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Want a Career Change

I need advice. I am in the hotel business right now, and I like my job. However, it is not rewarding in the least - either financially or spiritually. I really, really want to change careers, but I am now at a point that I would have to take a drastic pay cut. I am the sole breadwinner in my home, so taking a pay cut is pretty much out of the question. My husband can not work for various reasons. My next option is a graduate degree. Because I am the sole breadwinner, I will have to work and go to school at the same time. I have a two year old, so the thought of being gone all day long (11-12 hours a day) then at night for school makes me cringe. I would prefer to do something online that I can do at my own pace, but I am wary of online degrees. For some reason, they seem "less official" to me. I suppose I need advice on two fronts. For those of you that do have spiritually rewarding careers, I would like to learn what you do. I've been thinking about becoming a nurse, but I am not sure if I would be able to do school and work at the same time. The second bit of advice I need is how to do work, school,and home. My son already has separation anxiety when it comes to spending time with me (I have to make sure I am out of the house before he wakes up because if he sees me leave major meltdowns ensue). I really don't know what to do. The only thing I know for sure is that I feel very trapped by my current situation, and I need to find a positive way out...

Thank you in advance for your advice.

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Here's the good news. You HAVE a job. Look around, many people have been out of work for a year or more. Count your blessings. You say you like your job but you are not "fulfilled".
What does that mean? Few jobs fulfill us spiritually. In fact few jobs fulfill us at all. We are fulfilled by family and faith.
So, if you like your job is there a way to advance in your present career? Are you in management? If not would you like to be? If you had more interesting opportunities in your present situation would you be happier? Many companies will pay for education in order to keep good people. If you want to consider moving up, or into a different area, see if they have something in place to help you. You have experience in the hotel industry. Any industry can be rewarding and fulfilling, IF you are in the right job within that industry. Maybe you can check around the business and see if there is an opportunity in another hotel that would pay better or where the ability to advance is more readily available.

I'd stay put until your child is older. Your child needs you.

Nursing is a wonderful career. Remember that nursing it is a lot of work and although it can be extremely fulfilling, it, like any career is filled with the same politics, the same frustrations, the same difficulties that any career is filled with. Talk to people in the field, in any field you are interested in, do your research before you make any moves.

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In today's market with jobs being so scarce, I am hesitant to suggest you give yours up. That said, if you want to seriously pursue a nursing degree, there are ways. For example, a local state hospital here is so desperate for nurses that they will hire folks to be nursing assistants who have no education, pay them for 40 hours a week, let them work just 20 hours so they can go to school and still have full insurance benefits etc., in exchange for a promise of working for them as a nurse for two years after you graduate.

There are many such programs. Nursing schools (like the one at TWU) can help you find out what your options are. Go in for counseling.

Good luck.
VickiS

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Greetings L., You are blessed that you like your job because a lots of people work on jobs that they don't like but work at to make a living. why don't you do something part-time.I am a Melaleuca Marketing Executive and i would like you to go to this website and look and listen to the presentations, www.Melaleuca.com/DeliveringWellness and put in this password: melaleuca. call M. Muhammad ###-###-#### or email me :____@____.com

I might be have something for you. Respond back to this and we can talk.

A. C
Canyon, TX

Hello L., Sounds to me like you may be interested in working from home. I am with a global, 25 year old company that paid out over $500 Million dollars last year to distributors. We have created more millionaire than any company in direct marketing. There is not a single company out there who can come close to what we have. My website is www.fogel.nsedreams.com. You would still have to keep your job for a while, but since your husband in not working, perhaps this is something he could assist you with. You can replace your fulltime income with a monthly income, making more than you already are now, stay at home with your kids and make more money than you've ever made in your life. I hope you will allow me to give you more information. You can contact me through my website. M.

I am working as a teacher and am currently working on my Masters degree. I am doing it all online through a traditional university. I love the flexibility it allows me. My youngest child is 2 years old. I can wait until the kids are in bed to do my school work. I also keep readings that I need to do with me so that if I have to wait somewhere (like a doctors office) I can get some work done.

Mary Kay is a great career for those who want to stay home but make great income! I have been selling for 9 years and only do it part-time but I just watched someone close to me with no experience come into our company and build a team of over 60 women in less than a year. She is driving a free car (a pink Cadillac, I might add) and is making $1600+ per month JUST in a commission bonus for having a great team of ladies under her. That doesn't include what she is personally doing to earn income. It's not for everyone, but I can't not mention it. I have seen it change SO many women's lives! I had been using the product since I was 15 years old so it was a no-brainer for me when I had children and was looking for a stay-at-home career opportunity! www.marykay.com/tpreston Good luck to you.....I can feel the pain of your decision in your words.....God Bless!

Many regular colleges now offer online courses as well. Perhaps you can check with a local college to see what they have to offer, and see if there are resources you can take advantage of to figure out what career direction you truely want to pursue. Good luck!

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