Getting Ready: Adult Child
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Waking up in the Morning for School
Asked by R.W. from Pittsburgh
on October 19, 2009
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I have 4 kids, boy(8.), girl (6.5), boy (3.5) and boy (2), My eldest son stays up the longest 9p.m. my second oldest and my daughter BOTH go to bed at 7:30/7:45 p.m. t...
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- Have you tried the "pre-waking" technique show on Supernanny? My son is 6 and it was a real struggle to get him UP this year when he started first grade. What I do i...
- Some of my daughters are the same way. There is not much i do but reminders every few minutes to get out of bed. I know that is not much help. What i really wanted ...
- I agree with the possibility of too much sleep... but my youngest ALWAYS hated getting up and still does at 22! Or is she really going to sleep at 7:30 and laying awak...
Getting Ready for Middle School
Asked by M.S. from Raleigh
on November 12, 2009
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My 10 year old is finishing 5th grade and will be going to middle school next school year. Since I've already done this once with my oldest, you might expect me to be ...
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- What an exciting time in his life!!! Moving to the next level of life and maturity and responsibility. He will be moving with forever friends he has made thru the ye...
- I felt this way when my now 18 year old son went into high school. I was remembering all my stress when I went to school. Don't let him feel that if this is somethin...
- I encouraged the kids to join in the activities the school offers. My son joined the band and my daugter the academic teams and orchestra. THat way they have an inst...
18 Year Old High School Senior - Keeping Them Motivated to Graduate!
Asked by T.T. from Portland
on January 30, 2009
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I have five stepchildren ages 12 to almost 18 and one daughter of my own, age 17. The oldest are twin boys who will be 18 on the 10th of February. They live with my hu...
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- Hello, Well I have not gotten to that point with my children yet but I can tell you how my mother handled me when I was that age and opting to drop out of school and t...
- T., I do not envy your position. My sister's oldest were thinking they were able to handle the same issues...they wouldn't get up, take care of themselves, or get w...
- Do your step-sons have part-time jobs? Usually, the jobs kids can get while still in high school are not "fun" jobs. Fast food places, grocery stores, gas stations and...
15 Yr. Old Son Wants to Quit School.
Asked by M.R. from Las Vegas
on June 18, 2008
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15 year old son wants to quit school. I've tried talking to him and all he says is that he doesn't like school. Help! Any suggestions or advice welcomed...
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- My son wasn't doing well in high school due to a lot of medical absences, so we decided to try a nontraditional approach, and pulled him out in 9th grade. He's been i...
- Hi I would also recommend a non traditional approach. Not every child fits the mold in a traditional school system and I'm sure he's tired and wants to move on. You...
- Hello, It could be that your son has so many things he doesn't understand that he's given up because he may think he can't learn. IF this is the case, then I could...
How Can I Get My 14 Year Old to Enjoy School?
Asked by S.B. from San Francisco
on February 13, 2008
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I have a 14 year old son who has dislike school since second grade. It has been a constant struggle to get him up in the morning and to motivate him to take pride in h...
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- Hi S., I am also on the tail end of my masters in psychology as an MFT, and a former educator. Authors Ryan & Deci (2001) wrote a wonderful article about somet...
- For his dad to take an interest would make a difference.
- Hi there! Maybe trying to get him interested in something like sports or some sort of club might be good for him. Is he good at music or doing something with his hand...
Do You Let Your Teenager Stay up Later During the Summer School Break?
Asked by K.D. from Raleigh
on June 13, 2008
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For those of you who have high school age teenagers and are on the traditional school year, do you let your child stay up later during the summer break?
If you do, ...
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- I have a 17 year old son, and an 11 year old, who practically thinks he is a teenager. I do let them stay up and I let them sleep in, but I do limit it. You can lo...
- YES.... an occassionally I will make an exception for the curfew depending on what is going on and who he is with. But as far as staying up late and in the house, duri...
- Yes I have let me teens stay up later during weekends and holidays.When it comes to summer they have no set bedtime.I do tell them no later then midnite at the latest ...
Should I Change My Son's School?
Asked by L.D. from Joplin
on March 4, 2010
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I have a highly intelligent 12 year old boy who consistently grades above grade level in all areas, yet can't seem to barely pass an actual class. I've beat my head a...
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- I'm going to chime in and give an entirely different response... By changing schools, what message are you sending to your son? That when life gets tough, and you...
- He sounds like he is not being challenged. Changing his school may or may not help though. Have you thought of homeschooling him with online classes? If you are...
- I think that it would be in your son's best interest to change schools. Does he say "why" he hates school? Gosh, it's tough being a mom! But I can tell from your q...
High School Graduation
Asked by D.G. from Dallas
on April 12, 2008
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My daughter is graduating in May! She will be going to college about an hour away. Not bad I know, but I am still very anxious. Some days I am ready for it but for the...
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- She will be fine. All the things that you have taught her, she will remember. You are still her mom so she will still you need you to "parent" her:) Just keep praying.
- Don't worry give it to God. When my daughter went away to college she realized quickly what all had been taken for granted about her upbringing when she saw how differ...
- Although my freshman year of college is a good 8 years behind me, it doesn't feel like that long ago! But I was also a very good kid, and I went to college 45 mins awa...
Seeking Advice on 18 Year Old Going Away
Asked by R.A. from Dallas
on August 18, 2007
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I have an 18 year old son who is about to leave for a ministry internship. He needs to raise money for the 10 month program, much the same way that someone would have...
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- Maybe you should remove the TV from the house for awhile.
- Dear R., It sounds as if he really doesn't want to go. Sometimes when kids have something heavy weighing on them, they only tell you once. And, then they clam up,...
- I would try to sit down and have a real heart to heart with him. Although I do think that some kids are ready to leave home at 18, I honestly think that others may ne...
I Need Some Encouragement on How to Handle My Adult Child......
Asked by L.W. from Dallas
on August 10, 2011
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I am very fortunate to have a beautiful hard working and responsible 20 year old daughter who I am very proud of. However, as with every parent there are a few things...
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- It sounds like you have a pretty clear-eyed understanding of your emotional position. That's good. You recognize that other responses might make your own and your daug...
- First let me say, I am so sorry about your daughters miscarriage. I completely understand what you are saying about them getting married. You have good reason to b...
- Really great advice so far. I would only add that they do not have any definitive plans! You may be panicked over nothing. You stated your concerns & it seems as th...
