Thinking of Taking 3 Month Old to Concert

Hi there-I also have a 3 month old it is hard enough going to the grocery store let alone an outdoor concert-not a good idea I would leave him at home. It has been so hot and humid even in the evenings I would be careful about that.

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I personally wouldn't. Let Grandma watch the baby which she's probably happy to do for you, and you and your husband go and enjoy yourselves for the evening. What a great way to reconnect and focus on you and him!

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PLEASE,PLEASE,PLEASE DO NOT TAKE YOUR 3 MONTH BABY TO A CONCERT!!!! I don't think that you will be allowed inside with an infant. I feel bad for you because I'm thinking that you don't have anyone that you feel comfortable enough to leave your baby with and I know how that is because I felt the same way when my children were growing up. All I can say is you might have to pass on this one but just remember that one day you won't need a sitter. Good luck,

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If it were me, I would only take an infant to a classical music concert, not an amplified concert. And only if comfort breastfeeding is an option to keep them quiet. Both of my children were sensitive to too much loud noise, whether it be a party or loud music. Besides, little ones' ears are MUCH more sensitive than our ears. Be patient, you will be able to enjoy concerts again some day when your baby is older and you can leave him with a sitter.

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Honestly, there is no way I would take a baby to a concert, ear plugs or not. I am not big on what people think but people will be looking at you and thinking how awful that is! I have seen babies at a race track and I love racing but wouldn't take my baby there! But your child, your decision.

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If the baby doesn't behave, you'll spoil not only your night but others around you. Its not an appropriate place for a young infant for so many reasons.

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I don't think a concert, no matter where it is, is a place for a 3 month old. Don't just think of him and his earplugs, but what about the other people that paid money to be there? What if the baby cries because the music is too loud or he is hungry, etc... Why don't you find a sitter for him and enjoy the evening with your husband. With a newborn, you deserve a "date" night.

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I would not take an infant or toddler to a concert, no matter what the type of music or venue.
My husband and I went to a Harry Connick Jr. concert about 8 years ago in Columbus (at Polaris/Germain Amphitheater)
There was a group in the row behind us that were being REALLY loud, constantly using profanity,drinking A LOT and refused to be even remotely quiet. Luckily it was just my husband and I, but after an hour of them getting worse, I politely asked them if they could quiet down some so that we could hear better. They started cussing at me, tried to pick a fight, threw beer around, and one guy even stood at the top of the aisle waiting for us to get up and start something. AT A HARRY CONNICK JR. CONCERT ! ! ! They obviously didn't come to hear him, but it just goes to show you what kind of people you can run into where you least expect it. I can only imagine that the probability of running into something similar would be much higher if you're thinking of attending something more mainstream. I agree with the other posters. . I don't think it's appropriate and you risk upsetting others that purposely left their little ones at home for a kid-free evening.
Good luck on your decision!
E.

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I would not take a baby either, ear plugs or not. Let it be a night just for you and your hubby. Anyway you want people coming up to you to see and touch your baby when you're trying to enjoy yourself? I also think it may be to much for the lil one.

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I agree with Crystal. I think concerts should be reserved for date nights with your spouse. Children will grow quickly and get to concerts soon enough. No need to start ear damage at a young age! Even with earplugs damage can occur.
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I would keep the baby at home. Even with the earplugs the amps at a concert are still too much for their little ears. Find a sitter for him and go out. The music may scare him and he may do a lot of crying. Even outdoor concerts are very loud and can harm the ears. Either find a sitter for him or you may have to forego the concert. It is not a good idea at all.
D.

I am 31 and have been married for almost 12 yrs. My husband and I have 3 boys ages 10,7 and 4.

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