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When Are Kids Old Enough for a Trip to Disney??

Our kids are 3 adn 4.. after being housebound for 3 years we are starting to think about vacations again.. We have thought about Disney .. but 2 freinds have said that our kids are too young.. I think they are too young too..

They would not want to wait in line for rides.. my older child has always loved costumed characters but the younger one is afraid of clowns...and such.

They still nap and it seems like a lot of money for a day of disney with a 3 hour nap in the middle of the day.
Wha tis a good age for Disney??

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Definitely too young. I was amazed at the numbers of families with kids who were toddlers and younger. I wondered, "Who are they doing this for?" We just went for the first time this spring and my kids are 5 and 7. My 7 year old was fine, but my 5 year old was still a bit young and would have preferred to stay in the pool and skip the parks altogether. Not only is standing in line an issue, but the transportation time to and from parks eats up quite a bit of time, and the heat can be tough for young kids (my kids are wimps). Do lots of research in advance about park times and the best times to go, etc. Also, plan where you want to go and what you want to do as much as possible in advance.

Summers are extremely hot in FL. The tickets are quite expensive. If you go now, they won't remember the event. Wait until they are at least 5 or 6 yr old and can walk and the younger one isn't afraid of costumed characters. You may want to go early in the morning. Come back to the hotel for lunch and afternoon swim to cool down and rest. Go back to the park around 5pm when the lines get shorter and it's cooler.

Disney is great at every age!! My kids are 5 and have been to Disney 5 times already. They remember all sorts of stuff from previous years. It is a lot of money, but it is worth every cent. There is so much to do that you don't ever have to get on a ride if the kids don't want to. We get there as early as possible and head back for a nap mid-day, and then go into the park afterward. We also go in the off season and hardly ever wait in lines. Everything is so magical and the kids are enthralled and inspired and amazed at every single age. I love Disney and we continue to go every year.

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We just had a 31/2 y and a 2 1/2 y old at Disney World. They did great. There was plenty of things for them to do and ride. ToonTown and Fantasyland are geared toward the younger kids. Disney has a whole pamphlet on doing DW with kids under 5.

If you go for more than 1 day, get the hopper pass. Then you can go in the morning, take a break and rest for a few hours and then go back in the evening. If you stay at one of the resorts, I suggest either the Contemporary, Polynesian or Grand Floridian. They are all on the monorail and getting to and from the park is a breeze!

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I took my daughter last year at two and half. She loved it. That being said we are vacation club members and go regularly. It was the best trip we ever had. But we did take on the attitude that if she needs a nap we would go back to our room and all take one. We loved this because it is rare in the real world that we get this opportunity so that was a huge plus for us. We also did not stress if she didn't get to see everything or that she was too young to do things. We just played it by ear. She was terrified of the characters the first two days then she couldn't get enough. We tried not to force her to do anything she didn't want to. Mt father took me on space mountain when I was four and I still remember how terrified I was. This was because he wanted me to do everything cause he didn't know when we would be back. I can tell you as a four year old I remember my trip and loved it though. I would recommend only going with your kids at this age only if your attitude is going to be laid back. If you want them to experience everything that is offered I would wait. Take care.

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We did Disney when our children were 2 1/2 and almost 5. It was wonderful! There's nothing like visiting that place with little ones. It truly is magical! They had a wonderful time and we felt it was well worth it!

Your concerns are valid. You need to take time to let them rest or they won't enjoy it. You don't want your family to be the ones dragging crying over-tired kids through the park. That's more of a money-waster than taking a break in the middle of the day.

A website I HIGHLY recommend is called TouringPlans.com. They give you a strategy for how to maximize your time at the parks - which day to go to which park, what order to do things. You can customize the plan based on the age of your children, how many days you have to spend there, and what you want to see. It made a huge difference in how much time we wasted standing in line. We were there when the park opened each day, took a break for lunch/naps, and left by 6-7pm and still felt like we'd seen everything we wanted to see by following their advice.

We also paced ourselves by going to the park every other day while we were there and having rest days in between. We were there a week and spent 3 days in the parks. My kids definitely still remember it as being one of our best vacations ever!

I find it interesting that the people who don't recommend going now are the ones who haven't taken their kids this young and the ones who have all thought it was great! Do it!

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Our kids were almost 3 years and 6 months old when they went to Disneyland the first time.

We just took them to DisneyWorld this past Jan. and they were 2 1/2 and almost 5.

They both still talk about it! They both LOVED it! Since we went during Jan. (off season), the longest we waited in line was for our VERY LAST ride and that was 45 minutes. Most other waits were 15 minutes or less. My son dislikes costumed people as well and had NO PROBLEMS at Disney. It's a kid friendly place!

And we took them on lots of rides. Including Haunted Mansion, Pirates of the Caribbean, etc. They were not scared of any of them!

As for naps. Our kids still USUALLY took them at home but on our vacation we would be there at opening and just stayed at the parks till about 6 or 7 most days and then left. They did GREAT! Neither one got cranky any of the 3 days we were at parks! And the last day we stayed till 9.

We did bring a Jeep double side by side stroller that the kids used pretty much the whole time. But there is stroller parking by almost every ride so it was great! And we left a backpack with our lunch in it on the stroller so it also served us well as a holding spot for that! Didn't have to drag our heavy bag on every ride with us.

HOWEVER, if you are looking for a RELAXING vacation, DISNEY IS NOT IT! Disney is a lot of work. Tons of walking. Planning. Money. If you want to go on a relaxing vacation, take a cruise with your kiddos! We've done that twice now too! IT"S GREAT! We recommend Royal Caribbean. (We were NOT impressed with Carnival as that was a total "party ship".) Take a cruise to the Bahamas on a slightly older ship for a really relaxing vacation. That one was our favorite. And because all food is included, it saves a ton of money! As for excursions, there is plenty to walk around and see for free at the stops!

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The first time we took our kids to Disney they were 3 and almost 2. I was afraid they might be too young and we had the absolute best vacation ever. We had so much fun we took them the next year when they were 4 and almost 3. I think a lot of it (just like anything else) is your expectations. We never did make it to see any of the fireworks as the kids were just too tired which was ok. The first year my daughter was a little shy around the costumed characters but loved the princesses and fairies (not in costumes) . A lot of times we would head back to the hotel in the mid-afternoon for a rest but sometimes they just caught quick naps in the strollers too. Also another big factor is when you are going... if you go during the popular times it might be very difficult waiting in lines. We went in the "off-season" - late September and it was great, hardly any lines. The longest line by far was for Dumbo - like 40 minutes or so. All other lines were less than 10 minutes and a lot of times we walked right on. That is one big plus with smaller kids - you don't have to worry about pulling them out of school. Plus the vacation is less expensive when you go in the off season too.

But again, the biggest factor in the success of your vacation is the expectations - whether it is to Disney or anywhere else! Good luck!

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I just wanted to leave one comment for you: Do not believe those parents that state children 3 and 4 will not remember it. My 3 year old nonverbal son with autism remembers our Disney trip over a year later. If you don't think your children will do well there's no harm in waiting but you might be surprised by how things go.

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My boys will be 4 and 2 in October when we plan to go. My oldest is very tall right now (42") and can get on a LOT of rides. Use this website as another backup plan to find if it is even worth going:

http://www.wdwinfo.com/wdwinfo/height.htm

Disney is very expensive and you have to make sure you and your children are ready to take this on. We go to Hawaii every 2 years b/c we have a timeshare there and my oldest (who was 3 at the time) still talks about it. However, be prepared to dump out a lot of money if you are going to stay "on site". We are not going to do this, as I have secured a deal at the Marriott Harbor Lake Orlando for $300 for the week (and it has a kiddie water park!) We priced hotels and this was the best deal for both us and the kids and it gives them something to do other than a plain pool. Look at your options and make sure you are happy with what you're doing cause we now know that believe it or not, going to Hawaii is cheaper than staying on site at Disney!!! We travel constantly, so I am very cheap when it comes to vacations. If you have questions on to how to make your vacation cheaper, feel free to ask.

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We took our daughter last year (April) when she was 3 1/2 and she is still asking when we can go back. We got the Disney planning DVD and went online and worked out which rides would be suitable and we organized out trip around those. We also took a cheap umbrella stroller so that she didn't get too exhausted. We took afternoon naps (which we all needed) and were able to stay up for the fireworks which she loved! Standing in line wasn't too bad as their are so many other kids to interact with and there is so much excitement. We also had the dining plan (the cheap one) and we had more than enough food (we ended up taking the extra food on the plane trip home). Plan ahead and you will have an absolute blast - we are going back in November we all loved it so much.

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