M.J. asks from Garden Valley, CA on April 03, 2009
When to Move from the High Chair to the Table
My son is 22 months old. He eats really well using a utensils and plates. He is even uses a regular cup and not a sippy cup. I was just wondering when I should move him from the high chair to the table. He loves to sit at the table in the regular chairs but I just don't know if he is ready. He can get distracted easy and the high chair is nice because he is contained. Just curious on when other mothers moved their child from the high chair.
So What Happened?™
Thank you everyone for all of your advice. I purchased a booster seat and set it up at the table. The first night was a little tough because he didn't quite understand why he wasn't in his high chair. But once he got his food and started eating he loved it. Now he is a pro. He loves it because now he can sit next to mommy at the dinner table. He can get distracted and try to get down before he is ready but I just redirect him back to his food and he keeps eating. Great advice everyone.
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G.L. answers from Fresno on April 04, 2009
i used a portable high chair that was inflatable on the bottom. i felt safe using this b/c it strapped to the chair AND it had a belt to keep my son in place. i think the brand was First Years.
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F.S. answers from San Francisco on April 04, 2009
In my child care, they can be from 18 months to 2 years usually depending on the child's ability to focus on eating and not wanting to get up and run around. We have two tables with four chairs each. I have had a few children that were in high chairs unto they were older because they would not leave the other chldren alone (later were found to be special needs). For my own kids I used booster chairs so that they could sit at the big table with us during meals and that worked well. It was wonderful family time. But for the children in our child care it is safer to have the small tables and little chairs where their feet can reach the floor. I bought them at Lakeshore.
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E.M. answers from San Francisco on April 04, 2009
My son is 22 months and sits in a booster with straps at the adult table. I got the booster at Target for 15 or 20 dollars, and it's nice because he is sitting at the table but he's still strapped in. He is pretty well-behaved and loves joining us at the table. I will admit it is messier (food that missed the bib lands on his pants) but I think it's worth it. It sounds to me like your son is ready. Happy dining!
L.S. answers from San Francisco on April 03, 2009
We switched our daughter to the table around 18 months, but had a booster type chiar that strapped to the regular kitchen chairs and had a removable tray. If she got too distracted, we pulled her back and put her tray on. She also loved to sit in it during Dora with her snack, so we could pull the chair into the family room and she could sit and watch her show and I dodnt have to worry about finding dry cereal all over the house!
E.V. answers from San Francisco on April 03, 2009
I got my son a small wooden table and chairs set when he was around 12 months old that he eats his meals and snacks at..i often join him there...or he sits in a booster seat at the dining table with us. I think your son is definetly ready to be out of the highchair. good luck!
T.B. answers from Sacramento on April 04, 2009
We switched both of my kids to a booster at the table at 12 months. Our kitchen is small and we didn't have room for the high chair. They both loved being at the table and actually ate very well with us. It helped that they always ate what we ate for dinner. We started with a booster that we could strap them into (more for safety than anything else), but by about 18 months, they both didn't even need to be strapped in anymore. I think it is better to have them at the table and feel included in the family then separate in a highchair. It worked well for us, but I am sure each child is different. You can always try it but keep the highchair in case it doesn't work out.
M.E. answers from San Francisco on April 04, 2009
You may want to try a 'Me too' seat that clamps right on to the table - that way he's right there w/you, but safely strapped in his seat. We've been using one since 11 months or so for our 14 mo. old and it's worked well. We too use it as a space-saver for a small kitchen table, but have ended up really liking the feeling of everybody eating together. The only negative is that quite a lot of food fall through the gap between the table and seat when our messy little guy eats.
A.C. answers from San Francisco on April 04, 2009
My son is 22mon old and has been sitting at the table for about 6mon now. We have this great plastic booster seat that straps to a dinner chair. It has a tray, but we detached it and push him right up to the table. Its great. I am sure your son is ready to switch, as long as he has something to sit on that raises him up a bit.
H.J. answers from San Francisco on April 04, 2009
Why move him all at once? Maybe start with snacks (least likely to be messy) at the table, and go from there, keeping him in the high chair for the messiest meals. It sounds like he's ready. My 22-month-old manages plate, cup, and bowl all right, but isn't so great with the utensils yet (but we haven't emphasized it much, either)--and she's going to have to start eating at the table in a couple or three months, because her baby brother's almost ready for the high chair!
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