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When to Switch to a "Big Girl" Bed?

Ok, so reading another mom's question about a two year old prompted this question. My daughter is going to be two May 27, she was walking at 10 months, talking (some) at 9 and has seemed to do everything early, we even started potty training a couple of months ago then she completely lost interest so I didn't push it. I've seen a couple of comments about "why isn't your 2 year old in a big girl bed?" from other posts and I'm thinking I CAN'T be the only one with a two year old in a crib. She doesn't try to climb out and she huddles up against her bumper at night (like I do our wall) and sleeps all night like that. I'm assuming it makes her feel safe (as it does me). I'm worried about when to switch and why. She loves her crib and I don't want to throw off her amazing sleep because it's "just time to change" I have a couple of acquaintances and one switched over well before age 2, is this normal? I can't seem to get comfy with the fact that she knows how to open and unlock the front door.. she's even LOCKED me out taking out the trash! How have you handled this and when did you make the switch? Maybe I'm over worrying, she has a convertible crib so for all intents and purposes the only difference will be that she can get out on her own...

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Thanks for all the support, it's pretty much in-line with what I was thinking! I keep the bumpers in there because she likes to cuddle against them, she stands on them when she wakes up but they just collapse completely and she only stands on them because they are in the way so we'll be keeping the bumpers for now :) thanks moms!

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If it's not broke don't fix it :) !!
I kept my daughter in a crib until she was 2 1/2yrs old. She never tried to climb out and slept well. I think this is the one thing too many parents try to rush. I really see no advantage in a big girl bed that early unless they are trying to climb out of the crib, then it is a safety issue.

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its not an age thing its a height thing. my son is 21 mnths and still in his crib because he is only 30inches high so there is no need to put him in a bed. if your daughter is sleeping well and isnt very tall why rock the boat and change her sleeping enviorment. I would recomend you take the bumpers off though, they can be used as a lift to climb out. just because she hasnt tried yet doesnt mean she won't.

My son was over 2 when we moved him out and the only reason we did was that I was pregnant and we needed to get the crib ready for the new baby. Otherwise, I would have left him in the crib as long as he was comfortable and not trying to climb out. When we moved our son out of crib we put a baby gate across his door at night so he didn't have unsupervised free run of the house.

My daughter will be 2 on May 19 and still in the crib and will stay as long as possible. However, I am pregnant, due in November, so we will have to make the transition sooner than I might otherwise.

As far as I know there is no magic age where the kids should move out of the crib. Some need to move out earlier because of climbing out or another issue. Others stay much longer. I feel like my kids are safer in the crib so I keep them there.

We kept our son in until he was 3.5 ish. Kept the bar lowered in the day (so he could climb in and out, raised it at night. He was more than capable of climbing over, it just let him know he wasn't allowed to.

SO many mums have a 2nd baby at age 2 (of their older child) and need the crib... we didn't have a 2nd one coming, and kiddo *loved* his crib. It was his safe place, his timeout place. There was no reason to switch until he outgrew it.

Added benefit: By not switching until he was older (and just taking off one wall in order to ease into the transition) it was NO problem having him stay in bed at night. We had 2 or 3 nights where he got up out of bed. Since he was older it was pretty easy to explain to him that he needed to stay in.

It's practical to move an older child with an infant coming. But that doesn't mean it's necessary or "time" for a family that doesn't have a baby needing the crib.

Keep her in the crib as long as you can!!! Don't worry about what other moms are doing. Once she's out of the crib she is free in her room. My twins both decided at 22 months they were done with the cribs. They started climbing out repeatedly and wouldn't stay in there. Bedtime and nap time were so much easier when they were contained in their cribs. As long as she's happy and you're happy, keep her in there. Once she no longer stays in, then it's time to change.

Mine is still in a crib. She won't be two until July so she is a little younger.
And honestly until it is an absolute safety issue like she jumped out for the third time, she is staying in it

If it's not broke don't fix it :) !!
I kept my daughter in a crib until she was 2 1/2yrs old. She never tried to climb out and slept well. I think this is the one thing too many parents try to rush. I really see no advantage in a big girl bed that early unless they are trying to climb out of the crib, then it is a safety issue.

My boys were in a crib for a very long time, my oldest was over 3 and we moved him because his baby brother was coming, and we moved to a new house and he did just fine with the new house, new room, new bed. Our youngest son moved to a twin at 2.5, when we felt he was ready. Our daughter was in a crib in Ukraine (she's adopted from an orphanage) and she came home at 3.5. We put her in a twin at home, we didn't want to simulate the orphanage at all, and she's been just fine in a the twin with rails.

If she's happy, let her be! She's obviously happy and sleeping well there, don't mess with it unti lshe's ready. Too many people make the move at a year or 18mos or even 2 and most kids just aren't ready and then they have problems with wandering babies at bedtime. Or 5am. LOL.

This is my thinking on all of this. My daughter just switched to a toddler bed maybe two weeks ago. She is two and a half. The ONLY reason why we switched her was because she is so flippin tall and she was out growing her crib. I think that we worry too much about what other people think and say when it comes to our kids about this stuff. "Oh she's two? Is she blah blah blah?, well she should be." It really gets on my nerves, I heard a lot of people say the same things to me. My daughter LOVED her crib. She never tried to climb out, went to sleep like a champ and never threw fits. So why change that? Just because, some people think that because she "reaches the age she should be..." Bah, I say do what you are doing, don't worry about "age guidelines" and switch her when you think SHE is ready.

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