J.S. asks from Oakland, CA on March 27, 2008
Traveling with 3 Month Old
Hi,
In a few days my 3 month old and I will be traveling to Puerto Rico to visit family. He is a fussy baby and he now likes to sleep and nap while nursing on our bed. The flight is 11 hours long and I am worried about him not falling asleep on the plane or being fussy and upset and me being by myself. I would love any suggestions on how to manage this flight. Thank you!
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Thank you so much to everyone who responded. I feel so much more relaxed and confident. You provided so much detail and information that I feel prepared for the long trip.
Very much appreciated. I will send you all some sun shine from the island!
J.
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M.F. answers from Salinas on March 29, 2008
Even the fussy ones generally love sleeping on planes I took an all day flight with my daughter at 6 weeks and she slept most of the way. For your comfort just be ready with padding for arms to nurse a lot and bring something to wear him on the plane to bounce him around and keep him sleeping while you eat sleep or read a little! Enjoy babies generally love flying
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M.F. answers from Modesto on March 28, 2008
Have you tried a sling? He can sleep snuggled up against you and it is easy to nurse that way too. Best of luck to you! Have a good trip!
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V.R. answers from Redding on March 28, 2008
Give him benedryl just before the flight. It will keep his ears from getting to plugged which can be very hard for babies on flights. Our doctor told us to use it and the side benefit is it will make him sleepy.
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T.B. answers from San Francisco on March 28, 2008
I have two children ages 2.5 & 4.5. When each was 3 months we went overseas, Taiwan and Japan. Check with the airlines, most that go to other countries have a bassinet they attach to the wall for the baby(they give you the seats right behind it). It's attached after take off. There is no extra charge (we just had to pay the taxes for our babies). You can take the baby in/out as you please. Make sure the airline is aware of the baby and the baby will need a passport. During take off, if your baby isn't sleeping make sure he/she is sucking/swallowing so that the ears clear. Both flights for us were great. Good luck! I noticed someone suggested benydril. I never did this but have heard it's best to try it before you leave. Many kids, including my own get hyped up from medication and in prevents them from sleeping. T.
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J.G. answers from Redding on March 28, 2008
traveling with an infant can be exhausting and exhilerating at the same time, its kind of scary just knowing your going to be by yourself but dont fret, I have been traveling with both of my infant sons and everything seems to work out. One big thing I can tell you to do is nurse the baby when the plane is going up and when going down to help with pressure on his little ear drums if he isnt swallowing when his ears need to pop they wont and hell have discomfort which could lead to crying. I just pretty much feed and coddle the whole time Im on the plane, the hard part is when they grow up and are 1-2 yo and screaming for something fun to do so enjoy this easy time when you can feed your way through. Also try to keep him away from the strangers as much as possible just because people carry around so many viruses, etc.Goodluck!! After this you will feel like you can do anything!!!!!
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T.B. answers from Sacramento on March 28, 2008
We flew to FL with my son when he was 3 months old. I was worried about trying to nurse him on the plane for takeoff and landing, so I bought one of those cover things to drape over us. I think it made the people around me more comfortable than myself. We brought the Bjorn with us, and ended up strapping him to our chest to sleep. If he takes a pacifier, bring a bunch, they have a way of falling onto the nasty floor, even with paci clips. The white noise of the plane is soothing to most babies, so they often will easily fall asleep. If all else fails, you can always walk up and down the aisle with him to comfort him. Our flight was much easier than we anticipated, and we were relieved. The flight home was a little harder, I think because we were all so exhausted, but still bearable. You do have to ignore other people if your son gets fussy. There isn't anything you can do about it and are trying every trick you know. Some people will be very understanding, but there is always one or two who can be rude. Just ignore them, if they make you flustered, your son will feed off your frustration and be more fussy. If you normally swaddle him to sleep, I would do that on the plane too. Anything you can do to encourage sleep. 11 hours is a long time on a plane for an adult, so for a baby without a change of scenery I'm sure it can seem endless. Not sure if he has a few favorite toys yet or not, but bring anything from home that seems to soothe him or that entertains for a long time. My son liked our keys, so we put together a key ring for the flight of blank keys that we washed first so that if they got lost we didn't lose our keys. That provided hours of entertainment. Good luck.
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K.M. answers from Chico on March 28, 2008
Hi J.,
Get yourself a Moby Wrap www.mobywrap.com You can order one directly from their website or find someplace near you that carries them. It only takes practice putting it on 2 - 3 times to get comfortable with it. I found that while traveling with my 3 month old by airplane she was able to settle easily and comfortably to sleep because she was secure against my body and it made walking through airports easier. With a little practice you can become comfortable nursing in the moby as well. The airline will allow you to wear it during the flight as much as you want except during take off and landing. Congratulations on your new baby. Best wishes for you trip. - K.
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J.P. answers from San Francisco on March 28, 2008
I just took my 4 month old daughter on a flight for the first time! It was really nerve racking and she is really fussy as well. Everyone was really understanding and I apologized ahead of time for her crying. As soon as the seatbelt signs went off I walked around up and down the isle with her and hung out in the back by the bathroom most of the time.
11 hrs is a long time so that might not be too helpful. Try Children's Benadryl. It makes the baby sleepy. I give it to my 4 month old before bed on the days she scratches since she has eczema. My doctor said it's perfectly safe. If you buy the premeasured children's benadryl, give your baby about 1/5 of the individual serving. It helps our baby sleep better without scratching her head all night from her cradle cap/eczema.
Also, try nursing or feeding the bottle when taking off or landing. That might help calm them down and hopefully fall asleep at least until the seatbelt signs turn off.
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