What to Do for Kid Going off to College

He is a big boy now.. If he needs anything, HE can go and purchase it.. If you want to send him with anything consider gift cards to the local Grocery store, Target or Walmart..

Each year our daughter has left for college the weeks before, we pick a night to ask her to decide , "where do you want to eat before you leave?".. She usually picks a Mexican Food Place, an Asian Restaurant, her favorite burger place and her favorite sandwich place.. We also ask if there is anyone she would like to have join us or family she wants to see before she leaves..

It is hard to send her so far away, but we keep it together for her sake and just tell her we know she is going to do her best. She also knows if she really needs something she can call, email or skype us.

You are fortunate you all are so close.. Our daughter is over 2000 miles from us once she leaves in August, we will see her at Christmas and then again when she graduates in the spring.

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Bedding
socks
underwear.
Bathroom cleaning supplies.
He WILL have to clean his own bathroom now, if he knows how.

He is only 4 hours away
I am SURE, he can buy whatever he needs.
And if not, that is a learning experience.
He has to learn to take care of himself... and think ahead.
For example: buying toilet paper, BEFORE it actually runs out.

Do not go overboard.... or it 'might' be embarrassing for him, still being treated like a child... in front of the others.

He will be fine.

I assume, he has some kind of money/bank account? That he knows how to use? He'd need money.

And, he.will.not.starve.

College kids, will not starve.
And he has a meal plan.
Good enough.
He can fend for himself.
Only he will know, what he wants to eat and when and when not.
And, college kids eat at ALL hours.
He, will.not.starve.

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You might check whether or not he can cook that mac n cheese. My son's dorm doesn't allow any cooking.

Does he have an under-the-bed storage box? That may be very helpful. Bed bath &beyond has those. And how about a bbq? Be would probably like that.

Congrats!
D.

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-A note about how proud you are of him that he can read once he gets there.
-A picture of all of you (great when he is homesick)
-Sewing kit
-Black markers
-First aid kit
-Ibuprofen
-A blanket throw
-TP, paper towels
-Starbucks gift card for all of those late nights studying
-Gas gift card if he is taking his car.
-Besdie table lamp
-flashlight (those small ones)

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when I was in college, I always needed gas money. Maybe a gift card to QT or something would help out.

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I would maybe make a little book of his favorite recipes, if he ever wants to make a meal or something as well.

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Well, I won't be doing that for another 10 years, but when I was at school my grandmother always sent me CHANGE--for the laundry, vending machines, etc. Really came in handy, I tell you!

Does he have a cell phone?

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Cash!

And plenty of it!

:)

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What I loved from my mom was periodic packages in the mail, esp anything homemade: - )

Maybe asked if he's like homecooked or favorite restaurant. Maybe giving him a reflection letter, about him growing as you know him to the man he is becoming.

The first few months of college can be difficult for some, something that can't be prevented, but love/reminders of home can help.

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Just a little note to say I am not sending mine yet, but - how awesome! I love your idea of a family meal and the "must haves" for a guy - ahem - FOOD:)
one thing my girlfriends and I did was get together for dessert/dinner at someones house - these were my close gal pals - my devotianal group - we all toasted our success with mint chocolate chip or whatever and had a little bible study and scripture verse share time for one last "re-charge" before we went off to the next step. It was so much fun we did it every year for the first four years and after that some were off and graduated and actually working so we kind of stopped then:)
So maybe starting a friend ritual at your house could be fun in addition to the family stuff.

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I would say any thing he NEEDS. He won't have a lot of space probably. So a little extra money maybe, or plates/silverware type stuff.

But I really don't know.

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Bedding, towels, toiletries, trash can, bulletin board, lamp, printer paper, storage crates, laundry stuff, poster sticky tack for hanging things (you can't use nails or real tacks)...

As for his last days in town, ASK him what he wants to do. Maybe his favorite meal, trip to best restaurant, home movies, family game night... whatever he would like to have a nice memory of.

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How does the laundry work there? Do they have a card to swipe or do the machines use quarters? I remember my mom always sent me a roll of quarters for the machines.

As for the send off, ask him what he wants. I'd think a favorite meal of home cooking would be nice since he won't be getting that in a while. And perhaps his favorite cookies or something to take along. During the meal, you could each say what you'll miss most about him.

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Perhaps you can ask him what if anything he would like to do/eat with the family before he moves that distance away. That way it can be things he likes and be about him as a special way to send him off.

make him a laundry basket. go to a dollar store and buy a square basket (this is easier to put folded clothing in than a round one) inside it put a big bottle of laundry soap, a box of bounce, some shout and a package of hangers. add to that a roll of quarters. before he leaves teach him how to do his laundry.

Hi, T., I haven't read the other posts, so I'm sorry if this is a repeat...

You might consider putting together a first aid kit with bandaids, triple antibiotic ointment, cortizone cream, tylenol, an ace bandage, etc. A lot of college kids don't think to have these things on hand, but do end up needing them at some point.

Best of luck with things! :)

Dint forget, cold meds, allergy, cough, fever, and other first aid stuff! Nothing like being away from home the first time you get the flu!