N.G. asks from Arlington, TX on January 03, 2011
We Spend Way to Much on Groceries.
Hi Moms!
I had lap-band surgery in September and our entire family has become accustomed to our new permanent healthy lifestyle. We are more active, and we eat only whole, nutritious foods. While we love our new lifestyle, healthy nutritious food is way more expensive than the junk we used to eat. We are spending $1000 on groceries monthly, for a family of 4. I think that's crazy. Typically I can't find coupons for the fresh foods that we eat, so we haven't been able to save money that way. I do try to hit up sales for meats. We have a freezer that we can stock up with meats on sale. I think I'm pretty frugal, but is there something I'm missing? There has to be a way to cut that bill down. Anybody have any advice?
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Wow Moms! That's some great advice. I like Bethany's idea of divying up the kids' snacks into containers- I think they probably 'graze' a lot in the kitchen. Also, relying more heavily on frozen veggies instead of fresh is a good idea. As for cutting back on meat- having lap-band requires that I rely on protein in my diet, so I can learn new bean recipes to cut into that a little. And those of you who suggested that I track my spending- I will take that advice, and write down every single food item that I purchase in the month of January. Having it in black and white like that will be sure to help!
Thanks !
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D.P. answers from Raleigh on January 03, 2011
Do you have local farmer's market? That is a great place to find inexpensive healthy and fresh foods.
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V.T. answers from Dallas on January 03, 2011
Do you belong to a Sam's Club or Costco? They usually have great prices on meats and produce. Also, Wal-Mart usually has great produce prices. I don't know how often you go, but maybe you can cut down the number of times you go to the grocery store.
M.H. answers from Atlanta on January 03, 2011
The organic co-op is a great idea. Also, look at what you are spending the money on. Typically fruits, veggies, and a little meat shouldn't cost as much as most things people eat. Freezing what you find on sale is good too. We eat mostly organically....a family of 3 adults and 2 teenagers ...and I don't spend but about $400-500 a month. That does not include a weekly night out with the family so you might want to adjust that number up.
I go between Publix and Fresh Market to get my food. Whatever is on sale is what I buy. I don't make a meal plan first. I buy what's on sale and then make my meal plan for the week. My husband is also a diet-controlled diabetic so I'm real specific about what I do buy.
Sorry I can't help more!
M.
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G.B. answers from Boise on January 03, 2011
Eat more beans.
Oatmeal is ALWAYS cheaper than boxed cereals.
If you have bread or pizza, make the dough yourself and save a ton.
Don't buy soft soap anymore. It's a ripoff. Use bar soap which will last 8 times as long-really!
Dont buy soda and juice. Flavor your water with a squirt of real lemon juice. It also helps you become more alkaline. If you do buy juice, buy frozen concentrated -its cheaper. Then dont make it full strength, water it down some.
Dont buy bagged salad. Buy fresh heads and wash it, dry it, cut it and put it in a zipoc.
Make your own italian dressing and save a bundle.
Make your own laundry detergent. You can even add a little bit of wisk to it if you want.
Use half as much dishwashing soap and half as much laudry soap than is called for.
If fruit is starting to go south, catch it before it does and put it in a ziploc and put it in the freezer. Make smoothies with it.
Rewash ziploc bags- they are too expensive not to. I also keep cereal bags and bread wrappers to use to store food in, as i would a zip bag. I use a twist tie or i just fold it under.
During the summer and fall check craigs list for produce- local farmers can have produce at a 1/3 or of the price at stores.
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D.P. answers from Raleigh on January 03, 2011
Do you have local farmer's market? That is a great place to find inexpensive healthy and fresh foods.
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M.L. answers from Colorado Springs on January 03, 2011
Here are just a few things to think about:
Healthy food is more expensive than junk food. So you may not be spending too much after all.
You might evaluate your grocery bill by seeing how much waste there is. Do you throw out a lot of food? Do fruits and veggies spoil before you can get to them? Are people in your family "allergic" to leftovers? Are there things you buy but nobody eats after all?
Another money-saving routine is to plan your menus, make a list of what you need for those meals, and then shop from the list. Don't allow yourself or your family any impulse buying for a while. Long ago I found that it was more economical to shop from a menu list than to buy the cents-off coupon foods and then try to make menus. I just use coupons if they happen to be for things I was going to get anyhow.
Keep close written track of what you spend at the grocery and for what kinds of food. It's a nuisance to do, but it'll help you see what your money habits are and where your dollars are going.
I haven't looked at the other answers so I may just be repeating what other moms have said. I do commend you for your lifestyle change!
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R.M. answers from Topeka on January 03, 2011
I would keep track of WHERE you are spending your money and see if that gives you an idea as to where you can cut back. Buy fruits and vegetables in season...and they don't always have to be fresh from the produce section...you can use frozen foods that are just as healthy as the fresh, as long as there is no salt and sugar added. Frozen vegetables are wonderful AND healthy when you steam them.
Do you live in a house where you have some land to plant a garden in the spring? Plant half a dozen things that your whole family loves to eat...if you have more than you can eat, freeze them to use in the winter.
You can still use coupons to save on cleaning supplies, cereal, paper products etc. I agree with you that $1000 a month for a family of four is way too much...you just need to pay attention to where the money is being spent...and start price comparision shopping on forzen vs. fresh food.
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A.C. answers from Savannah on January 04, 2011
First, congratulations on your new lifestyle and surgery, best wishes on that. As for the monthly grocery bill, that is a lot, but don't beat yourself up over it right now. I recently moved from the DFW area and have noticed that my grocery bill has gone up 20-23% for the same things---not sure if that is because it costs more here, or if prices just went up at the same time. But it's a big jump. Still, my budget for 4 people (my youngest eats more than my older!) is $95-150 a week (some weeks I stock up on meats and things, other times I've got leftovers and items already stocked, and just need incidentals).
It does sound like a pain, but it is NOT something you have to do forever, once you get into a basic groove and know what things will basically cost, but I suggest that you do look at your receipt for about 6 weeks. Make a little list of categories (home supplies, dairy, fresh produce, meat, etc) and just add up each category from your receipts in a notebook. You will be able to see from looking at this trend where the bulk of your money goes and make adjustments you don't know need some tweaking.
Keep in mind that anything you can peel (pineapples, bananas, melons, etc) or if it's strong enough to scrub down well (apples, pears, etc) you really do not need to bother with the expense of "organic". If there's a Braums near you, I know their hormone free milk was a much better price than at the grocery stores when I was there, and it's delicious. Honestly, we eat frozen vegetables as well as fresh, just depending on what we can get for the price. Eating frozen okra that I stew, or frozen green beans that I steam is not going to cause me to gain any weight or shake up my healthy lifestyle. There are a few ways to tweak your shopping to help out. Again, it's something that may be a pain for now, but after a couple weeks it becomes very easy and you can just breeze through it with practice: first, keep a basic running inventory of what you have. Check the sales ads, keeping in mind what you already have. What could you purchase that you could combine with what you already have on hand to make a meal? Make a menu using the combination of what you currently have plus what is on sale, and make your shopping list from that. If a store has a great deal on meats, I will go there and pick up whatever else is on sale that is on my list, because I do not buy meat at Walmart. However, the bulk of my shopping is usually at Walmart: you can buy whole grains, some organic produce, hormone free milk, whatever there plus the bits I may need to pick up for household goods (soaps, diapers, etc), broth, seasonings, etc. Buy storebrand on certain things. I put an asterisk on my shopping list for anything on my list that is on sale somewhere else if I don't feel like going to the other place, because Walmart does price matching for whatever the ad says, and that saves me from driving all over town trying to save a little here and there.
And yes, I clip coupons too. Dish and laundry detergent, toiletries, milk, canned goods that you do need occasionally, whole grain pasta, coupons for all those things can be found in the Sunday paper. Some weeks are full of coupons, other weeks are lean. But I always saved more than the paper cost every week. I got a little checkbook sized tabbed file folder (found in the office section anywhere) and made labels for my tabs: Cleaning; Bath; Refrigerated; Frozen; Produce; Dry Goods; Canned Goods; Misc (for light bulbs, batteries, insect repellant, etc); Kids (diapers, wipes, activities like putt putt golf, go kart racing, Chuck E Cheese tokens, etc); Going Out (restaurants or whatever that may or may not get used if I was out with the girls for lunch, or on an impromptu date night). I bring my shopping list and a pen, carried in this little file. I organize the coupons once a week by putting them in order by date of expiration (the day I'm cutting them, usually while casually watching TV and talking to my husband, so it's not all wasted time) and I pull the coupons I will be using the day I shop and put them in the front of the case with my pen and list (*do this so you aren't digging around at the register), on the same day I'm making a menu and shopping list by seeing "Ok, I have this on my list--is there a coupon for it?" It's in categories pretty easy to find, and if there's something that is expiring that weekend that I want, I'll add it to the list, or throw it away. I can cut, sort, and organize them all before a 30 minute show is over, while watching the show, so it is not too difficult to try and can save money every week. It is better after a few weeks when you've actually built up a few coupons in "store". You can begin to make it a game where you see what you can find on sale AND be able to add coupons on top of it. My husband got very excited to see how much I was saving that way and realized that it was my way of earning money for the family. Just for kicks, we got a bank and put the money that is SAVED from sales and coupons into the bank every month to see what difference it made. He insisted that I use that money to get a massage, pedicure, or something fun just for me which I thought was sweet. But now that we're moving into a much larger home, the money is being saved for items we need, bit by bit. It can be fun if you want it to be.
A few other suggestions: don't buy bottles of water when you can just buy a brita and just replace the filters. Much cheaper and less wasteful for the environment. Buy a large bottle of juice (we love V8 Fusion and cranberry juices, sometimes unsweetened applejuice) and just pour that into individual sized bottles that you can wash for your kids' lunchboxes. If it's a stronger juice like cranberry or V8, there's no harm in adding a little water to it, to taste. Avoid some convenience foods like bagged salad, chopped vegetables, ready made salads or sandwiches, etc. Purchasing the Ziploc or Glad plastic containers and washing them is better than going through sandwich bags all the time. I send my husband to work with 2 sandwiches in 1 deep container, with his lettuce and tomato slices in a shallow container, rather than throwing away 2 bags a day just on his lunch alone. The bags are more for me to divide meat that I purchase in large packs and put into small bags, then put several small bags (about 4lbs) in 1 gallon size bag for the freezer. I did have a vegetable garden in TX with 2 tomato plants, onions, green onions, jalepenos, anaheim chiles, okra, carrots, cucumber, eggplant, and strawberries. I made my own salsa, spaghetti sauce, and had we enjoyed making omelets and dinners with our OWN stuff. If it gets to be "too" much harvest for your family, you can chop the vegetables and freeze them, or can them. I make my own sauces and use a pressure cooker to can them so they last.
A bag of potatoes may be high on the dietary sugar index, but if it's not the main ingredient and just used to bulk up a stew, or to add a little to your breakfast burritos or fajitas, it will help fill you up without being bad. A bag of potatoes is cheap and can go a long way!
We have noticed over the last few years that American recipes really don't need as much meat as they call for. Instead of 4 chicken breasts, I will often use 3 or even 2 (2 if I can add more veg like beans or eggplant, brown rice, or potato) and it is perfectly fine. Instead of cutting the whole onion and adding it all in, you can often use just half the onion or 3/4, and save a few slices for the next day's lunch. You can healthfully (and tastefully) add beans to recipes that have meat so that you are still getting the taste of the meat and not missing the protein but less fat. Also, instead of buying meat from the deli for lunch sandwiches by the pound, I do it by the slice. (My husband will eat 2 sandwiches per lunch, 3 days a week, 2 slices of meat rolled up per sandwich, that's 12 slices...and if the rest of us want some, add that)---This saves waste from having not enough slices for his sandwiches that he wants, or what to do with 1 single slice leftover. I choose whatever is good that is on sale. The rest of the week our lunches are pasta salads (millions of varieties), a greek salad, or leftovers from dinner. Leftovers from dinner make good lunches and save waste! If your family thinks they don't like leftovers, there are always ways to sneak them in anyway. A roasted chicken, sweet potato, and green beans one night is easily a chicken salad sandwich for lunch, or added to some sausage and shrimp with bell pepper, and our garden vegetables, chicken broth, and spices for a gumbo. We may make hamburgers one day and freeze the leftover patties and serve them later with mushroom gravy, mashed potatoes, and green peas for a totally different meal.
Also, make friends with a pressure cooker! I can buy 7lbs of chicken on sale and season it with poultry seasoning, tonys, garlic, or whatever I want, throw it all in the cooker and it will all be cooked and soft/falling apart in half an hour. I'll freeze them in individual packs to be bbq chicken sandwiches, chicken enchiladas, king ranch casserole, chicken tortilla soup, a chicken-vegetable lasagna, homemade chicken noodle soup, quesadillas (delicious with artichoke, tomatoes, spinach, black olives, and cheeses), arroz con pollo, any variety of chicken and rice you may like (i love mine with spinach, fresh mushrooms, rotels, cream of whatever soup).....etc. There's no reason to go broke OR use every minute of your day trying to make good meals for your family.
That's about all I can think of. Good luck on your new journey.
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M.C. answers from Detroit on January 03, 2011
Food prices have gone way up especially in the past few months. I spend about what you do for a family of four. I read most of your posts and I didn't see this mentioned, in fact, I don't know if moms still today even do this (my mother did it big time as I was growing up and she said that it saved her tons of money---canning fruits and veggies). My parents were immigrants, so I don't know if this is an American thing or not, but I remember as a kid going during the summer to local farms and picking fruits and vegetables. We'd spend hours picking them and we'd can a whole bunch of stuff. We would freeze fruits like blueberries and strawberries. We had a pantry full of canned stuff for months. Needless to say, I never got into canning because I don't have the space to store stuff, plus I think it's too much work, (I'm lazy that way, I guess), but mum swore it saved her tons of cash and we always had fruits and veggies all year long.
Hope this helps,
M.
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A.C. answers from Salt Lake City on January 03, 2011
I love Bountiful Baskets www.bountifulbaskets.org. They are a food co-op and I am pretty sure they have locations in TX. The way it works is you pick your desired pickup location and order your basket and any add-ons you wish at the designated day and time (for instance, every Monday around noon). Then on Saturday morning you show up with a basket and pick up your produce. The lines are generally quite short and you get so much food for a very low price. A basket is $15.00 and you get about $45 worth of produce. You get 1/2 veggies and 1/2 fruits and it is always a surprise what you are getting, which is part of the fun. They do offer organic baskets for $25.00. They will offer different add-ons such as 9-grain bread, "Italian pack" which has a ton of Italian veggies and herbs, cases of fruits such as pomegranates or whatever is in season. It is a great way to get high-quality produce for a very low price. You can also see their page on Facebook and see what other people think about it. I highly recommend!
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S.B. answers from Redding on January 03, 2011
Congratulations on your healthy lifestyle!
It's true, things that are good for us can be really expensive. Especially at this time of year.
We love veggies and fruits, but the prices are ridiculous.
For instance, I was in the produce section today. They had cantelope and my mouth was watering. I weighed one and it would have cost $6. In the summer, you can get a 20 pound watermelon for that at a fruit stand. I didn't buy one.
Some stores are definitely cheaper than others. And, you can find frozen alternatives that are cheaper than fresh. It's not nearly as great, but it's an option. Also, in the case of the cantelope, it might be something I'd splurge on once in a while as a treat, but not like in the summertime where we can have melon whenever we want.
The thing that really helps me is to make a menu for each week BEFORE I go shopping.
Monday: Chicken breasts, baked potatoes, spinach, yogurt with brown sugar for dessert
Tuesday: Baked white fish, rice, cole slaw, berry smoothies for dessert
I just plan things out that way and then make sure I write down all the things needed for each. Frozen berries work great for smoothies. We always have yogurt. A bag of potatoes can go a long way. Cabbage and carrots used to make cole slaw can go into a pot of soup along with potatoes.
I'm fortunate in that we don't have any dietary restrictions or allergies or picky eaters so that really helps too.
This time of year everything seems so expensive, but buying in bulk when you can and getting as many meals out of one thing as you can helps a lot.
I hope you get some really great suggestions!
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