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Trying to Loose weight...what Is the Best Way?

Well I'm only 23, 2 children, and I'm overweight. I'm still in my maternity clothes and my baby is 4 months old. I feel like I"m getting no where and I used to be a size 3 after I had my first baby. So needless to say, I am unhappy because of my wieght and I feel like if I lost the weight, I'd have a happier marriage as well. My husband doesn't put me down or anything, but I'd really like to start feeling better.

Right now, I started going Jazzercise, an areobics class, and I try and go 2 or 3 times a week. I also try and walk sometimes in the evenings. It's a lot of fun and it makes me feel really good after I've worked out. The other day though, someone asked me if I was pregnant! I've got this belly that just won't go away.

Please help! What do I need to eat? Am I doing the right thing by working out? I'm clueless.

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Hey N. -
You DON'T need any fancy diets or supplements to lose weight!! What you (or anybody) need is diet control and exercise. I'm not a trainer or dietician, but I've been a competitive athlete for almost 20 years of my life (I'm 28 yrs old). (I figure skated for 16 yrs and I'm a triathlete.)

1st: get control of your diet!! Teach yourself to eat the right foods at the right time. You do need carbohydrates in your diet, especially before your workouts, otherwise you'll burn out and feel fatigued and get discouraged. Weight watchers is a good place to start. With their plan, you learn to manage your hunger without overeating and nothing is "forbidden", it just comes with a cost. I also like the "Body for Life" book. Even if you do it solo - log your food/water intake!!!!!!

2nd: start with workouts that inspire you. Set a goal: "today I'm going to do 50 crunches", or whatever works for you, and gradually increase them as you get stronger and change them up so you don't get bored. Create a schedule for yourself that you stick to instead of just saying that you'll go work out today. My kids love to go to the kids' center at my gym, so it's not like you're torturing them! I force myself to take the time to workout - you can always fit it in to your schedule (and I have 2 kids and I work).

Also - it's really important to have a support system. Teach your kids about healthy eating. If your husband is not on board with changing his diet too, it will be harder for you. My husband is not a competitive athlete, but he works out daily and eats the way I do, so it helps me stay focused.

If you have questions, you can PM me or email: ____@____.com

Good luck!
C.

P.S. I forgot to mention that changing your body and your habits are never easy, so don't expect them to be! And, I know how you feel - I was injured as I was trying to get back into shape after my 2nd baby and couldn't run, and got discouraged and stopped exercising. I gained weight like when I was pregnant and was even more discouraged. But, I took care of my injury (plantar facitis), got better, started again and lost 30 pounds. I am competing in a triathlon on 10/5/08 and 6 months ago was 3 sizes larger than I am now.

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N...do check out a Weight Watchers class..they even have a program for nursing mothers; it's not a matter of dieting..it's a lifestyle change and WW can help you obtain it!
Continue the exercise though; it will help you get to your goal faster.

N.,
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D.

If you want to eat healthier and exercise more for you, then that's okay. But please don't worry so much about your weight when you have a four-month-old!! Many women (myself included) just can't lose the weight while they are still breastfeeding. Once I stopped, the pounds almost magically disappeared (really ... I didn't change my habits that much). Even if you aren't still breastfeeding, give your body a chance to recover. I know its frustrating to be post-baby and still have the extra weight but it takes some time. Good luck!

N.,
My husband lost 30 pounds in three months and never was hungry while doing it. He loved the program. Email me with any questions. The great thing about the plan is that you lose inches as well as weight. The diet consists of replacing two meals a day with shakes or meal bars. There are snack bars and tea to help. The third meal, usually dinner, is a normal healthy meal. The shakes and meal bars are packed with protein, fiber and leucine........which helps maintain your muscle mass and metabolism, preventing yoyo dieting. If you do this and exercise you absolutely will lose weight, and you will feel great. The plan is called CINCH and it is put out by Shaklee. I'd be happy to help you. I'm a believer... Everyday my husband is living proof that it works.
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Well at least you are being positive thats the first step. Now add to your workout for your stomach were the stomach belt not too tight when you walk or do aerobics theis helps sheds extra inches. And if you have excess to a sauna or steam room do 15 minutes then come out then go back for another 10 and in two weeks will see a difference. Food eat alot of fruit and veggies and protein with out the fat.

N.,

I have a botanically based skin care, health and wellness company.

I've incorporated out weight loss regiment and lost 16 lbs in 3 months. I know that doesn't sound like a whole lot but it's better/healthier to lose slowly and keep it off than to lose it real fast. I lost that weight just by using these products and I didn't even work out. So I can just imagine if I did even a little working out what the results would be.

All of our products are botancially based, hypoallergenic, no animal products or by products (vegan and vegetarian certified), never tested on animals, and contain no mineral oil. Every ingredient is pure, safe and beneficial!

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Take care and God bless!

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Hi N.,

For help with both weight loss and reducing stress, I recommend checking out www.VitalHealth.TunguskaMist.com

Read all the info on adaptogens, and the new fast acting oral adaptogen sprays called Tunguska Mist. Adaptogens are a category of herbs that help the body deal with stress, restore balance, and support normal metabolic processes. Often times stress causes us to overeat as well as produce excess cortisol (causes the body to store fat). Adaptogens support weight management by regulating blood sugar, insulin metabolism, and cortisol levels; aid in digestion; and increase energy. In fact, adaptogens have the ability to shift the body's metabolism to a greater use of fat for energy.

The rapid release delivery system of the adaptogens in Tunguska Mist Pure and Tunguska Mist Slim will help bring your body into balance, reduce stress at the cellular level, and suppress your appetite to quash cravings. They are convenient to carry with you and take whenever you feel stress coming on, or need the extra willpower to support your weight loss program.

You are definitely doing the right thing by working out...Keep doing that (The fact that you're having fun and feel really good afterwards is AWESOME! That's gonna help you stay committed). Are you also weight training? Lean muscle mass will help speed up your metabolism, thus you will burn more calories. Avoid fast food, processed foods, and especially all types of soft drinks, if you are not already. Eating 5-6 small healthy meals throughout the day, while drinking plenty of water helps keep your engine burning!

2 great books that I recommend are: Living Lean, by Larry North and Adaptogens: Herbs for Strength, Stamina, and Stress Relief by Winston and Maimes.

Feel free to contact me if you have any questions, or need further advice/encouragement. I've studied health, wellness, and Kinesiology for many years and have a passion for helping people change their life.

Believe in yourself and focus on your goals! You can do it!!!

Best regards,
N.

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