D.W. asks from Boise, ID on December 15, 2008
Wood Staining During Early Pregnancy
Please help. I've just found out that I'm pregnant for the first time after 9 months of TTC. Unfortunately before I took a test I stained a dollhouse I was building. It was inside but in a large room and not well ventilated. I was only staining for about 10 minutes before I got a headache and quit. I took a pregnancy test the next day and it was positive so now I'm freaking out that I've damaged my baby. I'm terrified and feeling completely stupid for not thinking. I've heard damage is usually only for long term exposure but I've also heard that any exposure leaves you at risk for birth defects. Does anyone have any advice? I'm going to see my doctor in a couple days but I can't focus on anything else at the moment.
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B.D. answers from Boise on December 16, 2008
I think you are overreacting. I painted and stained with almost all of my kids before they decided that you probably shouldn't do that. I even got kicked by a horse when first pregnant. Right in the ovaries.
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J.A. answers from Denver on December 16, 2008
I was 8 weeks pregnant and stained a deck. I didn't know I was pg. He is 6 now and he is as normal as can be. I wouldn't stress over it. Congrats on the new baby!
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K.K. answers from Denver on December 15, 2008
I sprayed the concrete in the garage with brown spray paint. Like you I got a head ache and had to quit. I worried about the baby for the next few months and was so angry for not thinking about it. She was fine. But that does not keep me from teasing her now! haha K. K.
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A.W. answers from Pocatello on December 16, 2008
Calm down...you are perfectly fine!! It doesn't sound like you were inhaling the fumes from the can and you weren't in the room very long!! Your little one will be fine. It is amazing how resilient little babies are, and our bodies are amazing filters....there are environmental hazards in the normal air we breathe outside! I went through a stage with my last pregnancy where I was painting my room, the kids room....I just made sure the room was ventilated and taking breaks of fresh air, fans going, etc....
Just be happy & enjoy your pregnancy!!
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A.J. answers from Salt Lake City on December 16, 2008
Congrats and welcome the the world of worrying about EVERYTHING. I am sure things will be fine. Before I found out i was pregnant I had X-rays done at the dentist office. I was freaked out to but my DD is perfect.
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B.D. answers from Boise on December 16, 2008
I think you are overreacting. I painted and stained with almost all of my kids before they decided that you probably shouldn't do that. I even got kicked by a horse when first pregnant. Right in the ovaries.
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S.R. answers from Salt Lake City on December 16, 2008
You and the baby are fine.
Stress on yourself is more harmful than 10 minutes of staining, or a week of staining for that matter. Enjoy this time and focus on the joy of this sweet baby you have been blessed with.....
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A.O. answers from Denver on December 16, 2008
D.,
Congratulations on your pregnancy! The human body has its ways of letting you know when to be alert. Please don't get so nervous. A lot of us did things we shouldn't have before we found out we were pregnant. I, for example, ate swordfish and drank Margaritas. I also had to leave the office one or two days since Management decided to remodel and decided to paint all the walls!!! I told my doctor and his answer was since the baby was in early stages, there was nothing to worry about. Talk to your doctor about it anyway, so that he/she is aware and don't worry too much. Just take care of yourself from now on and enjoy your pregnancy.
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S.D. answers from Fort Collins on December 16, 2008
D.,
DON'T WORRY- it's going to be fine!
Obviously you want to avoid environmental toxins while your pregnant, but the medical theory on "bad stuff" is to be aware of it once you know you're pregnant- I went camping for fourth of July and found out the next Fri I was preg (ahhh) well I couldn't undrink those beers. Your body and your baby's body are very good at handling things.
The reality is that if any irreparable harm is done the fetus may be aborted and if not then it will be fine- stressing yourself out will not help anything.
Good luck and remember that your body knows exactly how to handle the situation so don't think about all the things that could happen; it will drive you CRAZY- like I was my whole first trimester until I quit reading a bajillion books a week and freaking myself out!
Pregnancy is one thing that just happens all on its own and you don't have to do anything except listen to what your body likes and doesn't like - when you left the room after you got a headache you did the right thing and I think you will be a great mom:)
A couple things that have helped me are to read books about health and not pregnancy- my friend got me What to Expect and I followed the first three months then I just put that book away! If I get a weird thing I will reference it (pregnancy causes dry burning eyes?!?) but I no longer read it. Its cheesy but I am reading How to Stop Worrying and Start Living and that has helped me get grip on everything that I have been worring about, when you let go of the worst case you can make room for a more positive and empowering experience.
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M.W. answers from Colorado Springs on December 16, 2008
Take a deep breath... It'll be okay.
I did the same thing when I was pregnant with my daughter. I found this fabulous old cradle and wanted to re-finish it for her... so I did without ever thinking that it might not be the best idea to do while pregnant.
All I was thinking was that I wanted it ready when she was born and my husband was over-seas so that ment if it was going to get done I was going to have to do it.
Once the thought finally occured to me I freaked out... but my midwife told me that the odds of damage being done from staining one little cradle, outside in a well ventilated area was really low. She also said that during the 1st trimester the babies are so well protected that there really wasn't much to worry about.
My daughter was born perfectly healthy and she's a sassy little 5 year old now.
You're baby will be fine. Make sure you mention it to your doctor but don't go borrowing trouble... stressing yourself out to much will probably cause more problems then staining the dollhouse.
Good Luck!
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T.T. answers from Denver on December 16, 2008
Ok first of all, take a deep breath. A little bit of staining is probably not going to hurt the baby at all. Before I knew I was pregnant with my son I drank quite a bit on two separate occasions. I was so worried that I had damaged him. But he turned out just fine. I am sure you will have a healthy baby and the small amount of exposure is not going to cause any harm. Think of our parents and grandparents, before they know about all the things that could harm unborn babies, and most babies came out just fine! My mother in law smoked thru all her pregnancies and drank beer to increase her milk production! Haha. So calm down, take care of yourself as best you can, and try not to let the little things stress you out. :)
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