I have 2 boys,ages 13 and 5 yrs, whom both are aspies. I believe my 13 yr.old still has a baby molar left but I would suggest seeing a dentist just to make sure they're baby. My older son has been on certain meds that have caused his picking to get worse, picking his lips, eyelashes, hair out, and scabs.Even without meds. though he still does these things occasionally when he needs to comfort himself. Certain meds also stop or minimize this behavior.The goal is to help them find a comfort that is not dangerous to themselves. If your daughter is on medications you might want to speak with the dr. about it. Also your daughter is at an age for puberty to start and WOW do things change at that point; behaviors, meds not working as well and their bodies changing and not understanding why. I hope I've been of some help.I know the frustrations, the joys, and the love of having an aspie and I'm still learning. Good Luck!