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What Was Your Experience with Getting an Epidural During Delivery? Did It Work?

I had my first baby almost 2 years ago. My water broke at 7am and I went to the hostpital right away. By 4pm I decided I was ready for the epidural. The first injection I started shaking vigorously and felt very nautious. I was told that was normal but I was very uncomfortable that way. However, it did take the pain away. The dr. then agreed to come back every so often and give me smaller doses since I just wanted to take the edge off and not be totally druged out. This went on for about 2-3 hours. By 6 or 7pm no matter how much they gave me, it made no difference. I was feeling every painful contraction. The anesthesiologist then told me the only thing they can do is use what they use in c-section patients that would numb me out completely and then if I can't push they may have to do a c-section. I did not want that to happen so I told him to forget it. So for the next 4 hours and the most intense parts I had no epidural and felt everything!

My sister on the other hand got an epidural and slept for several hours until they woke her up and told her to push!!! She had a very easy delivery!

My question is this, can I be hopeful that the epidural might work properly the next time? What were your experiences with it?
I'm more anxious and nervous about the delivery this time than I was with my first baby. Probably because now I know how PAINFUL and uncomfortable labor is..... =( Even the thought of having to go through that again without an epidural makes me want to cry!

Thanks,

Anxious mama

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I had the same experience with my first child. Shaking terribly and vomiting. But my second experience was the opposite. I was able to sleep and there was no shaking or vomiting.

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I had no problem with my epi. I got it when I started having pain, as I'm very pain-phobic. I also had a nap before it was time to push and had a great delivery.

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You can't control how the epidural will affect your body but you can prepare to be able to manage your own pain in case it doesn't work this time around. Why don't you take a Lamaze class and hire a doula (my doula was still in training and worked with me for free! i gave a generous tip though :o). Even if you plan on having an epidural again, a doula can help make your experience a more pleasant one. Best of luck!

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The shaking and nausea are all reactions to the epidural. Some people get horrible headaches afterwards. That is just how your body reacts to the epidural and it will probably happen again. As for it wearing off so quickly, I guess that just has to do with the dosage and what kind of epidural you get. Some are a continuous dose, some are patient-regulated where you can get more meds by pushing a button. I would talk to your doctor in advance about your past experience and your concerns, so you can work out a plan of attack in advance.
I wanted a drug-free delivery, but after 6 hours of hard back labor at home, I asked for an epidural the minute I got into the hospital. I am pain-killer tolerant, meaning I usually need lots more pain medication/anesthesia than an average person my size, so I didn't think the epidural would work totally or last through delivery. Boy, was I wrong! :-)
I received my epidural around 7 am and that was the last contraction I felt. I had total control over my legs and could even lift my butt of the bed when asked, but didn't feel a single twinge of labor. I had no side effects from the epidural at all. I slept for a few hours, had my water broken, was put on Pitocin and at 1 pm started pushing. That was when I stopped loving my epidural-I couldn't feel the contractions at all or even the pressure of the baby's head. The nurses and my husband had to watch the monitor to tell me when I was having a contraction and when to push. It was hard to push because I couldn't feel anything, but I finally figured it out. After an hour of pushing, my beautiful daughter was born.
I will try to go drug-free again for the next one, however my doctor has told me I will probably have back labor each time and I will probably be begging for another epidural.
Good luck with your delivery!

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Yes, you can absolutely be hopeful you'll have a better experience the next time around.

It all boils down to the skill of the anesthesiologist. I had two deliveries at the same hospital, 20 months apart, with the exact same epidural medication, and I had two very different experiences. The one done by the experienced 50+ year old woman was great, the one done by the young guy that looked like he just got out of med school was not so good.

If you're not sure which way to go when you get to the hospital, ask the nurses who the anesthesiologist on call is and how long s/he's been practicing. That might help you decide.

Don't put too much weight on any one else's experience here. Not only is every person different, but epidural experiences can be different even in the same person.

I wish you a very smooth and painless delivery!

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You've already been through the pain once. You did it, suffered and got through it. This time why don't you think about -and perhaps plan on a natural childbirth and prepare yourself? Try Lamaze! Learn the breathing techniques, get a coach and have them learn them too. When you go into labor, you breathe in a pattern that follows the contraction, while keeping your eyes focused on an object you choose, like the corner of the ceiling and wall or a picture, etc. It subliminates the pain. Your brain is so busy following the pattern of the contraction, telling your body to breathe in rhythm with the ebb and flow of it, and looking at something with your eyes, that it doesn't notice the pain very much. You feel it, but you are busy, so you are not focused on pain. If you slip, your coach is there breathing with you, helping you. Most of the OB nurses know natural childbirth routines and will help too.

I had my two sons Lamaze, all of my friends did too. Our children are grown now and many of them chose natural childbirth.

When my oldest son was born he weighted 8lb 6oz and was 21 3/4 in long. I got up, walked out of the delivery room carrying him. I was a little sore and tired, but my happiness was greater. My second son was premature and tiny after a long labor, and I have always been greatful that I didn't introduce any medications into his system, which was already coping with being Rh compromised and jaundiced.

I have watched/coached a natural childbirth with Lamaze (my nephew) and one with an epidural (my granddaughter) and I can tell you which one was the more beautiful and triumphant experience. My sister-in-law was alert, in-control, and felt well. The baby was large and healthy. My daughter-in-law came to the hospital with contractions 2 min apart, dialated to 7, in a rapid labor. They gave her the epidural at 10:30 am and she began shaking, her back hurt and she vomited numerous times. Her labor slowed, the contractions moved to several minutes apart and the baby didn't come until the early evening. The whole time she was shaking and clutching a barf bag. The epi wore off 2 hours before she delivered and she was in agony with low back pain and pressure. She was white, moaning, sobbing and clutching the bed rail. I had tears in my eyes and my throat hurt watching her misery. We were all convinced that if she hadn't had that epidural, that she would have had the baby in the early afternoon with a lot less pain.

To me, having a baby is a normal function of our body, we need to educate ourselves prior to the birth. We should follow our bodies travel through the process, easing the pain with patterned breathing that provides oxygen for the baby, and allows the little one to enter the world without medications in it's system.

Whatever you choose, I hope your precious infant enters the world in good health and that your experience is a happy safe one!
[hugs]!

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We went natural with my first baby, just used music and water as pain medication. It worked really well... I have a friend who self hypnotized, and had a great birth. I have another who had a the epidural with three of her four kids and each time was different. The first time didn't work at all, the second worked ok, and the third was perfect. She got to the hospital to late for the last one...
Good luck, relax as much as you can
R.

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I went the natural route; heard too many horror stories of epidurals gone bad, possibility of having to have a C-section because you can't feel to push (which I absolutely did NOT want to have), sister-in-law was paralyzed for a bit after hers... I also wanted to have a successful breastfeeding relationship with our daughter and heard that an epidural can hinder latching, etc.

I pulled it off. 36 hour labor with no epidural, all natural. Hey, it wasn't the easiest thing, but I had a Doula and my husband there and I was able to walk around, get in the shower, etc.

Would I do it all over again? Absolutely, in a heartbeat.

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From my experience, it depends on how skillful the anesthesiologist is who is administering the epidural. With my last epidural, the anesthesiologist informed me that it might and might not work depends if he "guesses" right where to stick the needle--wow, that was new one on me because I'd already had two previous children and therefore, two epi's. My first kid the epi was good, I felt mild pain (that was 15 years ago, so you'd think the meds would be better now); my second child--painless childbirth and absolutely wonderful experience, my third--my epidural failed and basically, I went natural--painful, yet very fast.

If I were to have more children, I would definitely try to find the most "skilled" doc or go back to where I had my second baby and pray to God I get the same anesthesiologist that was in the hospital when I had my second baby.

Good luck,

M

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Here are my experiences...none of them were all that good but not that bad either...except #2 sucked pretty bad:
~My first child they gave me the epidural and like you, I was shaky and puked. They asked if i wanted more and I said No! I wasn't completely numb but it took the edge off, that's for sure!
~With My 2nd child they gave it to me and it felt like they hit my bone! I only had partial numbness, only on my right side...it cut down on some of the pain but not all of it, and I had pain at the sight for weeks after wards and also pain in my shoulder and some weird pain that they told me was common when not placed correctly!
~With my 3rd child they placed it and absolutely nothing happened? They kept doing the scratch tests and I could feel everything...they kept adding more medicine but nothing was happening...after like the 3rd time they tried to give me more I had to tell them to stop and to not give me any more...after all, the medicine was going somewhere and I was scared of what might happen? I mean where was it all going? and I didn't want to die ( I know silly to worry about but I was very worried)...I just suffered through the pain and did my best to watch the monitor when I was having contractions...that helped me bunches!

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