C.J. asks from Frisco, TX on July 18, 2011
VBAC Vs. C-section Pros/cons + COST
Delivery #1 (4 yrs ago) was a c-section. My heatth was complicated at the time by a seizure disorder and then I had pre-eclampsia. To avoid the unknown of what would happen should an seizure occur during labor, I was advised that a c-section was my only option... To be honest, I really didn't mind - Planning WAS on my high on my priority list back then & it was important to me to round up the family & be in control of the when & where. Plus, it meant (forgive me) no pooping on the table!!! (Always my greatest fear when it came to labor!!!! Oh, come on - - I've heard the same stories you have! LOL)
Now we're on baby #2 and my priorities have shifted. So what if there's a little poo invoved??? By now I'm deep in the throwes of motherhood & poo is a topic of regular conversation at Starbucks!!! I've thrown planning out the window & I'm a woman of no fear. I realize that the sterility of the c-section OR wasn't all that great. I feel like I "missed out" on something, missed that "Baby Story" moment where they hand you your bundle of God given goodness (fresh from the cooker), whereas with a C-Section, you're bound to the table & cannot breathe in the precious moments. Everyone else gets to see, hold, and feel your baby while you lay there looking at the ceiling with tears rolling into your ears.
My health has improved enough where I can ARGUE the fact that I want a VBAC. It will be a fight, but I can plead my case if it's worth it. Is it???
Also - - - if I want to be (eh-hemmmm in the words of Bob Barker) "spayed", would it just be easier to do the C to avoid future surgery? Husband will NOT be "neutered". We're doing our part - trying to control the pet population.
And finally - I've heard there's a wild cost difference. Anyone know any details?? I'm not the bill payer, so I haven't a clue what we paid the first time for the c-section, but we're in a different (less fortunate) situation in our lives now - so if it makes a TREMENDOUS impact on us financailly it could be a decision maker.
Thanks ladies~~
Off to work now.
Have a fantastic Monday!
- C.
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J.D. answers from Dallas on July 18, 2011
Ok... first of all, you made me laugh with your euphemisms. Thanks for that...
I can't give you experience on the VBAC, but I think if you get another C, you need to try a different hospital. I held my baby right after they cleaned her up and weighed her. Believe me... I have pictures to prove it. And, yes, if you are going to control the pet population, I would highly suggest you stick with the C. Otherwise, they are going to have to cart you off away from your baby right after it is born. Can't really do major surgery in a birthing room...
I personally don't get all the hype about the "birthing experience", but that's just me. I don't need to brag about the way my baby came into this world and I don't need the pain to prove she got here. She's here, she's healthy, and my recovery was awesome! Up and out in 2 days and home with my girl.
I would think cost would go up with a VBAC just considering the unknown complications and the unscheduled delivery. Again... I'm just reaching here, so don't quote me on that one.
Have a great Monday and take my opinions with a grain of salt.. Best of luck to you and your new little one! :)
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C.S. answers from Miami on July 18, 2011
Hi C.,
Do your research - and make sure it is current. The American College of Obstetrics and Gynocology (ACOG) changed their position last year - it is now recommended that moms with one or two prior c-sections have a trial of labor (TOLAC) with a plan for VBAC. I am not sure how your seizure disorder will figure in - discuss that with a VBAC friendly doctor in your area.
I had a c-section for my first baby due to a failed induction. The induction was so that my doctor could keep her planned vacation and get the $$ for my son's birth. There was no medical indication for the induction given or in my medical records. I didn't know any better.
My second baby was a planned VBAC turned CBAC at the last minute. Even so, I am glad that I went into labor with him naturally and labored, drug free for 42 hours. He is a much healthier baby than my first, breastfed better, etc. There is lots of medical information that everything from asthma risks to celiac disease risks, etc are higher with c-section babies. Risks for mom and baby are higher with a repeat c-section than with a VBAC - it is that simple.
The second c-section was a much more difficult recovery for me. Partly because I had a 4 year old to take care of as well. Also, keep in mind there are alternatives besides a surgical tubal. You can do a tubal with less-invasive laproscopic surgery and you could look at Ensure (an in office option with virtually no recovery time).
If you decide to VBAC with your doctor's support, get a doula to help you and make sure you are educated about labor. A very good friend VBACed on Friday and she said that it was the best thing that ever happened to her and she had labored since Wednesday night! Contact ICAN and look to your local chapter for support.
C.
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M.M. answers from Tampa on July 18, 2011
Due to your seizure disorder... you'd have to find a willing OB - Midwives would most likely not take you on, unless they were part of the OB team. ICAN would be able to give you referrals to VBAC friendly OBs in your area.
So - after all your body has done for your husband and family - pregnancies, surgical birth, possible VBAC - your husband will not do a simple 15 minute procedure which he will be back to the man he was the day after... would rather you suffer from more surgical procedures that requires anesthesia (which vasectomies do not) because not only is he a wimp, but he can't hack it as a man of his family? That's pretty sad.
VBACs will be cheaper... cesareans start at $16K in FL, so I"m assuming at least that much in TX. VBACs would be around $6-9K since it's a vaginal birth and you should not be getting all those extra interventions (pitocin, epidural, etc) due to it messing up the rhythm of labor and child birth. Those interventions cost a lot of money!!
Cesarean is not a necessity to have if you finally do go thru with getting a tubal. I'd seriously look into that syndrome many women get when they have a tubal before the onset of menopause... that may be something you and your husband discuss for your health, before getting it done. Tubals can be done thru the belly button laproscopically... no cesarean necessary.
http://www.tubal.org/symptoms_of_pts.htm
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M.C. answers from Dallas on July 18, 2011
It sounds like it's worth interviewing care providers to find out what your options are. If you're up for a bit of a drive, Dr. Cummings in Denton is an excellent OB who does VBACs, and he won't steer you wrong if it's not in your best interest to try for one.
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B.. answers from Dallas on July 18, 2011
I think you need to talk to a Dr. and Midwife, before you try to argue a position. You might not be a candidate in any situation, period. I know the birthing center in my community, would probably not allow you to do a VBAC. I had far less complications, and I am not a candidate. If you are deemed a possible candidate, then you can start making your decisions and arguments. I am not against VBAC, at all. However, we can't properly access your risks. I would get a copy of your chart and take it to both a Dr. and Midwife, and see what they say. If you want to get a tubal, a c-section could be your best option.
Birth is expensive. REALLY expensive. Either way you do it, you'll be out thousands and thousands of dollars (Without insurance.) A C-section (I believe) costs more then a VBAC. Keep in mind, an failed attempted VBAC that turns into a c-section, is more expensive then either.
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A.C. answers from Columbus on July 18, 2011
I don't have a lot to add. My first child was a horrendous c-section and it was an awful recovery from which I suffered post-traumatic stress (it was a true emergency, with docs rushing in and slamming down on the table, and their arms up me, etc.). If I had the choice with a 2nd child, I would try a VBAC.
However, if you opt not to do a VBAC -- and ICAN, aka International Cesarean Awareness Network is a wonderful resources; contact them for local providers who are VBAC supportive -- you can opt to get your OB on board for a "natural c-section"--it's a much better experience for you & baby:
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/health/ar...
And do find another hospital if you can.
If I were having my tubes tied, I might go for the c-section, just to have it all done at once & avoid another abdominal surgery (the more times they cut open your abdomen, the more likely, you'll end up with adhesions & other nasty complications).
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M.P. answers from Pittsburgh on July 18, 2011
Funny you should talk about your 'baby story' moment! That is what I always say when I think about my birthing experience. Leading up to my first I watched that show all the time and would cry every time when the baby came. When if came to my delivery my labor did not progress and they had to do an emergency C section and then my son was not healthy so had to go straight to NICU. I was so depressed about being deprived of this imagined joy of when the baby was first put into my arms. A part of me will always be a little sad for that. When I was pregnant with my second I thought about a VBAC-but then quickly decided that my baby was more important than my personal need for this satisfaction and fullfillment of a vaginal brith. The second C section was 100 times easier than the first and I never regretted it for a single second. And you know what-I do not have ANY of the problems that all of the vaginal birth moms seem to have now-mainly the bladder issues. My lady parts are entirely still in place-a nice side effect of a C section. I don't know anything about cost-we have 100% coverage insurance.
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S.S. answers from Daytona Beach on July 18, 2011
if you are going to get "spayed" than i would go with a C. i did with my second. much less complicated, and i actually felt much better with the second C than i did with the first. i was able to leave the hospital a day early. i'm also not sure of the cost. if you have insurance you should be able to call the insurance company. at my hospital with the second baby, we had to have a pre-registration where they told us the cost of everything. i don't know if you would have that also.
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