S.F. asks from Dayton, OH on June 09, 2008
Twin Toddler Escaped Crib!
Over the weekend one of my twins climbed out of the pack-n-play while we were out of town on a long weekend. We tried him in it again with the same result. We were hoping this wouldn't carry over to his crib but tonight he escaped his crib. Needless to say we have had quite the difficult time getting them both to sleep tonight. I pulled their mattresses our of the cribs, gated the door and did a quick sweep of their room. This was just for tonight. I obviously need a more long term plan. Any suggestions on how to get them to sleep on their own on their mattresses? They were great night time sleepers as well as nappers. I hope we can make this transition and get back into that great routine. I know that I will probably also have to double gate the door becuase my climber almost scaled the gate tonight. Thanks for your suggestions. I can't take another night like tonight. It's 11pm and they still aren't asleep (their bedtime is 7-7:30).
So What Happened?™
Thanks for all the advice! We decided to remove the one side of the crib to make a toddler bed. We didn't realize we could do this since our crib wasn't marketed as a convertible crib. They were excited about this! The furniture had already been secured but I also removed all toys except books. They only ever had a mattress and one stuffed animal in their crib so I didn't have to worry about bumpers, etc. We continue our bedtime routine as it has always been, bath, books, cuddle time, bed and we lay them down and run for the door (which they can't open right now but we will get knob covers). Then they just have to cry it out. In just two nights they have cut down the crying/whimpering to just under 30 minutes and when they wake up they put themselves back to sleep. They even woke up talking to each other this morning and knocking on the door for daddy who usually gets them up. That was very nice. And yesterday they put themselves to sleep (although on the floor right next to each other, but how cute!) for a nap. All in all, it's been hard on the parents but I know we are doing the best thing for them and getting them back to the point where they are excellent sleepers. Thanks again for all the advice!
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L.A. answers from Columbus on June 11, 2008
they are 2 maybe they are ready for toddler beds although i have no experiance with twins all my LO,s were in toddler beds when they were able to walk good and climb.
i agree with some of the moms that spoke of the bedtime routine and taking them back to thee bed as often as needed..
i dont agree with caging them like animals...
N.C. answers from Columbus on June 10, 2008
You could try crib tents. I have them on my twin's cribs...although I use them to keep the cat out of their cribs. I have heard of lots of people using them to keep their kids IN their cribs. Good luck!!
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A.G. answers from Cleveland on June 10, 2008
i too have twins born in july of 2006! lol! i bought them twins beds in march. i gated the door and baby proofed their room and took the toys out. they too were and still are good sleepers. for the first 4 days we let them explore their room during nap and bed time. at night they went to bed quickly though. to tired to explore. we let the exploring get out of the way. by the 5th day we did the super nanny trick. we would lay them down for their nap or night time and tell them sweet dreams, hugs and kisses. that whole deal. the 2nd time they got out of their beds we went in the room and told them it was nap time or night night and put them in their beds. the 3rd and there after times we just went in a put them in their beds and didnt say anything. the first couple days it took maybe 20 times, but by day 6 they were not getting out of their beds and fell asleep fast! i hope this helps!!
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T.M. answers from Bloomington on June 09, 2008
my daughter is in her "big girl bed" for the 3rd night in a row. we have both a crib and her "new bed" set up right now, and i just give her the choice. if she doesn't stay in her new bed she has to sleep in the crib. i can't believe how simple it's been...
with twins maybe you need to seperate them so they don't keep each other up? just until they get used to the idea of sleeping w/out a crib?
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S.S. answers from Cleveland on June 10, 2008
S.,
I have twin girls who were born in Feb 2006 - and thankfully they haven't even attempted to climb out yet (although they love climbing on everything else). I just wanted to thank you for posting this question, so we can have some ideas in store for when they do climb out. I wouldn't seperate them though - if your boys are like my girls, they would throw a fit if we put them in different rooms!!!
Good Luck!!
H.H. answers from Elkhart on June 10, 2008
The crib tent is one of the best inventions yet. But I would like to warn against the double gating the door way. My freind did that with her son who was also a climber. Apparently better then given credit for he managed to climb both gates and fell as he went overthe top. Resulting in a broken ar and CPS getting involved. So just a little input on double gating. We thought it sounded smart but in the end it really wasn't. Lots of luck sounds like you have your hands full.
P.B. answers from Canton on June 10, 2008
I feel very strong about it being time for BIG BOY beds. My daughter started climbing out of her crib at 15 months and was on a big mattress by 16 months. When I could afford the frame, the transition to a BIG GIRL's bed went smooth. Rarely had any problem with bedtime with her after that. I made a big deal about it being a BIG GIRL bed and she loved it. Yes, I think it may be time for BIG BOYS' beds. Youth beds come in all kinds of styles and colors. There wasn't hardly any when my daughter was young, so we put her on our old mattress near the floor until I could afford a bigger bed for her.
M.C. answers from Cleveland on June 10, 2008
My son got out of his crib, too. We ended up buying a crib tent. You can get them off the internet. We googled crib tents and there are lots of sites to go to. It velcroes over most standard cribs and its hard to un velcro these pups to change crib sheets, so your little Indiana Jones' won't be able to escape. It also zips closed like a tent, and they can see out. As for escaping the pack and plays, my old neignbor used to have to turn their playpen upside down to curtail escaping, it worked for herLOL!!!
J.P. answers from Cincinnati on June 10, 2008
My son (Aug 2006) did the same thing a couple months ago. So we had to move him to the toddler bed. I baby proofed his room, but after about 3 days of adjustment, he really doesn't get out of bed anymore, he just cries when he wakes up until I come and get him. My tip though is about the gates - a friend of mine told me to 'flip' the door handle around so that the lock is on the outside. It works great for us!
N.C. answers from Columbus on June 10, 2008
You could try crib tents. I have them on my twin's cribs...although I use them to keep the cat out of their cribs. I have heard of lots of people using them to keep their kids IN their cribs. Good luck!!
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