M.B. asks from Long Beach, CA on July 29, 2010
What Kind of Dog Should I Get?
Hi. I have been always a cat person and my kitty died on Monday. Now my 4 1/2 year old son wants a dog. I don't know much about dogs. What kind of small to medium size dog is good with kids, doesn't bark too much, doesn't need a lot of exercise,doesn't shed, smart, likes to cuddle and play, and would be good with cats?
I know this is a lot to ask, but if anyone has a suggestion, I would be very grateful!
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M.G. answers from Dallas on July 30, 2010
MINI SCHNAUZER!!!!!!
they are the BEST dogs hands down!!! So loveable, friendly, smart, well-behaved. They're very good with kids, small, but not too small (medium-ish), not yippy like other small dogs, love to cuddle, good with cats, great with kids. I promise you won't regret getting a mini schnauzer!
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L.C. answers from Washington DC on July 30, 2010
DO NOT GET A DOG.
Dogs are very different than cats. They can't be left. They need to be walked. They shed. They are a LOT of work.
Get another cat and leave it at that.
LBC
PS - I have a corgi and he's the best dog ever - but he sheds... a lot!
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B.M. answers from Los Angeles on July 30, 2010
Shih Tzu, poodles do not shed. I have found if you adopt older 1 yr. and above they are more mellow etc. But you have to meet the dog and see what kind of reactions you both have. Good Luck!
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L.H. answers from Los Angeles on July 30, 2010
We got a poodle/terrier mix from the OC Animal Shelter. Besides not shedding, the thing we looked for at the shelter was a dog that was not hyper when we approached the cage. We passed on the ones that were jumping around and barking. He turned out to be the perfect dog for us. He is a very mellow little guy, but he does get walked twice a day for 20-30 minutes, which is key for him not getting wound up and disruptive in the house.
We did a ton of research before choosing our dog. We decided on a dog instead of a puppy, which is a huge amount of work.
I watched The Dog Whisperer religiously. I didn't want to like him when I first watched, but I'm pretty hooked now. He has great advice on how to manage your dog. I also picked up a couple of his books, which are also good, but personally, I learn better by watching him actually work with the different dogs. However, the books were a great reference to have when we brought our dog home from the shelter.
If you are able to do your research and put the time into having a dog, like making sure it gets proper exercise and play time, you will have a lifetime friend!
Good luck with your search, and I am so sorry to hear about your cat.
L.
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T.C. answers from San Diego on July 30, 2010
Coming from someone who as always had dogs: it sounds like you are going to have too high of expectations! The dog you want is possible, but only after you work with it A LOT! If you are ready for the work, go to a shelter and get out lots of dogs that interest you- see how they interact and get a glimpse of what they are like out of their kennels. Also check out some sites about breeds that interest you. Keep in mind that some larger dogs actually require less exercise and are better with kids than smaller dogs.
I have to comment on the people who are suggesting a puggle- they are absolutely adorable!! BUT DON'T GET ONE!!! I got one and gave it away- unless you have tons of time or can find one that's already an adult and potty trained (and our vet said all of them that come in their office are problematic this was 3 days AFTER we got ours). She is doing well now- at my brother's house but she has ruined shoes, sunglasses, pillows etc. and has taken almost a year to potty train. We were crate training and she would pee in her crate even if she had just been out- by far the most difficult dog I've ever had to train and after doing more research I learned that these are VERY common problems with them. If you saw her today you'd want her, but trust me you don't want to put in the time and effort it has taken to get her there.
Also- consider breed rescue groups... I recently had someone ask me to take in a beautiful 2yr old because the owners were going into foreclosure and weren't able to find a place that let them bring the dog. It was completely housebroken and leash trained already and over the puppy chewing stage.
Dogs are great, but they are a lot of work! I would suggest a breed to avoid... do not get a beagle! Here's a list of "light shedding" breeds http://www.dogbreedinfo.com/lightshedders.htm Good luck!
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M.G. answers from Dallas on July 30, 2010
MINI SCHNAUZER!!!!!!
they are the BEST dogs hands down!!! So loveable, friendly, smart, well-behaved. They're very good with kids, small, but not too small (medium-ish), not yippy like other small dogs, love to cuddle, good with cats, great with kids. I promise you won't regret getting a mini schnauzer!
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C.T. answers from Detroit on July 29, 2010
daschund( weiner dogs), poodles and dalmation's are not good with children. also try to get a puppy so they grow up with the dog. and please try and adopt from our animal shelter or humane society to give a rescued dog a home. good luck
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C.B. answers from Kansas City on July 30, 2010
ok i would NOT recommend a puppy for your first dog. what i would recommend is, make a list, like you did here, of all the traits you want in a dog. go to your local shelter, (long beach should have tons) and show them the list. don't worry about breed, color, or even looks really, until they show you what they have. my list was similar to yours, and what i had in mind was NOT what we ended up with. we ended up with the perfect dog, i am telling you. she is an english pointer mix, but she's only 35 lbs, and very mellow. she barely sheds. not the breed i would have imagined at all for our needs, but she's AWESOME. the people at the shelters work with the dogs and know their personalities. with any breed, you have no guarantees to what you will get personality wise, just looks. not only that, but why would you spend hundreds (or even thousands!) of dollars on a dog, THEN have to take it to the vet, get it altered, etc....when shelter dogs are already spayed or neutered, up to date on shots, often already trained even, usually for less than $150. for a first time dog owner my advice is even stronger. i'm telling you, talk to your local shelter. visit two or three. the perfect dog is there! (ps, corgis and pugs are awful for shedding - but if you're leaning that way i would take a corgi ANY day over a pug....i can't stand pugs! lol first you have to get past the face, then the slobbering, snarling, wheezing...ew! just my personal opinion. also, small breeds tend to be very territorial, very protective, kind of obnoxious a lot of times. that's one reason we went with a more medium size) i would also GOOGLE GOOGLE GOOGLE. and learn as much as you can. dogs are very different than cats, so the more you know, the better off you'll be. good luck!
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L.C. answers from Washington DC on July 30, 2010
DO NOT GET A DOG.
Dogs are very different than cats. They can't be left. They need to be walked. They shed. They are a LOT of work.
Get another cat and leave it at that.
LBC
PS - I have a corgi and he's the best dog ever - but he sheds... a lot!
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M.M. answers from San Luis Obispo on July 30, 2010
I'm late to respond but here is my 2¢: if you are a cat person, get another cat. At 4.5, your son is way too young for the responsibility of caring for a dog and YOU would end up with the majority of caring for the dog, meaning walking, picking up poop, feeding, disciplining, etc. Cat people don't always become dog people - stick with what YOU like at this point. When your son is older, perhaps 9/10, maybe this can be revisited.
There are shelters out there that specialize in placing cats, plus in general there are many, many wonderful cats of all ages in animal shelters looking for homes. When you are ready to adopt another pet (I'm really sorry to hear you lost your cat on Monday, you might need some time to grieve before getting another pet), maybe your son can help pick out the cat/kitten at the shelter so its a "family" choice. But let him know at this time, when and if the family gets another pet, it will be a cat. When he is older and more capable of the responsibility of a dog, you will talk about it then. End of story, no debate.
Please also keep in mind: if your son is adamant about getting a dog, many shelters are looking for volunteers, people to come in and give dogs/cats attention and affection (petting, etc). That might help him get his dog fix :)
I hope this helps! Good luck :)
M.B. answers from Dallas on July 30, 2010
I'm very sorry about your kitty, it is always painful to loose a pet. I'm not encouraging you not to get a dog. However, I thought maybe I'd tell you a little more about having one.
I just have to say, ALL dogs need good exercise. Even small, lower energy dogs. Every single dog, needs (at least) one good long walk a day. Dogs are made to want to see the world and get out and exert themselves. Without exercise, all kinds of behavioral problems will arise. Also, if you don't have time to (or simply don't want to) take your dog to training classes, I wouldn't get a dog. Sine you've never had a dog, I really thing training is a must for the first one. Any dog breed with a herding or prey drive (terriers, herding dogs, working dogs) are hard to have with cats. With kids, you really have to get training. A situation can turn dangerous without it. Dogs are expensive. It can cost a lot of money for vet visits, shots, etc. My dog got a simple stomach bug and got extremely dehydrated and it cost hundred of dollars for a vet visit. Potty training can be difficult and it's important your children can't get near the feces. Teaching boundaries with animals and toddlers/young children, can be very difficult. It HAS to be done, though. I mean, you can spend hours pulling your kids hands away from various body parts, teaching them not to run at the dog, keeping them from accidentally harming them. It is truly a lot of work. A dog is a very big responsibly and commitment. You can't hope to just bring a dog into the family and leave them be. They won't just come in and be perfect and obey and be playful, cuddly, and loving without any misbehavior. (I'm not saying you expect this, I'm just pointing it out!)
I have always had corgis and they do shed a ton. Yes, they are wonderful with families, but they are extremely high energy. They have a herding drive and are, in fact very vocal dogs. They need mental and physical stimulation every single day. To be quite honest, you can't train a dog NOT to heard. It is they're instinct. You can can give them incentives not to heard and reward their good behaviors. However, you can't take herding out of a dog. They are good with children, but if they get no exercise and get very excited, their instinct is to herd when children run.
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