G.H.
Dear J. C,
Word of advice for you. Make sure you get everything you want for your kids written in the divorce papers. Because once the divorce is final and you don't have the full details such as increase of child support every few years, education,pre-school example College paid for by EX, even private school, if he can afford it. You will regret it later on. Make sure you have in the papers summer camp expenses, tutors, therapy bills, Braces, Communion, Wedding, Dormatory, medical expenses. Try and get him to pay most of the bills or at least half.......
PLEASE make sure everything is in the Final decree of your divorce. Alimony too. Mortgage payments, bills paid for etc........
Otherwise, you don't want to have to get your EX's wages garnished by the State. That means going back to court to get that done. Make sure that you don't leave anything out. Another thing, make sure you can move out of state without his permission, otherwise , if you ever decide to move away, you will need his approval for which he could hold you back from leaving with the kids. Also make sure you do not need his permission to travel out of state with your kids. He could hold you back too.
If he is not stable job wise, and is constantly moving, make sure he notifys the Court,state and you of new jobs, residences and phone phones.
I hope this helps. If you need more advise ......Please let me know.
Best of Luck,
G. H