Girlfriends & Boyfriends: Adult Child
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Meeting the New Girlfriend?
Asked by J.C. from Atlanta
on February 20, 2009
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To give you a little background. My 2 month olds father and I were never in a stated relationship. We lived together until I was about 6 months pregnant. When I mentio...
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- I would want to meet everyone who is living in that home, because they will be around your child. Knowing the girlfriend is not about you or her or her relationship w...
- i have an ex husband with a girlfriend. i moved out december 12 and she was there in january. in my opinion i didn't want to meet the gf. its to weird. but i did want ...
- I'd want to meet her just to see how she reacts to your child. See how your child responds to her. Babies pick up on good and bad. You'd also be able to tell if she ge...
13 Year Old and Boyfriend??
Asked by M.M. from Dallas
on October 28, 2009
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Hello-
Would you let your 13 year old DD have a boyfriend? I remember liking boys and having boyfriends at that age. But it would be like two weeks and then break ...
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- Hello, No I would not let her have a boyfriend, she is too young she doesn't need a boyfriend. Now days kids do things because they are bored, so if they get bored t...
- i dont agree with most of the other mommas.........no way should a 13 yr old have a boyfriend or a girlfriend...why? they cant drive, they dont have money, & mostly t...
- To answer simply....nope. My husband and I have already discussed this with each other and are starting to discuss it with our 11 year old daughter....she will not be ...
18 Year Old Daughter Wants to Move in with Boyfriend
Asked by T.E. from Los Angeles
on September 30, 2008
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Help, my daughter who just turned 18, working and going to college wants to move in with her boyfriend. The boyfriend lives with mom at the grandparents house.
I tell...
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- Wow, that is a tough one. On one hand she is an adult and she can make her own decisions so if you try to stop her she may jsut resent you. On the other hand she is s...
- I know how you feel and my suggestion would be to love your daughter and allow her to learn the hard way. She is 18 and in the eyes of the law she is a young adult. I ...
- T., I lived with my college boyfriend and it was awful! We were a great couple before it, and had EVERYTHING going for us. Neither of us, had a lot of money and it ...
Son and Girlfriend Eating Me Out of House and Home
Asked by S.L. from Cincinnati
on April 12, 2008
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I need help! my son 22yrs.old and girlfriend 20yrs old eat dinner at my home 3 to 4 nights a week. My husband and I at first didn't mind too much but, now with the cos...
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- Hi S.! I feel your pain. My stepson, who is in his thirties, eats so much when he comes to visit that it really puts a strain on the groceries! He might stay for a ...
- Hi, S. -- When I was 21, I'd graduated from college and moved myself across the country by myself to start a new life. So, I have high expectations for young peopl...
- I would have the girlfriend in the kitchenhelping prepare dinner,if she may be your son's future wife she needs to learn to cook.Then have them both buy and prepare di...
13 Year Old Son Has a "Girlfriend"
Asked by M.M. from Kansas City
on October 8, 2007
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My 13 year old son has a girlfriend. He is the youngest of four and believe it or not we have not delt with this until now. My other boys are so into thier sports an...
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- M.: Going to a Christian school (or not) has nothing to do with having a boy/girl friend, it's the "times". Things have changed (and not necessarily in a good way)....
- Honestly, at this age, it is normal. I'm 25, and back when I was that age, everyone had a girlfriend or boyfriend. Of course there was nothing more to do then walk eac...
- Sorry to say, yes this is very normal. The intense feeling one gets at the beginning of a relationship can be overwhelming to a pubescent teen. So of course they would...
20 Yr Old Daughter Wants to Move in with Her Boyfriend and His Family
Asked by D.T. from Dallas
on January 11, 2012
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My daughter who is now 20 moved in with her father at 18 (senior in high school) basically because his house rules were much more relaxed then mine. She is now 20, ha...
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- If your daughter wants the continued benefits of living at home she needs to live at home. Personally, I wouldn't pay for the car or her schooling. My father would've ...
- My 18 y/o wants to marry her 19 y/o BF and transfer colleges to be closer to his duty station so I feel your pain but I have talked with her letting her know that I do...
- Yes, you are doing the right thing. Sit her down and and tell her that since she feels like she is old enough to be out on her own (ie moving in her with her boyfrie...
My 16 Year Old Daughter Wont Let Me Meet Her Boyfriend.
Asked by A.E. from Seattle
on June 8, 2010
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My 16 years old daughter will not let me or her daddy meet her 18 year old boyfriend. She let me talk to him over the phone shortly. I did some investigating and rea...
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- Oh, my! ok. not to scare you but when i was 16 i was making good grades, respectfull, active in school, and church AND already smoking pot, drinking and just around t...
- You are the parent. Bottom line - if you don't meet him - she doesn't see him.
- sounds to me like she thinks you are going to be really harsh and even embarass her on purpose. I know at that age I never let my parents meet my boyfriends. also you ...
18 Year Old Daughter
Asked by A.M. from Columbus
on August 29, 2010
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Hi,
My 18 year old daughter is sleeping overnight with a boyfriend. I have told her that this is not acceptable to me and that it is definetly not ladylike. She to...
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- First of all using terms like "tramp" is NOT appropriate for any mother to use. While your daughter's behavior at this age is not acceptable you need to realize at thi...
- Okay A., After reading the responses you got I have to say this.....especially to the Mom's that seem to think an 18 year old having sex is a major offense. How many ...
- The day that any of my kids, who are living under my roof, thinks its ok to stay the night at a boyfriends/girlfriends home will have their bags packed waiting for the...
Mother Seeking Advise on Daughter Insisting Boyfriend Go to College with Her
Asked by C.W. from Los Angeles
on May 30, 2008
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I have a daughter who turned 18 last March, who will be graduating from HIgh School in June with a 3.5 GPA. She is scheduled to report to ASU, Arizona State University...
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- She's an adult and making plans. You should follow through on what you have said and let her do it alone. The guy is obviously bad news, but she won't take that from y...
- Don't do anything. Let her go. This will be a hard lesson for her to learn, but she is young enough to get over this infatuation with this dead beadt boyfriend and m...
- All you can do at this point is allow her to try to do this on her own. Do not co sign for any finances if she insists on allowing him to tag along for a free ride whi...
HELP! 13 Yr Old Duaghter Too Serious About Her Boyfriend, and I Am SO Confused..
Asked by S.D. from Harrisburg
on October 12, 2010
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I let my daughter have a so called boyfriend, what could it hurt in this situation, he goes to another school, and they hardly ever see each other. They would write ea...
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- S., I STRONGLY recommend you get the wise little book How to Talk So Kids Will Listen, and Listen So Kids Will Talk. The authors have years of experience teaching ...
- I'm not sure what is shocking you. Is it that teenage boys get erections? They always have, they always will, and many are not terribly in control of them for awhi...
- Okay, I have not read all of the other posts but my first thought it to take a breath. She's 13, he's 13 and hormones are raging. I think you are being a little too ov...
