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Used Clothing

I look about 20 items to a chain consigment shop today. They took 3 things and refused the rest. Can anyone help me come to a happy place in my head about this?
One sundress did have a tiny green dot of permenant marker on the skirt, so I understand that, 2 of the jeans looked a little bit worn in the knee, but 5 other pairs of pants were in good shape. and the rest of the shirts did look as though they had been washed more than twice, but they weren't pilled or faded.

If the clothes were not acceptable to be resold by a consigment shop, should i then assume that they would not be good enough to be resold through Goodwill or Salvation army? Added: I remember hearing before that it costs these charities money to sort and dispose of unsellable stuff, I just don't know how to tell if it's unsellable.

I have a co-worker with a daughter 3 years younger, who has sort of hinted before that she would be intersted in handme downs but that seems like a long time to store stuff and the mom is always dressed immaculate so i'm wondering if she would be ok with less than pristine handme downs. She is the only one I know with a younger daughter, everyone else has boys.

What is your limit of wear with kids clothes, would you put your kid in a shirt with a mustard stain on the sleeve for playclothes or is that the point were you through it out??

If i tried to craigslist it or yardsale it, how much could i possibly get for used jeans?
If i can't donate or give away the stuff, Do I just put it out with the trash?? Apparently i was raised in the woods with wolves and just don't know about this stuff.

thanks!!

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That helps a bit, please keep it coming. I guess my problem is that when people say, "you'll know when to throw it out" they are wrong, I really don't know. The stuff i took in to resell, i thought would be good, enough. I do see your point about seasonal items, They say they buy everything year round but I might have better luck in season. And the funny thing is that as a shopper i look at a faded gymboree dress and think --no way i'm going to pay $8 for that. so all i end up buying from them are nice condition faded glory type stuff.
I probably will freecycle.

If anyone has more to say about what is good condition adn what isn't as far as handme downs I"d love to hear it.

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Most thrift stores such as Goodwill will take anything. You can also donate them to a homeless or domestic violence shelter. Many women come into a domestic violence shelter with only the clothes on their backs.

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Ask the friend if she'd like them. I have clothes stored that are 3 years too big for the kids. I keep them put up by size and season and am well prepared. She may be too.

Did you ask them specifically why they did not accept the items? I know that one day I was at a local resale shop for children's items and someone in line ahead of me had been trying sell stuff to them. There was quite a bit that they did not accept. When this person asked why, she was told those items weren't needed at that time, as they had plenty in stock. However, they also told her, that she could bring them back another time, maybe they would be able to take it then. They also told her that sometimes it is better to bring stuff in when it is out-of-season.

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Consignment shops these days have gotten super picky about things. Many more people are consigning now with the poor economy so they can be more picky and in return sell them for higher prices. I can shop at Walmart, Target and Kmart cheaper than buying used at consignent shops these days!

I would take pics of your stuff and sell on Craig's List or wait for spring for yard sale season. If you want to give them away Goodwill or Salvation Army will take them.

There's also Freecycle to give away locally to specific people who want them.

Go through all your avenues first before donating them though. There are options out there!

K. B
mom to 5 including triplets

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I volunteer at a "high end" thrift shop. We don't take clothes that are stained, ripped, torn, missing buttons, etc, etc. For adult clothing we want stuff that is relatively recent, or high end labels. So probably similar to consignment.

We take in bags of clothes, and carefully review all items before they go on the floor. Any item that is not good enough for us gets passed down to Goodwill. If it is really trashed, it gets thrown away. Our motto is "would you buy it?" We are not giving clothes to people, we are selling them, and our merchandise has to be clean and nice, or our customers will not come to our store.

When you have clothing you tend to skip over the little imperfections because they are yours. When looking to consign or to donate to a high end thrift shop, step back and pretend you are coming across the item in the same store. Turn it over and look for anything that would cause you to not purchase it. If you find anything small, donate it to a shelter or goodwill/salvation army. If you find anything big, you should probably just throw it away or use it for rags. Even people at a salvation army, or a shelter deserve nice things.

I used to think "gosh we are picky" but I get some really cute things for my three year old at the thrift shop, as do the other volunteers. So now I understand - I'm one of our customers too!

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Most thrift stores such as Goodwill will take anything. You can also donate them to a homeless or domestic violence shelter. Many women come into a domestic violence shelter with only the clothes on their backs.

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The consignment shop probably didn't take your sundress because it's winter. The ones around here will only take what is in season.The worn out jeans wont sell at a consignment shop. The other 5 pants you don't tell us what they are, but if they are khaki's or something then I would understand her not taking them. That's not winter clothes.
Good will would ABSOLUTELY take clothes like that...I see them there all the time.
Unsellable is if the zipper doesn't work, there are obvious holes, they have tons of stains, they are ripped or torn. You wouldn't buy that, right? If you were to yard sale worn jeans I would expect to get .50 for them.
I would not buy a stained up shirt to put my kid in to play, we have plenty of those already!
Laura

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Goodwill and the Salvation Army recycle clothing items that they deem inappropriate for sale (they turn them into industrial cloths or ship them overseas). Your local humane society might be able to use old clothes as bedding material or rags.

I don't mind hand me down or thrift clothes that are a bit worn but I won't purchase anything with holes or major stains. A little staining around the cuffs of a jacket is different than a big old fruit punch stain down the front of a dress.

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Check out threadup.com. I've gotten rid of and bought clothes on this sight and it works out great for me! The beauty of it is you can be totally honest about the clothes ("their for play" "there's a small mustand stain" etc) and that way people make an informed decision about whether they want them or not. There's items from all seasons year round and they take ALL sizes - not to mention toys, books, household stuff, etc. If you can't get rid of them on there then I would donate them to a charity - maybe a church or a women's shelter.

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A consignment shop is a business. It can't afford to take articles it doesn't think it can sell. Consignment prices are just higher enough than thrift stores to make customers very, very picky. If I saw something with the slightest mark on it at a consignment store, I would think it was not worth buying.

On the other hand, at a charity thrift store with the considerably lower prices, I'd think, "Hmmm... would this be good for play clothes? Maybe so."

So see what thrift stores are near you. See if there is a pregnancy center, also; ours is always looking for clothes up to size 4T. Call your coworker and invite her to look through the clothing and take what she thinks she would like to save for her daughter to grow into. (Warning: she'll pass up things that you're sure should have been too cute to pass up. It always happens.) Remember: you bought the clothing for your child to wear, so it's done its job. For someone else to be able to use it is just frosting on the cake, so to speak.

As far as whether the clothing is "too bad" to donate to a charity, toss out the stuff that's really awful - you know what I mean. Give the rest to them and let them sort. They know what to look for, and they would rather look through your things than not have them at all.

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Consignment shops have gotten way too picky for me. I hold two garage sales a year where I put anything that is in decent condition. Whatever doesn't sell, I donate to the local women's shelter.

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