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The Perfect Cocktail

So, this question is far less important than most, but hopefully it will be a fun one for some of you. I am going "out with the girls" to an upscale restaurant next week for the first time in far too long. I am not a drinker, and I haven't had much more than the occasional glass of wine in the last 6 years of conception, pregnancy, and braastfeeding. I want to order a nice cocktail but I need suggestions.

I don't want to have a fancy "kids" drink with an umbrella but I don't want an old-lady drink either. What is trendy these days and befitting a 30-something woman? FYI, I like tart tastes and don't want to taste the alcohol - no vodka on the rocks for me - :)

Thanks for indulging a silly question!

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Just wanted to comment on the fun request! ...and I KNOW how you feel... I've been permanently pregnant or breast feeding for almost seven years (4 kids)... now it's OVER! I need to go out, too! (I know NOTHING of cocktails)

Good for you! HAVE FUN!

Cosmopolitans are fun. They are vodka and cranberry and come in a Martini glass so they are very sheek looking. They are a bit strong though so if you're a light-weight right now it may be a bit much.

You've been virtually alcohol free for the past 6 years. I would suggest sticking to wine. I think anything else may be too strong for you or "creep" up on you. You could also ask the bartender as soon as you get there.

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I LOVE mojitos!! Not sure what is in it but it is refreshing, not heavy!! It comes with a sprig of mint and a piece of sugar cane. Have a great time!!

A Mojito would be perfect. Many places have flavored Margerhittas and Martinis. Malibu (coconut rum), cranberry and pineapple can also offer you a tasty not-to-sweet drink.

Sounds like the perfect occasion for a simple (and classic) glass of GOOD champagne!

I don't know if this one was just at the one bar I had it in or a common one (I'm in the same boat as you, been pregnant and breastfeeding so long I'm out of touch with the cocktail scene), but if you like tart you could ask for an apple jolly rancher. It's some kind of martini I think made with sour apple schnapps.

Personally I'm more partial to the sweet when it comes to mixed drinks and I love, love, love white russians. The way bars mix them you can't taste the alcohol at all. I also like buttery nipples, especially since the alcohol content is so low you can't really get drunk on them even if you try! lol!

If you like tart - Appletini, hands down. Tasty and no alcohol flavor.

I was a bartender for almost 10 years and often spent a good deal of time talking to customers about what their tastes were and what they were looking for in "the perfect drink." If you get to a bar when it's not too busy, I'd recommend budgeting a little time to talk to the bartender. They will know what ingredients they have and what they can make to best suit your tastes.

When I go out and want a beverage to sip on, the Midori Sour or Melonball are favorites of mine. A Blue Motorcycle or "Blue Bike" is a classic turn on the Long Island Iced Tea. Tasty and blue... always popular, but a little stronger. The trick is always to find a good bartender. Even popular, seemingly foolproof drinks can go horribly wrong is not mixed properly. Stick to wine, beer, or liquor. Don't mix. Good luck.

Have a great time with the girls. On occassion, I go out with the girls - maybe once every other month. And while I am not a big drinker, I do enjoy a drink with my friends. You can't go wrong with a martini - I usually go for the fruity kind, either pomegranate, raspeberry, grapefruit, or lychee.

Have a great time.

My latest favorite is the St. Germaine Cosmo at the Oceanaire. Delicious!

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