Toledo
on April 13, 2012
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When you ask one of your children’s friends to attend an outing with you, do you expect them to pay for themselves or just go ahead and pay for them?
My DD who i...
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- I wouldn't be offended at all. You asked and if you don't know her that well, you don't know all that goes on. Do they have multiple kids so would constantly be payi...
- If I invite I expect to pay for the child. However if my child is invited I always send money.
- it all depends on how the invite was approached....If its a straight hey we would like so and so to come said event we pay....but if its something like Hey there is an...
How Important Is a Will?
Asked by N.G. from Allentown
on June 7, 2010
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My question is 2 parts. My husband & I have an ongoing battle over getting a will. We have 2 children and own our own home. I feel we should have a will but he feels...
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- YES! Get a will! No one plans on having something happen. That's why there's accidents. First, you must find someone, even a friend, to take your children because ...
- A will is critical, even without the kids. It will be much harder for either one of you to deal with all the name change stuff, banks, etc. if one dies before the oth...
- Very important. If you don't appoint a guardian for your kids and something should happen to both you and hubby, the court will appoint someone if no one steps forwar...
