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What Should 6 Months Child Eat from 9 Am to 5Pm?

I am mother of two 3yrs and 6 months and I am a full time student but my children drive me crazy. I tried so hard to keep working but sometimes I just stop and cry and cry I feel so exhausted. my son is breast feeding and refuses to take the bottle, I tried to give him formula in the sippy cup but this also doesn't work so I would like to know what should he eat from 9am to 5pm. Thanks

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As long as your Pediatrician has approved solids, I would think that some of the 1st stage baby foods would help your little one make it through the day (rice cereal, banana, pear etc). Have you tried pumping and using a bottle or did you just try formula in the bottle?

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He should be nursing, or taking breastmilk in a bottle.

You can laydown with him on the floor or on the bed and let him nurse while you snooze. That was the only thing that kept me sane when my 2nd was that age...and well now I have three kids so there is no hope for sanity. But at least you might get a few moment rest.

(((Hugs)))

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I wouldn't take formula when I was used to breastmilk either! Have you tasted it? It's nasty tasting in comparison! Can you maybe find time to pump some and try that? It takes a while for a breastfed baby to get used to a bottle sometimes and sometimes they can be pick as to which bottle they take. Try different bottles, different cups, etc. until you find one he likes. My daughter likes the Avent ones and the playtex drop-ins ones but hated the Dr. Browns, Medela, and a few others.

You could also start giving some foods during the day too. Sweet potatoes, green beans, peas, squash, carrots, and rice or oatmeal cereals are good for this age. The 1st foods or homemade - just make sure they are pureed good and thin to start with. Good luck!

See here for a list of foods by age: http://www.wholesomebabyfood.com/extras/SolidFoodsChart_W...

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Hi M.~
While I can't say that I've tasted formula OR breastmilk, there is truth to the opinion that your baby wants what he is used to. Six months begins a big transition stage for your baby with foods and activity. You are pretty much a slave to baby during the first part of his/her life and it's tough even for the most experienced. I think you'll see a huge improvement in the way your kids interact and play in the next few weeks. Mine are 3yrs and 8months and life has gotten way better over the last 2 months as far as my sanity goes! That said, it's easy to fall into isolation and depression, especially if your life is work, school, kids with no mommy-time (or mommy-daddy time ;)) in between. You didn't give up your identity to be a mommy and it's not necessary to do so. My very first step would be to see a doctor...you can't possibly get it all together if you are living with a true imbalance. As far as nursing goes, this is temporary! Soon enough your little one won't be nursing so relax and enjoy it while you can. Sometimes just changing the way you look at things makes a huge difference...try to embrace these nursing moments and see if you feel better about it, it's the only food he really NEEDS right now, anyway. You can try solids, though...if anything, it's something new and might give you a welcome break if somebody else can feed baby a few bites.

In the long run, this period is such a short one...but it's so tough to make it through sane! Rely on the resources you have (like here) to communicate and give yourself a break! Nobody expects you to be a perfect parent, but your kids will still think you are!!!
~L.

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Hi M., I have a 6 mos old and am breasfeeding. I started my son on solids about a month ago. He will still need milk at breakfast lunch mid afternoon and dinner, and at night, it should still be most of his nutrition. However, he should be eating 12-20 tbsp of cereal and fruts and veggies per day. It takes a while to work up to that much though. If you do a search for solid feeding schedule, you will find lots of information. They all vary a little and should just be used as guidelines. Good luck. PS, do you get away from the kids much, maybe you need a little Mommy time. Sometimes little ones will take a bottle from someone other than Mom. Sit in places where you don't usually nurse. Take him to Grandma's and have her give a bottle. I was suprised how well this worked for me. He will not take a bottle from me.

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M.,

My daughter would never take a bottle - so I pumped breast milk and the day-care workers gave it to her from a regular cup. Once she could sit up on her own, she did quite well. I would go nurse her once a day and she got breast milk from a cup twice a day - and she slowly began solids - peas, beans, etc.

On another note, after my kids were born, I had spells where I would just cry and cry - my doctor prescribed Zoloft and it has really helped me. You might want to talk with your doctor about your crying.

Good luck! S.

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