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Wipe Your Own Butt!

Hi moms. Im looking for the best way to teach my 4 year old how to wipe his own butt? I know the wet wipes help. I think its easier to do it while sitting on the toliet...my husband says NO stand up...NOW my son REFUSES to try it my way (sitting on the toliet) becuse my husband says that how girls do it. He starts school today and I don't think the teachers wipe butts so im trying to teach him fast. Any ideas??


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OMG! I just have to say I am cracking up at you all!!!!! I was SHOCKED when my husband said he wipes standing I was like WHAT?? THEN his mom was here and said she ALSO stands when she wipes?? WHAT?? I sit and just lean to the left wipe and drop it so easy! HAHA! Thanks everyone for th advice and the laugh. I think im going to have my husband teach him!! lol.

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What?? Your husband poops standing up? Or he poops sitting down but for some strange reason stands up to wipe?? I didn't realize there are "girl ways" and "boy ways" to wipe one's butt. That's the craziest thing I've ever heard.

You are right about the teachers not wiping butts, and you are right that he needs to learn to do this well, so that poop doesn't get all over everything. So, if your husband doesn't want him to wipe while he's sitting down, tell your husband to teach him fast! And teach him to do it well. If your husband doesn't want to teach him, then tell him to get on board with you and tell your son that he made a big mistake, and boys should wipe while seated, also.

I'm sorry to offend you, but your husband is acting like a butt.

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My son sometimes stands up to wipe.
Your son can stand up to wipe at school if that's "what he does", right? I mean it's not like there are butt wiping police in the stalls! LOL
The important thing is that he wipes well and feels comfortable.

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We've had the same discussion in our house. : ) I figure as long as he's doing it himself and he's getting clean - let him do it the way he wants.

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it sounds mean but i eventually didnt let my son leave the bathroom until he wiped his butt....he was 4 and a half and i was so done with it because he was about to start kindergarten

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We're backwards over here - I wipe standing and my husband wipes sitting. I always thought he was weird, but apparently I'm in the minority. I'm having the same issue with my 4 year old - maybe I'll be more successful if I encourage him to sit while wiping.

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Not sure what your husband was thinking. I may be wrong, but I have to believe MOST people wipe their butt sitting down, not just girls.

But since he is doing it that way now, I'd just let him do the best he can. I wouldn't fret over it.

So many people make an issue of this when to me in time they will get it. I might be in the minority, but I've never wiped my children's butts. I taught them and that was it. I'm sure they don't do great every time on their own. But that's why they bathe at night.

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Most preschool teachers will assist a child in the bathroom. If it was kindergarten I'd say it would be a concern but preschool no just make sure he has pants he can undo by himself.

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LOL!! How do you wipe your butt standing up??? That is so weird! He needs to sit down and do it. Tell him Daddy is confused!

I also think its hilarious that most of you know how your husband wipes his butt. Ill have to ask mine what he prefers! LOL! Because in 12 years its never came up.

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