M.E. asks from Maryland Heights, MO on May 23, 2008
To Induce or Not?
I am 39 weeks and 2 days pregnant with my first baby. I'm 35 yrs. old. Yesterday, I went to OB for Pre-delivery tests, Ultrasound says that baby's head is low in my pelvis, baby is "practice breathing" very well, the placenta looks good, there is plenty of fluid. Non-stress test, shows baby reacting exactly is she should. I was told everything is just fine. I'm about 90% effaced and dialated almost to 1. They estimate that the baby is about 7 lbs. My problem is this, the doctor wants to induce my labor with Pitocin on Tuesday. When I asked him why, he said, well I think the baby may be getting bid and there's a possibility that the baby will poop in the amniotic fluid. Now, I have been up on my reading and on all the "lists" of reasons to induce these are not on there, unless you are 1 or 2 weeks past your due date. I questioned the nurse about this, and she says he does this very rarely and that I should trust him because there must be a good reason. My problem is, I cannot get him to tell me a "good" reason. I have even told him that I needed a better reason or I most likely will not show up on Tuesday. He did not offer a better reason, but only said that I then must show up to his office on Wednesday to repeat the same series of tests I just had yesterday. Anyway, question is: Has anyone heard of inducing the day before due date on a first baby without actual tests showing distress for mother and/or baby? My main concern is that Tuesday's he is usually at the hospital all day and does not have office hours...therefore, is it just more convenient for him for me to deliver on Tuesday? I am really AGAINST the use of Pitocin unless it is absolutely necessary. Tahnks in advance for your input!!!
So What Happened?™
I did go ahead and get induced, though I cannot exactly say why. My husband thought that maybe the doctor had a reason even though I could not understand it. Honestly, I was tired of worrying about it. Anyway, everything went just fine. We have a baby girl, 6 lbs. 12 oz., 19 3/4 in. I did receive Pitocin, labored in the hospital without pain meds until I was almost 6 cm dialated. I received an epidural then and just a few hours later the baby was born. I am thankful that everything went perfectly. The staff at St. Luke's were awesome and helped me to cope with my decision to be there for the induction even though I didn't want to and couldn't justify a reason. They told me that at 3:00 p.m. if nothing was happening I could just go home and try to let nature take it's course. At 2:30 p.m. I was preparing mentally to leave the hospital, but at 2:45 p.m. my water broke, so there was no turning back at that point. Thank you to everyone who responded. This was the toughest decision I have had to make in my life.
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R.M. answers from Lawrence on May 24, 2008
Sounds to me like you are doing the right thing in questioning this. I don't know what your relationship is like with this provider, and I do acknowledge the importance of trust in these situations, but he should be able and willing to provide a full explanation for any intervention in your pregnancy. No matter how common, inducing labor in a healthy mom/baby is an unnecessary intervention, especially pre term, and often has undesired and understated consequences. Research has shown that the use of induction often leads to additional interventions and increases the chance of a c-section (see excellent book by Henci Goer). The idea of a baby being too big is silly and I generally feel is an excuse used by doctor's to intervene. The actual number of babies that are too large to pass through their mom's pelvic area is pretty small (you can find info on this online and in most books on pregnancy). I would encourage you to continue to talk to your Dr and explain that you are not satisfied with his explanation. Have someone who is supportive of your views with you because it is really hard to advocate for yourself in these situations, especially when the health of your baby is concerned. Most of all, trust your instincts!
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A.M. answers from Wichita on May 24, 2008
I had pit with one of my 6 babies and it was so much worse a labor than any others!! The pit make the contractions much harder to labor through. I was then pushed for a epidural (which I am TOTALLY AGAINST). IF you want to try to induce labor more naturally, go buy a bottle of Evening Primrose Oil. Pop open a capsule and you or your hubby can rub it on your cervix. It will help....Do this about 2-3 times a day until you go into labor. It sounds like your dr wants you to deliver on a day that is convenient for HIM and not you or baby. If you and baby are fine, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!!! Baby will come when it is ready, and NO dr should tell you when, especially if the dr can't give you a GOOD reason to induce. A baby pooping meconium during birth is not a common thing, and most likely, the pit and harder labor with MAKE the baby go into distress and poop too soon, and most likely the dr will want to rush you into the OR for an "emergency" C-sec. All I can say is TRUSY YOURSELF!!!! Your body and baby know what to do!!!!
~A.~
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Rebeka 10/91 (hospital/MW)
Aimee 6/93 (hospital/unassisted)
Scott 2/96 (hospital/Dr)
Anamarie 11/02 (hospital/MW)
Heather 12/04 (hospital/MW)
Mikayla 5/07 (unassisted home birth)
BLESSING #7 DUE OCTOBER 7, 2008
Doing Self-prenatal care and planning another Unassisted Family HomeBirth
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C.M. answers from Kansas City on May 24, 2008
Above all, follow your gut. It is always good to listen to your doctor's concerns but you still are the one that makes the final decision. I have never been induced but I have always heard from other women that Pitocin makes labor a lot worse then when you are progressing on your own. Perhaps you could come up with a different solution with your doctor that will make both of you happy. If you are already dialating then perhaps they can just break your water and let your body do the rest without the Pitocin. Be insistant with your doctor and let him know that you don't feel comfortable with the idea. He might be more concerned because of your age since this is your first one but he should be up front with you about it and should not take the holier then thou stance that so many doctors these days can get. You know your body best and you need to listen too it and so does he.
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V.S. answers from St. Louis on May 24, 2008
If there is no medical-emergency reason to induce and you don't want to be induced then don't induce! Stick to your guns. You've done a great job of reading up on induction and advocating for yourself. Keep having the tests done to make sure all is well, but don't be bullied into an induction just because your baby might be "big". Women have been giving birth to big babies for hundreds of years without being induced. I've always found that to be the most ridiculous reason for an induction. At this point in your pregnancy, there is no truly accurate way to know exactly how much your baby will weigh at birth. Something tells me the nurse was fibbing when she said your doctor "rarely" induces if the reasons he's giving to justify it are a "big" baby and the possibility of meconium in your amniotic fluid and he won't provide you with more in-depth reasons. That baby will come out when he or she is good and ready. Good luck!
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A.W. answers from Kansas City on May 24, 2008
I wouldn't show up. It is your decision. When I had my daughter they kept trying to get me to schedule and induction and I refused. I went 9 days past my due date and was fine. As long as you and the baby are fine I would refuse. I ended up going into labor on my own and delivering with no pain medication. I was completely against pitocin since that is what my MIL had with her youngest and he now has medical problems that were possibly brought on by the pitocin.
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C.R. answers from St. Louis on May 24, 2008
I was induced four times for four different reasons. Doctors do love to induce. (I used three different OB/GYNs for four pregnancies.) However, I have heard that it was bad for the baby to poop in the amniotic fluid and for the baby to ingest it. I understand your concern for doing things unnecessarily, but if the baby is big enough and you are so close to labor anyway, why not make it convenient for you too? You get to pack your bags better, half the family is notified already, so prayers are already being prayed and it's not so hectic. I know you probably don't want to make things easy for the doctor but being induced is not a big deal. However, if you are doing it natural 'no drugs', then it will may it a 'little' harder on you. I always wanted a surprise Labor but never had one - but I don't regret any of my inductions. MY first child was when I was 32 and my last one was when I was 40. In case you think the "Advanced Maternal Age' has something to do with it. Good Luck to you, my prayers are with you, and remember, you get to have a beautiful little, tiny baby, maybe sooner than you think! :)
*Maybe you'll go into labor B4 Tuesday!*
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C.P. answers from Kansas City on May 24, 2008
M.,
As a 50 year old mother of 8, it amazes me how complicated the medical community has made having a child. God created our bodies to create and birth babies! Sometimes it is a lot of hard work, but MOST of the time, everything works out just as HE planned from the beginning of creation. I did not have any inductions or any medications during labor for any of my children who ranged in size from 8 lbs. 10 oz. to 10 lbs. 6 oz. (The smallest was #4 and the largest was #6) I had 4 of the babies when I was 30 years to 39 years old. I was closely monitored for pre-eclampsia and gestational diabetes from the second baby on, due to the birth weights of my children, but NEVER had a problem with either one. I am NOT a super woman, nor am I "large-framed" I am simply a woman. Go with your heart on this. It sounds like your baby and you are on target for a wonderful delivery at just the right timing for the both of you. Perhaps, you have even gone into labor as I write, but if not, it sounds like your body is preparing for labor as is your baby. Best to you and enjoy your little one!!
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A.R. answers from Topeka on May 24, 2008
I was 10 days overdue with my 2nd baby before I reluctantly agree to be induced. I personally feel that baby will come when ready but at 10 days, and no sign of labor, I agreed to induction. He was born big - almost 10 pounds and the placenta showed signs of calcification so I'm so thankful for the induction. I think you should consider your dr. opinion and then make your own decision. Induction just to get baby hear early and at a convenient time for your Dr. isn't what I would consider a justified reason - but thats just my opinion! Good luck to you!
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