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Thing to Know Before Buying a House

It's still early and not for sure yet, but my husband and I are finally talking about buying a house. I have been looking a little and found some places that would be so great. It's scary, but I am so excited! The market is low, so that we could get a pretty nice house for cheap. So what are some things that you wish that you had known or that someone had told you before buying your house? Thanks in advance!

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Thanks ladies for all the answers keep them coming if you can!
Thanks for helping me through all of this crazy that is about to ensue lol! I will definately refrence all these answers and be checking them all.
We do realize that it is going to be hard, and frustrating and just plain difficult. We are making a list of have to have, and wants. We are going to be picky while doing this process because we have time. We arent going to jump the gun and buy the first thing we see.
We are already qualified to do this by the VA, my husband was in the Army for many years, so we dont pay PMI and they cover our down payment for us. So we are good to go for that and are already saving our money while we look and get everything squared away so that we have extra for any sudden costs that we might need. And we are thinking about a 3-4 bedroom house which we can afford so that there is room for more babies in the future.
Also no I am not looking for a fixer uper. I dont mind fixing a few things here or there, and I dont mind painting, I am actually looking forward to doing that and being able to call it my own and not have to ask if we can do things! Yay!

Its going to be a big task but there isnt anything I want more!

Thanks again for all the great answers you guys are great!!

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Think about not only what size of home you will need now, but 3 or 4 years from now. We just bought 2 years ago, and have outgrown the place as the kids have grown.
Also, not only run water, but run hot water!

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Flush toilets, run water and see if the dish washer runs! As you can see I'm a little WATER obsessed.

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School system
Crime rate in neighborhood
Drive by the potential home during day and night-see how the house is affected by street lights bc those things cant be moved!
If you can drive by after a good rain to see how water flows on the property.
Look at potential maintenance in the yard-mulch, mowing, shoveling etc...be sure you don't bite off more than you can chew with those
Cell phone service
How is the home heated/cooled

Good luck and have fun!

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My advice to you... get a home inspection.

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Flush toilets, run water and see if the dish washer runs! As you can see I'm a little WATER obsessed.

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Think about not only what size of home you will need now, but 3 or 4 years from now. We just bought 2 years ago, and have outgrown the place as the kids have grown.
Also, not only run water, but run hot water!

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Leave at least 30 days open to report things that might be defective, like plumbing or electrical issues in the escrow instructions. The clock didnt work on our oven in our brand new house, and it NEVER did, it always kind of made me mad. Talk to the neighbors, drive down the street and through the neighborhood on wknds and Friday nights. Don't get yourself too far from grocery shopping or too near any noisy things like an airport, train, dance club, etc. Try to get a fixed rate loan with a low interest rate. If you dont understand things, dont sign them, have a real estate attorney look over your agreements. Weird things can happen if you dont know what you are doing. Make sure you get the kind of homeowner insurance where if either of you pass away, the mortgage is paid for. My stepdad died last year and left my mom with 30k yet on their mortgage, it's a bummer.

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I agree with all the other posters. And try to think ahead.

When we bought our first house I was just 7 months pregnant with our 1st. I didn't 'think' like a mom yet. So our sloped driveway on a blind corner was a pain, because the kids could never play in the driveway for fear of a ball or big wheel rolling down the driveway into the street. Soooooo. . . . when we looking for our second and current house our kids were 7 and 11, (now 17 and 21) but I went into every house thinking of teenagers. And it is VERY teen friendly. Our basement had a full bathroom and a full kitchen already which was nice.
We also drove out there at different times of the day. When we were ready to make a decision it came down to the house we were in and one other. I noticed as we left the neighborhood of the other house that there didn't seem to be any kids. We drove back out to this house and saw the swings in the back, skateboards in the front, etc.

And as others have said, a home inspection is a must. And make sure you don't go cheap or with a family friend because 'he'll cut you a deal'. That was our mistake with this house. Family friend cut us a deal. If he wasn't so worried about whether or not my kitchen sprayer worked he might have been able to catch the bad siding that was part of a federal class action suit! Within 2 years we were putting stucco on our house, at our expense because the siding was literally rotting off the side of the house.

Again, someone already mentioned, it will be more expensive than you think. Just the moving expenses, even if you do it yourself, can be more than you think. Something will come up, so don't stretch yourself so thin going in. I'm not sure with how the whole market and economy is, if they will be as pushy. But just because your bank says you qualify for house that is X expensive, you don't have to do it. Both of our houses we bought under what we qualified for.

Oh, and probably something I don't think I saw this mentioned, but try to look beyond paint color/wall paper and decor. I am NOT a design person and I don't have a 'vision' of what I can do with something. But I did know that painting is easy (I like to paint) but removing wallpaper can be a pain in the behind, and to replace carpet can be expensive.

And take your time, if you can. We were not moving out of state and staying in the area so we looked 2 years. We had our list of things we had to have and found the house! OK, it turned out to be the money pit, (stucco, windows replaced because wood rot covered with fresh paint, steel piers under one corner, replaced every door knob, every faucet, both hot water heaters, etc), but I LOVE my home and I LOVE my neighbors and neighborhood.

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Like someone else said - try to determine what your actual monthly payment will be after you add taxes, insurance, etc. You might need PMI (private mortgage insurance) if you cannot put down 20%, which will add more to your monthly payment. Also remember some places have HOA dues, which I think can increase as time goes on, but I don't know. Don't get an adjustable rate - crazy lenders are still trying to push these even after everything that happened a few years ago - there is no way anyone can be positive they are going to move within a specified amount of time because your house value could drop below what you owe. Having said that, I think someone already said this, but whatever place you buy, don't discount that you could be there forever, so make sure you like it. :)

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If things about the house need to be fixed, get an estimate for how much they'll cost BEFORE you buy the house. Not that the current owners will be responsible for your changes, but some things that you think would be cheap are actually very expensive, and vice versa.

Make a list of "negotiables" and "non-negotiables." You'll be happy if you get some of the things on your "negotiables" list, but you'll have a much harder time being happy if you give up on the things that are really important to you. Do this by going (mentally) room by room and thinking about everything that you would want. Gas stove in the kitchen? Carpet or hardwood floors? Minimum number of full baths? Etc.

Happy hunting!

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