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Too Little for a Toddler Bed?

My daughter, Hikari, is now 17 months old. Lately, she has taken to pulling apart her crib. I would go into her room and find 2 or 3 bars completely pulled from her crib. But this morning she had removed at least 7 or 8. My husband turned the crib around so that the side with the missing bars is right up against the wall. But I do worry about her squeezing a limb through. My main question is this. People tell me that when a child is able to climb out of her crib, then they are most likely ready for a bed. But there is nothing said about a child who dismantles her crib.
Hikari will be 18 mos on Feb 19th. Is she old enough for a toddler bed? It seems kind of pointless for me to buy another crib at this stage.
FYI The crib is old. My mother-in-law purchased it at a yard sale. So I have no idea who manufactured it. It was in good condition at time of purchase, though.

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We're shopping for a toddler bed! Since Hikari is going to be a big sister in October, we figure it' s about time we stop treating her as a baby.

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I would try the toddler bed when she takes a nap and see how it works!

Everybody said my daughter was too young for the toddler bed when we started using it, but she has always stayed in it with no problem! I put the gate across her bedroom door when she goes to bed and once she falls asleep, I move it so she can only walk between my bedroom and hers, so when she wakes up in the morning, she usually just climbs into my bed and snuggles with me for a little while before ripping off my covers and telling me to get up!

I would say YES, get that kid a bed. My girl just got a bed at christmas time and she's soon to be 2, and she was still waking up 3-4 times a night and that 1st time in the bed she slept through the whole night. It could work for you too. Get one of those hard plastic toddler beds, not so easy to tear apart.

I had to put my son in a toddler bet at 12 months because he had already learned how to climb out. There is no age, it's what's right for each child. I was lucky, though, my son had no problem staying in the bed and going right to sleep. Many kids, I would think, would rather get up and run around and play if they have the option.....good luck.

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My advice would be the bed would be safer. The only thing is if she is able to dismantle the crib, she'll be able to gain access to most of the house. Make sure you have child safety locks, etc on everything. All 3 of my children were out of the crib by the time they were a year. My oldest was climbing out of the crib when he was only 7 months old! He was walking at that point too, I thought it was cool for a week. My 2nd child was dismantling the crib too but she started that when she was only about 10 months old. And we put her to a bed thinking we were done. Then we had baby #3, and had to buy a new crib and she stayed in it the longest but right before her first birthday she would climb out of it constantly. The last time I had her in the crib she fell climbing out of it and broke her arm. So to a bed it was and she was fine. The crib sounds really dangerous, I would say go with a bed. So I would say yes put her to a toddler bed and safety lock everything~

my oldest was always climbing out of his bed. I put him in a toddler bed at 17 months, with the one side against the wall and a mesh gate type thingon the other. good luck.

I would say YES, get that kid a bed. My girl just got a bed at christmas time and she's soon to be 2, and she was still waking up 3-4 times a night and that 1st time in the bed she slept through the whole night. It could work for you too. Get one of those hard plastic toddler beds, not so easy to tear apart.

WOW. How in the world is your child getting the bars off the bed? Perhaps you should be contacting the manufacturer of that bed. That is a serious accident waiting to happen!

We purchased a brand-new, cherry 3-1 crib off EBay for our daughter. (Paid $300). What I like about these is not only does it go from Crib to toddler bed to Adult head and footboard. But when moving the mattress down, it is almost at floor level, so we do not need to worry about her climbing out or falling out! I had a friends who's son fell off the couch that was 2 foot from the ground. He fell onto carpet and only cried for a few seconds. We thought he was fine and then a week later he had to be rushed to the hospital with a major skull fracture. The doctor's said that even from a 1 foot fall children can recv serious injuries.

My 4 other boys never had a problem with the switch to beds, but we only did a toddler bed with one child and the other 3 we did regular beds with large rails.

Wow...she must be a strong little girl. My son is 19 months and he throws everything out of his crib and is starting to look like he might be too big for the crib. He hasn't climbed out yet, but I know the day is coming. We've purchased the side rail for a "big boy" bed and a gate for his bedroom door in preparation for the big switch.
I think switching her into a toddler bed is a personal decision. If you think she is ready then go for it. From what I've heard some toddlers transition very well if they are ready to make the change, which it sounds like maybe she is.
Best of Luck!

my son now five seemed ready for a toddler bed at 18months and he did great with it he is now five and has a bunk bed now and his sister didn't get put into a toddler bed until 2 and half she just wasn't ready she is now 3 and half and is in a twin bed now and my new daughter 4 months has the crib and i have no idea when she will be ready for a toodler bed...so if you feel your daughter is ready then move her and check the crib instruction alot of them convert so all you have to do is take the side off...

A.,
i am worried about the quality of the crib you own. A 17 month old should not be able to dismantle it. YOu can try a toddler bed and maybe put a play yard around it to keep her contained. If there isn't a lot of "Stuff" in her room to possibly get hurt on, go with a toddler bed and a gate in the doorway to keep her from roaming through the house. Either way I would not let her sleep in that crib one more night. It sounds dangerous to her. Good Luck!

J.

Let me know how things work out for you!

I think your daughter sounds just the right age. All 3 of my boys moved to a toddler bed between the ages of 15 - 18 months and my youngest went straight to a twin bed (which we put very high mesh rails on). I wouldn't suggest a twin bed though unless she's just not comfortable sleeping on a crib mattress anymore. Only 1 of my boys could climb out of his crib at the time but the others were just ready. As a mother you kinda just know. If she's dismantling it she's apparently not too happy in it. LoL Hope this helps a bit.

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