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When Give up the Car Seat

My son is 4.5 yrs. old and I still have him ride in his car seat. He sits in the seat but it's fastened w/ a seat belt not the harness of the car seat. The car seat says it goes up to 100 lbs. but I don't know if I need to keep him in it that long. So my question to all you mom's out there is: what is the right age or weight to give up the car seat? Thanks

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Keep him in the car seat as long as you can. It's the safest place for him.

Info from American Association of Pediatrics:

http://www.aap.org/family/Carseatguide.htm

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The recommendation is 8yrs and 80 pounds. My 8 year old is still in a booster. But safety is very important to me to I push it as long as I can.

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The ads say when your child is four foot nine inches, then you can give up the booster seats. I understand what a pill it is but as I tell my son (6 yrs old and 62 lbs.) ..."Saftey first!!!!"

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There is great information on some of the other posts, regarding the legal requirements. As for me and my family, even if they fit the legal age/height/weight requirements to be without.. I let my eyes be the final judge. If the seatbelt strap does not go over their shoulder like it should (instead of across the edge of their neck!) then they MUST use a booster of some sort.
At 4.5 years, I would put him in a comfy booster. He'll still have easy access to a cup holder that way, plus arm rests. If he does much sleeping in the car, I would opt for one with a back (they are usually removable, but check before you buy). That way he has a little neck support when his head will tilt when he's dozing. Otherwise, the little backless boosters are only about $15 and should do the trick.
Some cars my daughter was required (by me) to use a booster, not in others. Some LOCATIONS in the car the seatbelt would fit differently too. Check where the seatbelt crosses him at the shoulder to be your final gauge.
He's growing up mom!
:)

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Keep him in the car seat as long as you can. It's the safest place for him.

Info from American Association of Pediatrics:

http://www.aap.org/family/Carseatguide.htm

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Hi! I know the laws are different in all states, but it is suggested that you leave them in a car seat until they are 4 feet 9 inches tall. Statistics show that children involved in an accident do not suffer as many injuries if they are in a car seat/booster. Most of the reasoning behind this is that the seat position the child better & the seatbelt is positioned better on them, so they don't get injured. I have always been very strict about car seat use for my kids & any other children that ride in my car. I have a tall-for-her-age 10 year old that still uses a Graco booster (just the bottom, the back is detachable). She has not quite reached the goal height yet & i feel it is MUCH better to safe than sorry!!! Keep them safe, keep them in the seat!!!

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The recommendation is 8yrs and 80 pounds. My 8 year old is still in a booster. But safety is very important to me to I push it as long as I can.

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Really that depends on State Laws, you should be able to look it up online. Here it's 50 pounds and at least 4 years old. My oldest son didn't reach 50 pounds until this year (he's almost 9). So we only waited until he was tall enough that the shoulder strap fit like it's supposed to (he was 6) because where that hits is actually the most important factor in whether or not it works. It would be humiliating for a 9 year old to be in what he sees as a baby seat. My second son reached the appropriate weight at 6. My five year old daughter still sits in a harness but will probably be moving soon because she's tall enough for a regular belt, even though she doesn't weigh 50 pounds either. The weight and age requirements are based on an average, and they insist that you meet both- but not all kids can easily do that. I think where the shoulder strap sits on your body is actually the most important thing. That's the part that locks in place in an accident.

it's really up to you. you can look on the web for FL laws, but the last time I looked, they could legally get out of a carseat when they were either 4 or 40lbs. they recommend you keep your child in a carseat until they are 8yo, 80lbs, or 48" tall (i think that's it)and to also have them in the back until they are 12. my daughter is 4 1/2, but she is only about 32-35lbs, so she is still in a carseat. my nephew is also 4 1/2, but he is probably closer to 50 and he is also still in a carseat. most of the children in my daughters daycare that are her age are also still in a carseat. i would say that probably about 5-10years ago, people would take their kids out of their carseats immediately when they could, but parents are keeping them in longer now as the carseats become better equipped to hold them. but i think that as long as your son is big enough, and you are comfortable with him being in a regular seatbelt (which he really is already) and when you take him out of the carseat, the seatbelt still fits him right, then it shouldn't be an issue. and you should be fine with letting him out of it.

Robin,
I think in Florida they have to be in some kind of restraint until they are 7 or a certain weight. My son is only 15 mos, so I am not there yet.
Check out this website for more guidelines:
http://www.car-seat.org/

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