Why Keep It? Good vs Bad

Updated on June 28, 2011
D.D. asks from Goodyear, AZ
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I have heard over and over you should keep your female organs until you go through the change. My family has horrible issue's with our female organs. I have been a canidate for a hystro before but wanted more children. Now I am finished having my babies, and so ready for my pain, and heavy bleeding to be over. Same doctor said she don't think its a good idea for surgery, and wants me on hormones to help with everything. I don't like the way they make me feel... the hormones. Can I get some other momma's thoughts on keeping my parts VS not. What is good about keeping them being in pain, and mixed up cycles that intrupt my life VS what is bad about having the surgery?

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A.H.

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My mom had a hysterectomy when she was in her forties because of heavy bleeding and being anemic. She did not have a total hysterectomy. The doctor just removed the uterus. She did not have any major complications nor a problem with hormones since the ovaries were left intact. She would do it again in a heartbeat. She is now in her mid sixties and is loving life! Talk to your doctor about all of your options and even seek a second opinion. I don't think hysterectomies are that uncommon especially if you have a history of having problems with irregular cycles/heavy bleeding. Good luck!
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J.L.

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Keep 'em they are there for a reason unless you having major complications!! Your organs help regulate your hormones and work with the thyroid, adrenal gland and a certain part of the brain I draw a blank on.....You age faster, can gain more weight easily not to mention bladder suspension surgery that is part of it. You don't want to have your bladder fall through your vagina. This happened to a former boss. Also, hormone replacement has been linked into increased cancer risks...If you don't take hormone replacement at all and have missing parts...let's just say you have the potential for your body to change a bit...change in voice...more body hair.....ugh.

Certain increased risks of cancer etc...Dont' do it unless you must. Please google side effects.

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

I had a TOTAL hysterectomy in Feb 2011 - I have NOT had ANY replacement hormones or problems...

if you are done with them and you are in pain - then get rid of them!!!

I do NOT regret having my surgery...none at all..I was in the hospital for 24 hours (had it on a Monday out on Tuesday)...shopping for a new stove on Thursday...my sister was a WONDERFUL gift and took wonderful care of me and my family!!

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T.F.

answers from Dallas on

Well blah blah blah..... I heard all that stuff too.. HOWEVER..... I had a completel hysterectomy and i wanted it ALL out. I am on the HRT patch.

It was the best thing I ever did.. I've never felt or looked better in my life. No more worries of pregnancy, sex drive skyrocketed, and I am loving my life.

No weight gain, no negative side effects, no bladder issues, 100% positive experience for me. Take it all out....

Your recovery depends a lot on your attitude and your determination. I am not one for laying around to have someone wait on me. I am active. I was back to exercise within reason. I was slow to move around the week of surgery and after that it was smooth sailing.

EDIT: LOL... surgery was done appx 10 yrs ago. No prolapse, no syndromes, no negative effects. Of course the best thing is to talk to your Dr. and get as much info as you can.....but for me.... the surgery is the best thing I have ever done... long thought out process NOT INSTANT GRATIFICATION and saved my life.

I can't believe some of the posts I read on this topic. I bet some of these natural mommas would get the surgery if they had symptoms, issues and suffered like those of us do and then choose to change our life for the better with surgery. GEES

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A.C.

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I am not sure which issue you are having. Is it endometriosis? I have heard a lot recently about how hysterectomy affects more than just child bearing. Namely hormone regulation. DR. OZ talks a lot on his show about alternatives to hysterectomy. I have seen at least 3 shows where he touches on this issue. I'm not saying you shouldn't have it done just get all the information so that you are sure you are making the best decision in your situation. I would definitely get 2-3 opinions from different doctors. At least one from a doctor that offers an alternative to hysterectomy. Remember that doctors get paid based on how many surgeries they do so information from them might be biased.

My mother had a hysterectomy in her 50's due to endometriosis. I don't think she regrets it and hasn't had any problems but she does have to take hormones. I hope this helps you.

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P.M.

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There is a syndrome many women get if they have an early hysterectomy... and I'm so tired, sorry I don't want to research it. Some women get very ill due to hormonal cycles being our of whack, having too much of one and not enough of the other...

Definitely do a lot of research and get 2-3 opinions before doing anything.

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D.W.

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why nor have a partial hystorectomy? You can keep the ovaries but you will no longer have a period where I am sure that is the issue. I know that the menstral cycle causes a host of issues. You are definantly entitled to a second opinion from another doctor. Stay on top of your checkups and annual papsmears.

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